BonVivant

Good to see that other people are finding success on this site. It has been pretty much a bust for me in the Boston area. I joined after my previous SB (bisexual, unbelievably drop-dead gorgeous from head to foot and everything in-between), after a wonderful 2-year relationship, was convinced by his therapist that if he really plans to marry a woman, he ought to stop cultivating relationships that don't support his going in that direction. Unfortunately, I was very vulnerable at the time we met, and allowed myself to fall DEEPLY, deeply  in love with this sweet, smart, charming adonis.  Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved, I suppose ... but I am now in a dizzying tailspin. In despair at this loss, I joined seeking, and have been not at all impressed. The best-looking guys seem to be charlatans, scammers, or guys who think they can get 4 figures monthly by doing private videos. Ah well, such is the SD life ...

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I ended up meeting him. He tries to upsell everything, so carry extra cash. Expect to say goodbye feeling empty.

This generalization is not fair and untrue. Some of my best experiences are with Russians and Czechs among others.  

I might have finally had some success! Met a cute little college freshman who literally lives just down the street when he's visiting home. He goes to a big state university a couple of hours away. We have some interests in common which is nice. Essentially we just had a sex date which was fine with me. He is the third "frat boy" I've met. I wonder if fraternities put the word out to their members that this site exists. All three of them were just basic sex meetings. But this one was the most fun and seems to have the best chances of becoming an on-going thing.

I am using this site pretty regularly. I have found that the guys are of a higher caliber, but not quite as sexually adept as on Rentmen. Also they are on the expensive side and tend to be looking for a repeat/regular guy which is fine as long as you are prepared to manage the siutation. A lot more foreplay, wining and dining than a RM in and out thank you...On the plus side it's usually not as transactional and feels more natural. Of course you have to weed through the guys that think you are going to transfer a couple of grand to their account each month for a platonic mentor relationship involving world trqvel and shopping sprees. And those are the ones from places like Cullowee Alabama....

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This generalization is not fair and untrue. Some of my best experiences are with Russians and Czechs among others.  

Anyone have experience with this gentleman?
https://rentmen.eu/hunterkc

This generalization is not fair and untrue. Some of my best experiences are with Russians and Czechs among others.  

Now it’s 500/hour. Just got his confirmation on that via chat. 

Anyone have the 4-1-1- on this handsome, tall new provider in NYC?  https://rentmen.eu/XanderHH
Have started chatting and he seems legit.   Into a lot of things not mentioned on his profile.
Curious though to see if anyone else has sampled these wares?   I realize him saying he is 5.5" cut will be a negative to others, I welcome the chance to be an anal bottom without being super uncomfortable.

Those pictures are maybe 10-15 years old if not older🥵.  I think GW Bush was President when they first appeared😱

I’ve always felt we are kinder to our pets than we are to humans. Recently a friend of mine had a much loved dog of 9 years The dog had a terminal illness. After trying various treatments her vet said it was time to let the dog go. The vet made a house call and they put the dog on my friends bed. They made the lighting soft and soothing. Her dog walker was there plus a neighbor who would borrow the dog to play in the park. They all told the dog how much they loved him and stroked his fur as the vet administered a shot and the dog fell asleep and slipped away without any pain surrounded by people who loved him. 
We should all be so fortunate to pass on in such a beautiful way. 
 

The good thing being that there’s something for everyone.  

I’m actually typing this from LeBoy right now. I managed to sneak down to FLL for New Years. 

The dancers turn over quite a bit (both here and Johnson’s). Since I’m down once a month or so, it seems like half the guys are new from my last visit. 

Overall I like the club. It’s a great spot to drink, not deal with any judgements, and no pushy dancers.  The dancers tend to spend more time with those that take care of them (that makes sense) but it’s not Johnson’s where it’s more about the stage set entertainment. 
Both have their place and a value. I’m leaving for Johnson’s in about 15 minutes and know I’ll have fun there as well. 

LeBoy is more of that “wholesome seediness” (I have more “interaction” here than other places) while Johnson’s is more of a sit back and watch the eye candy place. Both are a blast. 

I’ve arranged for the moderators to come down to FLL at the end of January… I plan to make sure they get the full experience and have a great weekend.  It’s officially a business trip (we will be doing a bunch of in person planning and addressing some outstanding issues) but there is no reason we can’t work hard and play even harder. 

I wish it was still like that!

I know this answer will not help your present situation, but in the early eighties DC was male strip club nirvana. Texas Drilling and another club on 14th Street were great - just enough sleaze and an anything goes attitude. Men would sit at the bar, a dancer with a hard-on would crouch down and the patron would grab, lick, suck or whatever. At the time 14th Street was nothing but peep shows and prostitutes from Vermont Ave down to almost the White House,
There was a very sleazy dancer bar on Connecticut Ave over a KFC location. You would smell the frying chicken when in the bar. There was another place on 23rd just north of P. The Hung Jury was close to the White House, there was another stripper bar on 17th near Annie's and the great places on O SE, where the stadium was built. There was even a place in Georgetown on Wisconsin just north of M, a few doors up from the American Cafe, that featured dancers a couple nights a week. 
These places were all naked all the time. Many of my college friends, mostly straight guys, would work a couple nights a week for spending cash. Oddly, none of the gay guys did. 

Ain’t nothing’s wrong with that. Some providers need chemistry to connect and I respect that. I’m more amazed by those who can perform regardless. That’s a talent. 

Love the Belgians and Belgium. Awesome. 

I’ve always been disappointed with LV providers. Maybe had 1 good experience; that’s it. I guess its from lots of demand and not enough providers. 

No kissing is a nonstarter for me 

Any info on this cute hottie: 
https://rent.men/Hornyboyx

He’s probably not a Putin supporter since he’s living here. I wouldn’t hold it against him if he were Russian. In fact, I think he’s hot and would hire him if local.
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Well that would explain the negative reviews.