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BonVivant
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BonVivant got a reaction from miserybeme9 in Cost of hiring
No. The separate room is a huge red flag. This means he is not “yours” for the time engaged. You are just the bank for his trip. He will then see you when he wants; will give you your one hour of play time; and then he’ll trick or trade in his separate room. You’ll be miserable.
Walk away. Not worth it.
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BonVivant got a reaction from BaronArtz in Cost of hiring
No. The separate room is a huge red flag. This means he is not “yours” for the time engaged. You are just the bank for his trip. He will then see you when he wants; will give you your one hour of play time; and then he’ll trick or trade in his separate room. You’ll be miserable.
Walk away. Not worth it.
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BonVivant got a reaction from rvwnsd in Cost of hiring
No. The separate room is a huge red flag. This means he is not “yours” for the time engaged. You are just the bank for his trip. He will then see you when he wants; will give you your one hour of play time; and then he’ll trick or trade in his separate room. You’ll be miserable.
Walk away. Not worth it.
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BonVivant got a reaction from + Pensant in Nail polish
Nail polish? Don’t really care. Is he also wearing pearls? Don’t really care. A hot sexy man with a chiseled body and a big fat juicy cock and big balls? Yes always with or w/o nail polish & pearls. Oh does he have cock-ring to go with that?
ENJOY LIFE. It’s too damn short as it is.
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BonVivant reacted to CalTec in Cost of hiring
This!!
I can't imagine being in a client's position, looking to jump in head first into an overnight situation with a provider who you've never met. While spontaneity is great, it might bite you in the ass with a bad experience. All my most memorable overnights started with a single appointment and grew out from there. My 0.2 satoshis would be not to rush an extended encounter before a first encounter.
Playing devil's advocate, perhaps the provider had a previous experience that didn't work out and is pre-emptively looking to mitigate any future issues. Who knows! Best way to know is to meet him and get an irl vibe so you know if he's genuine or looking to play you.
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BonVivant reacted to + azdr0710 in Cost of hiring
A perennial forum topic since early hooboy days. As many opinions as there are forum members. And almost as many threads on the subject.
Stay in control of your finances and move on if you don't like something, including excessive requests and fees.
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BonVivant reacted to + KensingtonHomo in Nail polish
I wear nail polish at times. Having well-manicured nails is wonderful and should be encouraged.
And if the polish puts you off, maybe examine your internalized misogyny and femme-phobia.
Nothing irks me more than gay men policing other people's gender expression. If you're a man who fucks men, you've already crossed the Rubicon, so why not enjoy the perks.
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BonVivant reacted to Beancounter in Nail polish
I find threads like this to be very childish. I often remind myself of all the things providers have to endure, i.e, clients of all shapes and sizes who expect providers to sexually perform at a moment’s notice, bad client personal hygiene issues, smoker’s breath, clients being pissed off because they only got 57.3 minutes instead of a full hour, clients complaining his dick is only 7.5 in when he advertised 8 in.The list goes on and on. And yet there are those of us here concerned about nail polish.
And spare me the comments that you’re paying good money to get what you want. I don’t want to hear them.
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BonVivant reacted to + nycman in Nail polish
Not a fan, but not a deal breaker.
Just tuck his hands under the pillow while you fuck him.
Trust me, it works.
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BonVivant got a reaction from + DrownedBoy in Recession Pricing
What happens to rates will depend on the impact of the rising interest rates and their impact on asset values. If you don’t think falling asset values won’t have an impact then I have a new alt coin for you: cock$coin. Issue face value is $0.10 only. My prediction: rates will fall and more providers will join or rejoin the trade.
Happening already…. Just got a call from someone who had “retired.”
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BonVivant got a reaction from HoseMaster in 411 on CooperStyles Jersey city
I’ve tried twice to see him. Booked and confirmed. He bailed on me both times.
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BonVivant reacted to + Pensant in Recession Pricing
Or perhaps more will enter if unemployment rises?
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BonVivant got a reaction from lanyc in Patting down the escort
Could you plant something on him, and then arrest him?
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BonVivant reacted to Scott Virginian in Patting down the escort
Lordy, I hope there’s **something** between his legs….
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BonVivant reacted to Eddie Morales in Patting down the escort
To be safe, it’s best to feel him up all over first. Go from his arms, shoulders, chest, abs, and back. Then descend to the legs and thoroughly inspect his thighs, calves, and ass cheeks. Better make sure there’s nothing between his legs too!
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BonVivant reacted to Eddie Morales in Patting down the escort
Not to actually search for contraband lmao…as a role play type scenario. Put his hands up against the wall, and feel every inch of his body….I can’t be the only one!
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BonVivant reacted to jtwalker in 411 on CooperStyles Jersey city
There are enough positive and negative experiences, that this is clearly a MMV situation.
In my case, he was kind and arrogant minimalist that rushed so he could squeeze me in between two others. Maybe he doesn't realize his limits as he has a very healthy ego.
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BonVivant reacted to Jamie21 in How does the European market compare to the North American?
I agree that in Europe there’s a stronger social underpin and more liberal attitudes. Here in UK I don’t pay for healthcare, my sexual health screening and any treatment is free, prep is free, travel without a car is easy although the costs of accommodation in London is extremely high. There’s still some stigma about doing sex work unfortunately but it is reducing as attitudes become more open minded. Plus it’s legal (within boundaries) so I can advertise openly which makes it easier to get clients.
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BonVivant got a reaction from + keroscenefire in How does the European market compare to the North American?
Demand is good. Rates in Europe are lower. Also different websites.