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BonVivant
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BonVivant reacted to glondon in 411 - POWERBOYPARIS - in Paris ?
He advertised many years ago and there were a few reviews about a BO problem as far as I can remember! Easily rectified so I wouldn't imagine this being an issue now. Never spoken to him but I did see him across a room in London a couple of years ago. Wearing a towel and he looks pretty much exactly like his photos!
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BonVivant reacted to Shawn Monroe in Are Rates Raising?
And as I said the last time we discussed this (which was probably last month), it’s also probably a factor of rentmen taking rates off the site and no one knows (without major digging) what the going rates for a particular city are.
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BonVivant reacted to + keroscenefire in Are Rates Raising?
Yeah I think $300-$350 is a lot more common these days. I agree with Benjamin...definitely worth it if the guy is great.
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BonVivant reacted to + BenjaminNicholas in Are Rates Raising?
This subject is brought up monthly. Perhaps it's time to roll them all into one gigantic, comical masterthread.
Inflation, especially for escorts living in major cities, is a reality. Clients might not like it, but rates will continue to rise as cost of living increases.
$300/hr is quite normal. $350-400 for a stellar, well-reviewed guy isn't unreasonable.
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BonVivant reacted to Brosnan in 411 on Kinkyprince?
Seeing him for the 2nd time tonight. Lots of fun and very hot. Pics are accurate. The profile name is VERY apt.
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BonVivant got a reaction from TorontoDrew in Boyforfundick in NY
He kuuute. But not thaaaaat kute. The market has plenty of cuties at current market rates.
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BonVivant reacted to cany10011 in Boyforfundick in NY
Yes... I'm tempted.. Quiet week for me. My 3 regulars are busy: 1 at a swim meet, the other away at a conference and the other one I saw 2 days ago... I feel I'm going to be yielding to temptation very soon.
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BonVivant reacted to pubic_assistance in Boyforfundick in NY
Likes to go for dinner and shopping ...
More of a sugar baby than a simple escort.
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BonVivant got a reaction from lonely_john in Importing and Helping out a Good Boy
My honest advice: DO NOT DO IT…. This is a very heavy legal and emotional lift. I have done it. Worst experience of my life. (I had my head in the clouds. Thought I loved him. I was in love with idea of being in love). And the main reason you should not go down this path: you do not love him.
If you go down this road - you are 100% responsible for ALL of his needs until he becomes self-sufficient. Especially if you marry. Then during the marriage he has 100% access to everything you have. A prenup is only in case of breakup.
I hope you fully understand all of the ramifications. Please carefully consider all angles.
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BonVivant got a reaction from Rod Hagen in Importing and Helping out a Good Boy
My honest advice: DO NOT DO IT…. This is a very heavy legal and emotional lift. I have done it. Worst experience of my life. (I had my head in the clouds. Thought I loved him. I was in love with idea of being in love). And the main reason you should not go down this path: you do not love him.
If you go down this road - you are 100% responsible for ALL of his needs until he becomes self-sufficient. Especially if you marry. Then during the marriage he has 100% access to everything you have. A prenup is only in case of breakup.
I hope you fully understand all of the ramifications. Please carefully consider all angles.
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BonVivant got a reaction from thomas in Importing and Helping out a Good Boy
My honest advice: DO NOT DO IT…. This is a very heavy legal and emotional lift. I have done it. Worst experience of my life. (I had my head in the clouds. Thought I loved him. I was in love with idea of being in love). And the main reason you should not go down this path: you do not love him.
If you go down this road - you are 100% responsible for ALL of his needs until he becomes self-sufficient. Especially if you marry. Then during the marriage he has 100% access to everything you have. A prenup is only in case of breakup.
I hope you fully understand all of the ramifications. Please carefully consider all angles.
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BonVivant got a reaction from + mature_guy in Importing and Helping out a Good Boy
Prenup. Prenup. Prenup. Prenup.
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BonVivant reacted to + StLouisOct in Rimming
I’m never disappointed because I include it in my text discussions and my list of ‘likes’ before I meet the escort. I say that I like rimming and being rimmed, but it’s not a deal breaker. Some say they don’t but they like everything else on my list. A great time is had. Others say they do, and a really great time is had. 😋
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BonVivant reacted to + Tygerscent in Importing and Helping out a Good Boy
Tattoo the postage on him so he doesn’t get lost in the shipping~ Sometimes those paper stamps fall off when the package gets wet~
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BonVivant got a reaction from SamSpring in Importing and Helping out a Good Boy
My honest advice: DO NOT DO IT…. This is a very heavy legal and emotional lift. I have done it. Worst experience of my life. (I had my head in the clouds. Thought I loved him. I was in love with idea of being in love). And the main reason you should not go down this path: you do not love him.
If you go down this road - you are 100% responsible for ALL of his needs until he becomes self-sufficient. Especially if you marry. Then during the marriage he has 100% access to everything you have. A prenup is only in case of breakup.
I hope you fully understand all of the ramifications. Please carefully consider all angles.
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BonVivant got a reaction from SamSpring in Importing and Helping out a Good Boy
Prenup. Prenup. Prenup. Prenup.
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BonVivant reacted to MscleLovr in Boys from the East, Russia, Ukraine...
Estonia has a small population. About 6 years ago, when I was single, I met 3 young men from Estonia, courtesy of GayRomeo and Craigslist in the space of 6 months. All were tall, muscled and submissive. One, the most muscled, had serious Daddy issues and needed to please me several times each day. I endured the attention...
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BonVivant reacted to + tassojunior in OMFG... i LOVE BLONDS!
I had a couple young Danish friends visit for 3 months and once we were in a cafe and I heard the group next to me sound like Scandinavians and my friends immediately sussed me and said "no, no those are Finns, we Scandinavians do not talk to them. They are very dour." Then I recently watched the great new Swedish dramatic movie "Border" whose basic premise is that all the hidden trolls in the world are migrating back to their homeland.....Finland.
Anyway the mayor of Helsinki proposed making English it's official language, FinnAir is flying nonstop from DC now and an easy way to use American or British miles to Europe, and there's the the visa-free boat to St Petersburg so I may still try Finland if I can schedule before cold weather begins (which is like the end of July? lol).
Markus Pöyhönen fits the Tom of Finland blond stereotype to a T.
dancing champion too: https://www.instagram.com/p/CLfIINjBrXW/
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BonVivant reacted to Monarchy79 in Fat Gay Men Aren’t Welcomed (At Pride)
Many of the fat guys who make the complaint of being discriminated against, won’t tell you that they secretly hate other fat guys too.
I’m not fat (just a simple athletic build), but I’ve literally had fat guys look at me and tell me that they have a preference for more muscular guys.
Theres a lot of hypocrisy with the “body issue”,in gay world, that’s for sure... ????
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BonVivant reacted to Monarchy79 in Fat Gay Men Aren’t Welcomed (At Pride)
But here’s the thing with a lot of guys.
Their personal pride, won’t allow them to just simply open those pockets. They want the satisfaction of believing they can get it for free.
they want to feel they have the sex appeal, that they truly don’t have (from the guys they are interested in).
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BonVivant reacted to Quincy_7 in Fat Gay Men Aren’t Welcomed (At Pride)
If it makes you feel better, money not sex appeal is the real source of power in the gay community. You can look like Danny DeVito and still get any of those instagays to sleep with you if you have enough of it.