BonVivant
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BonVivant reacted to Quincy_7 in Best twink hire ever
I had the privilege of meeting Milan_Twink twice. We met in 2020 when he was using a previous rentmen account. He subsequently entered into an arrangement with a sugar daddy before re-entering the market as Milan_Twink and going on his whirlwind American tour, which was when he blew up on this forum.
https://rentmen.eu/Milan_Twink
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BonVivant got a reaction from PatrickWelsh23 in NYC Escort services acquired outside of App/web?
Not aware of agencies anymore. Internet killed the Agency unless they moved online and then moved to Netherlands (or other friendly place).
Nowadays it’s rare but still happens. Mostly based on trust. But when I find someone like that, I keep them in my personal collection. 😏😉
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BonVivant reacted to Chancealot in 411 Jeremy Jacobs
Latest back forth revealed a couple things that were good to know
he’s all bottom - I told him his profile says versatile - he was surprised then said he’d edit it and he hasn’t
he’s not into kissing - again good to know but not mentioned
rates a bit high yes but if you can get it I’ve no complaints
i find recently the lack of good info on the profiles requires a lot of investigation prior
spending time finding out things that are contrary or omitted from profile
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BonVivant got a reaction from + BOZO T CLOWN in Bodega Bro
I think he just became a tik tok star. He don’t need no 9-5. He should just BE Bo-deygah Brah. He’s a star. He can just give his unadulterated Midwest hawt brah Str8 perspective on thangs.
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BonVivant got a reaction from + nycman in Bodega Bro
Well I saw the Tik Tok video. I didn’t see or hear what you describe. If it was subtle it escaped me. This is where I think society is trying to find stuff…. It is like we can’t say anything…. I’ll stop here or else I’ll get in trouble with the hall monitor.
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BonVivant got a reaction from BSR in Bodega Bro
Well I saw the Tik Tok video. I didn’t see or hear what you describe. If it was subtle it escaped me. This is where I think society is trying to find stuff…. It is like we can’t say anything…. I’ll stop here or else I’ll get in trouble with the hall monitor.
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BonVivant got a reaction from BSR in Bodega Bro
The Midwest Bro kid didn’t say anything racist or wrong. He only pointed out that a Bodega is NOT a grocery store. If he was doing standup it would have been ok. Such an over-reaction.
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BonVivant got a reaction from KK913 in Bodega Bro
The Midwest Bro kid didn’t say anything racist or wrong. He only pointed out that a Bodega is NOT a grocery store. If he was doing standup it would have been ok. Such an over-reaction.
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BonVivant got a reaction from + BOZO T CLOWN in Bodega Bro
The Midwest Bro kid didn’t say anything racist or wrong. He only pointed out that a Bodega is NOT a grocery store. If he was doing standup it would have been ok. Such an over-reaction.
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BonVivant got a reaction from + BOZO T CLOWN in Bodega Bro
Well I saw the Tik Tok video. I didn’t see or hear what you describe. If it was subtle it escaped me. This is where I think society is trying to find stuff…. It is like we can’t say anything…. I’ll stop here or else I’ll get in trouble with the hall monitor.
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BonVivant reacted to Stormy in Bodega Bro
What the heck is wrong with his videos? I don’t see racism. If he were racist, he would never move to the Bronx. Hope he finds a better job.
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BonVivant got a reaction from + nycman in Bodega Bro
The Midwest Bro kid didn’t say anything racist or wrong. He only pointed out that a Bodega is NOT a grocery store. If he was doing standup it would have been ok. Such an over-reaction.
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BonVivant reacted to + nycman in Bodega Bro
How sad.
I could have seen myself making a stupid video like this when I first moved to NYC
over 30 years ago. Thank god, the only person I could talk to on the internet back
then was a random email penpal who was in a college in Nebraska. I loved sharing
“NYC through the eyes of a newbie" with him. And he loved living vicariously through
me.
I’m sure much of what I wrote could be misconstrued as racism today. But just
like this kid, it was just "culture shock" not racism. Given the opertunity to grow and
mature, this kid could have learned to love NYC and it’s myriad of cultures and quirks.
Instead he got a harsh life’s lesson about being honest and posting anything
even remotely personal online.
What assholes. God help us.
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BonVivant reacted to Jamie21 in Missionary Legs
On the massage table I use this position, with his legs over my thighs. This pic was from a demo movie I did and I’m penetrating the guy here. Penetration is possible and it also means you can’t do too much thrusting, which is actually better at the start, while he gets used to it. You can change positions so his legs are over your shoulders to go deeper and harder. The position means you can kiss etc. The position works better on a massage table than a bed because it’s firmer. However you do need to be quite hung.
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BonVivant reacted to + BOZO T CLOWN in Bodega Bro
One crowd-funding site has already raised over $10,000 in the first 24 hours to help the kid:
https://www.givesendgo.com/helpbodegabro
BOZO
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BonVivant reacted to + FreshFluff in Fire Island Pines
Yeah, you got yours, biiiiiitches!
Oh, wait. That was me.
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BonVivant reacted to Prime38 in Fire Island Pines
Growing up in Jersey, I have never been to Fire Island, but all the pictures I see now of the Fire Island Pine parties just look like a normal weekend down at all the gays clubs, called Boys Town in West Hollywood where I currently reside. Beautiful Gods that seem to have it all.
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BonVivant reacted to + Lucky in Fire Island Pines
I remember the Meatrack! When I walked through it, so many wanted to suck me that I was amazed.
Of course, they were mosquitoes.
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BonVivant reacted to TruHart1 in Straight gay scorts
I personally know one escort who identifies as straight, though he changed his orientation in his ad to bi- after originally listing his orientation as straight on his RentMen ad, deciding to do so mainly because he wanted to appeal to a wider range of clientele! His gay-4-pay background includes a porn career as mainly a bottom, though his OnlyFans site has him both bottoming and topping guys.
He says he does not usually like to escort women because he only wants to have sex with females he’s personally attracted to IRL. He claims that since he’s not sexually/emotionally attracted to men, he can function with a very wide range of guys more easily.
Another escort I hire regularly seems to actually be a true bi-sexual, who admits that he’s always been attracted sexually to both men AND women, though he only felt free to date men after his high school years. He dated women exclusively in high school, though he tells me he’s always felt attracted by both sexes his entire adult life!
Yet another of my regular escorts advertises as bi-sexual but has told me in confidence that though he’s dated women in the past, he definitely feels more gay/attracted to men now than when he was younger. BTW, all three of these escorts have numerous excellent reviews!
TruHart1 😎
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BonVivant reacted to Westsideguy in Straight gay scorts
Still some of my favorites experiences have been with a married straight guy. He has two kids. Still married. Haven’t seen him in probably ten years. Still email sporadically and follow his life on social media. He shocked me when we first met by how passionate he was. He said the next time we met he would bottom. And he did every time after that. He was a chef and opening a restaurant, and always needed money for equipment. But, he certainly seemed to enjoy it. He never advertised. He always initiated the meetings after the first one. He did some nude solo videos, but never porn. So glad I can still see him as I remember him.
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BonVivant reacted to Skip in Straight gay scorts
I have had experiences like that. Time passes and you winder what happened to those marriages....
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BonVivant reacted to BtmBearDad in Straight gay scorts
In general, I take everything I read on a providers page with a grain of salt. I completely understand there is marketing going on so a “straight” provider may very well get more interest than a gay provider. Whether that’s because a hobbyist believes no gay man can be as masculine as a straight man, or maybe it’s the chance to live out the fantasy of being with the jock you lusted after in HS, college, the gym. Who knows? Different strokes for different folks and all that.
For me, I usually stick with providers who list themselves as gay or when in private conversations with hobbyists here or IRL I find out a provider is in fact gay despite what they’ve written on their page. I look at it as a version of “shop local” - I go to the local mom and pop butcher vs the big stores to give my support; same thing going to the gay escorts. Having said that, I have been with some who do identify as bi, and even one or two straight ones back when I started this hobby. Some encounters have been great, some have been duds, just like with gay escorts. I think there’s so many factors in play that determine a successful encounter that being straight, bi, gay can’t guarantee success on their own.
I will add that what irks me is the whole “ask me” answer. I know - “just ask, what’s the big deal?” I suppose I just get the feeling some providers use that answer not because they’re necessarily shy, but to figure out the answer the hobbyist wants to hear. Again, whatever works, works. I’d just prefer a straight answer, that the provider be themselves (or as much as they can be, are willing to be) in their answers, and we can just take it from there.
BBD