BonVivant
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BonVivant reacted to Leyte2019 in How to handle a rude escort
In other words, there are other fish in the sea (perhaps many more if you're in a large enough market). To hell with him.
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BonVivant reacted to + DynamicUno in How to handle a rude escort
Maybe he's busy, maybe not. It doesn't sound like he's been actually rude, unless he's asking for much more details than needed to set up the appointment.
If you think he's leading you on, it's a good sign to look for another guy. There's not much else to do since your not out any money and haven't met yet.
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BonVivant got a reaction from Scott Virginian in 411 - CAMILOURIBE
Anyone partake or have info on this cutie: https://rent.men/CamiloUribe ?
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BonVivant reacted to pubic_assistance in Martinisb It's a shame that he's more bottom
I am reading this comment differently.
Pretty sure Lucky meant they were "disappointed" that the provider didn't provide what they wanted...not shaming the provider for bottoming.
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BonVivant got a reaction from + cougar in Skyler The Twink in L.A. 411
Fine, I’ll start… he’s a lil Pocket Twinkie.
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BonVivant reacted to wsc in 411 on Giovannitalia - London based
Enticing young man! I'd just need a room and some caramel topping,😛
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BonVivant reacted to Rod Hagen in Skyler The Twink in L.A. 411
Oh my god I miss the days when we could do that. Also, nobody makes fun of old escorts like me anymore. Why is everyone so fucking nice these days? What the fuck? Seriously.
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BonVivant reacted to Kevin Slater in Skyler The Twink in L.A. 411
Cue the twink bashing in three.. two... one...
Kevin Slater
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BonVivant got a reaction from jtwalker in New face Jeremyjacobsxxx
He is cute. Has anyone met him? Why all the negativity.
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BonVivant reacted to pubic_assistance in NIghtlyDessert in NYC...
Report back when you've completed your mission, Professor.
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BonVivant got a reaction from Spiritualadvisor in 411 on Gwoodlight visiting NYC
Wowza. Total hottie.
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BonVivant reacted to Jamie21 in Are Twinks preferred by clients?
Clients have all sorts of preferences. Just like everyone does. There’s a market for all types (although it may vary in size). Be your authentic self and focus on your strengths. Those who like that kind of thing will find you.
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BonVivant reacted to Jarrod_Uncut in Catching feelings for provider
In quote to the 2 together: I think the possibilities are there. It can and does happen. I had a client the other day recently tell me he was once in a “legacy” relationship. If that can work, then so can probably a client/escort arrangement.
I understand it shouldn’t be the goal to develop a traditional/conventional relationship going into things. But, I feel if there’s a connection that exists, why not. Even if it goes from hiring to friends with benefits to full on relationship. Maybe the situation can transition from a paid to a non-transactional arrangement. However: I feel the escort should have the initiation in doing that, not the client (because every escort knows the worst offer is a guy who alludes that he wants the service, but doesn’t FEEL a need to pay for it).
I actually think there’s nothing wrong with being open to love and romance on the platforms. RentMen is a very “fluid” website. It’s bad in some ways, but in other ways: there’s no “rules” or “guidelines”. Hell, without rates you could make it a free thing (but which is also why I started charging consultation fees/deposits to engage, because I feel people have treated RentMen TOO MUCH like a chat line, versus an actual escort service: which is technically not even a word broadcast on the site).
But point is, you want to date, date. There’s really nothing in the water to prevent romance from taking place, any less than using some crappy hookup app where most the users are ghosters or in open relationships. I have actually made good friends, clients and FWBs from RentMen. You may not get to “fall in love”, but you can appreciate a situation for what it is. Is the chemistry is mutual and there’s a desire to transition: by all means.
At the end of the day, I think most will just appreciate having a reliable regular. If business falls out the equation, that may feel like a bad move.
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BonVivant reacted to pubic_assistance in jewishjock in NYC
Where does a Jewish boy get the time to be a "jock" in athletics with all that studying to be a top doctor or lawyer ? 😉
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BonVivant reacted to pubic_assistance in NIghtlyDessert in NYC...
Another Seeking Arrangement candidate lost and wandering around Rent.men
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BonVivant reacted to Lazarus in New guy in New York: RosetiXL
Him again with a new name. Didn’t he have VIP in his last name. Another fake.
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BonVivant reacted to tennisjock in New guy in New York: RosetiXL
The pics look awfully familiar don’t they??? Two days on Rm and he already has a 5 star review
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BonVivant reacted to + Tarte Gogo in Is hiring in Latin America actually cheaper?
I once spent us$150 in Rio in a single day. But for that price I had sex with 6 different hot guys.
Imagine how much that would cost me in NYC.
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BonVivant reacted to dutchal in Is this guy MaxFitRAMxl for real?
Slight name change: https://rentmen.eu/MaxFitRAM
And one very negative review.
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BonVivant reacted to throway999888777 in 411 HungSchmuck in Boston
Yes. Best fuck of my life. Although it was a little too big and he fucked me really hard
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BonVivant reacted to + Summerson in KIPPNYC
I can say that when I saw Kipp and his boyfriend (not the current one) in 2018, Kipp was very welcoming and helped make the experience good for all of us. It was a very well-balanced evening and I think that was largely due to Kipp. He seemed to enjoy taking the lead and I was happy to let him do that.
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