BonVivant

He's the real deal my peeps. And doesn't ask MUF.
Pics are quite accurate, tally wacker is real. Prince Tiny Meat he is not!

If he looks like that he's worth every penny. 
hard to believe a guy like him nowadays in America is exotic among escorts.
 
Btw is the "safe only" negotiable? 

No. The rate is the rate. 

Jason Alexander Was an interesting case. After years of known baldness he decided to sport a toupee. It was an excellent one and in some ways he did look better. But at some point he must have said why bother. I started going bald in my teens.I subjected myself to Bosley's treatment to little effect. I even contemplated hanging out in their lobby wearing a shirt that said, "don't get too excited these are the results." Now I can't do the shaved head thing because of the scars left behind. I get hot with a baseball cap I can't imagine the discomfort of walking around with a dead badger on my head. I have come to peace with the fact that I will never look like anyone in a mens shampoo ad. That being said If there was an affordable miracle cure that would give me back my thick 17 year old blow dried hair I would push all you baldos out of my way...LOL.

People are only aware of bad toupees. If it is a good one, no one knows it! I once got to know a stripper that danced at a bar regularly. He was probably around 30 years old, with long blond hair. Damn --- he was hot! After seeing him several times, somehow we talked about hair and he told me that he was wearing a hairpiece. I was astounded. I wouldn't have guessed at all! But I have seen some bad ones too!

There was a doctor one of the hospitals at which I worked and he wore a bad toupee. One day coming into the hospital he slipped on water at the entryway. He was wearing a hat and the toupee and the hat went in one direction and the toupee in another. A doctor walking in behind him picked up the hat and the toupee=, stuffed the toupee in the hat and then plopped them back on the sprawled doctor's head without missing a step. The toupee wearer seemed nonplussed by the situation and got himself to his feet and also walked off. As a witness, I was just surprised at the grace with which they both handled the situation.

Because… drumroll….. 🥁…. The guy you get isn’t the one you see.  The guy who shows up is certainly handsome/cute and skilled (if it is the same guy that I am thinking of) but just not the guy in the ad. So, this would cause very negative reviews on RM and here. Thus the blocking; this way you can’t leave bad feedback ( it has happened to me twice; with two different guys but same modus operandus.  In one case the guy was hot  and skilled so I wasn’t upset. In the other case he wasn’t ), which is a killer in this service niche. 
The other reason to bait & switch is to hide your true identity ( maybe sees girls and this is a side gig ). 

Cause he prolly doesn’t know about this. 

I was blocked for simply clicking on the profile more than once. This kid has issues.

Because… drumroll….. 🥁…. The guy you get isn’t the one you see.  The guy who shows up is certainly handsome/cute and skilled (if it is the same guy that I am thinking of) but just not the guy in the ad. So, this would cause very negative reviews on RM and here. Thus the blocking; this way you can’t leave bad feedback ( it has happened to me twice; with two different guys but same modus operandus.  In one case the guy was hot  and skilled so I wasn’t upset. In the other case he wasn’t ), which is a killer in this service niche. 
The other reason to bait & switch is to hide your true identity ( maybe sees girls and this is a side gig ). 

The modus operandi of this provider seems very similar to BoyXXLVIP EuropeanboyXXL EuropeanXLvip who has been discussed here.
He is a serial blocker for even the slightest communication on RM? Hmmm. Been there. I checked on RM. He had blocked me too.  This guy also has gone by those other names mentioned.  If he’s the same guy  I have met him.
 

I pay my 2 regulars with zelle as it is not always convenient to run to the bank. They confirm payment right away as they are changing or cleaning up after playtime. 
I've had 2 friends recently scammed on grindr though from guys looking for an online romance. It was a crypto scam. Once lost 240K and the other lost 98K. All in a short time span. So I can understand the hesitancy there. 

There can be lots of reasons, especially if the provider is traveling. Think of the safety of NOT having to carry cash.  And If they are from overseas then PayPal is a better option. If you are worried about identities, then you also know who the provider is. 

This is why this forum is great….  Avoid Fin-Doms like the plague. 

A 19 year old hit me up on Grindr 4 nights ago. He said he saw me earlier at Panera and I looked normal. He asked if he could come over and suck my dick. I said yes. 
 
When he got over, after some small talk, he explained he had been curious about men since graduating high school last year and he asked if I’d be willing to fuck him.  I asked if he was clean and he didn’t understand the question. This led to a conversation about how bottoms prep which he found fascinating. I gave him a shiny new doosh and walked him through the ins and outs of prepping. 
We went to the bedroom and I played with his butt. Then I entered him and things didn’t go so well. 
I lasted all of 90 seconds.
I was so turned on by his age, physique, lack of experience, trust in me and the tightness that I literally blew in under two minutes. I was so embarrassed that this dude was expecting an experience and I was done so quickly. 
As soon as I finished he goes “that was it? It was just starting to feel good.”  And I couldn’t help but laugh.  I apologized profusely and told him if he gave me another shot I’d guarantee at least 3 minutes next time. We both laughed. 
I felt sooo bad about giving him such a lackluster performance. He was such a sweet kid and he’s gunna remember me forever as the 90 second man.  At least the bar is low enough that future sex will blow his mind. 
He did come back last night and I gave him a more memorable performance. 
 
 

he's very clear about what he wants. The fin-dom thing makes me think he's absorbed something that's very common in Atlanta---being a grifter looking for suckers. The grifters often are suckers themselves, but that shouldn't distract us from the grift. he probably thinks he's being "honest" about wanting to screw with people and come out ahead, but it's just a grift and there's no reason to treat it as anything else.

I once had a metal caliper confiscated (the kind you use to measure things on graph paper)
because it had two pointy ends. I guess they were worried I was going to “prick” someone
to death? First I had to explain what they were (doesn’t anyone take high school geometry 
anymore?), then the TSA agent wouldn’t let me throw them in the trash because she deemed
them a “scientific instrument". It took a supervisor to resolve the issue and allow me to throw
away the cheap item and board the plane.
I’ve also had nail clippers confiscated. 
A ridiculously large metal cocking however was deemed a "piece of building equipment" 
by a 90 year old TSA agent named Edna, (who first waved it around over her head asking
if any of her coworkers knew what "this thing is") and I was allowed to keep it. I’m still
amazed my beet red face didn’t make them more suspicious.

Hmmmmm. Not a good idea. Paid membership was to see the pvt pics and videos. This is not a good move. 
 

He’s really full of himself. Wow. 🤣

I could get into FinDom too. And I will take less…. 😝

I could get into FinDom too. And I will take less…. 😝

The WSJ reports that based on today's CPI numbers, I-bonds purchased from May through October 2022 will pay 9.6% interest (up from the current already generous 7.12%).  One can purchase up to $10k via TreasuryDirect.gov, plus up to an additional $5k if she chooses to receive a tax refund in the form of a paper I-bond. 
Kevin Slater

In general the scene is a lot tamer than it was years ago, correct? Used to see full nudity at all these places and the last few times I was there, nothing like that.
 

Same. As I've said before, I can usually get hot guys to treat me like dirt for free.

There was was a man from Bumchucket...
Kevin Slater