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Apparently, neither are they. Gman

I'm sorry to have to disagree with you because I know your head and heart are in the right place on this. But while not so much now, when I was younger and my libido was stronger, a stiffy could occur at odd times. If I was like that, I'm sure there are physicians, dentists, lawyers, police like that too. No one is saying they actively encouraged getting hard. There's no shame in it if it's covered up and not acted on. You might as well say no one is ever going to burp or pass gas in public. It happens. We are biologic beings. I can't tell you the number of times I've heard a doctor's stomach start to rumble when listening to my stomach. Gman

Now wait a sec @LaffingBear-acting on a stiffy yes. But having a stiffy is not totally a controllable action is it? When I was younger, I had friends in doctor training. I'm sure I remember a few of them saying something like it had happened-not often. And they said their lab coats had covered it. It might have happened when they talked about doing a sports medicine clinic at the local college. The patient never knew it had occurred. It wasn't that my friends were proud it had happened. They probably told me after a few beers when relating embarrassing things that had happened during their stressful training. Gman

The way they normally draw blood now-as I'm sure many of you know-is thru vacutainers. A needle attaches to a plastic holder, and they a sample tube with a vacuum in it over the opposite end of the needle which draws the blood out. http://www.eastcoastmedicalsupply.com/images/products/detail/BDVacutainerlarge.jpg There's a slightly alternate method where instead of the straight needle, they use a needle with plastic tubing attached to the plastic holder. It works easier on smaller veins. Or if they don't have a vacutainer, they can hook this butterfly up to a syringe. I've always hated the 1st set up above because #1 I've got small veins (I guess I should have weight lifted when I was younger. Weight lifters always seem to have massive arm veins). #2. On the first set up, if they need multiple tubes of blood, a majority of the phlebotomists end up jerking the needle a bit when they change tubes, and it hurts. Your story @BasketBaller remided -years ago these butterflies weren't that common. I was at a hospital outpatient lab. The phlebotomist was a student. She wasn't that familiar with butterflies. I've had a lot of blood drawn over my life. I know the technique yet are supposed to use. I saw her hit the vein and go thru it. Then she started moving the needle around but couldn't get any blood. I told her to stop and leave the needle in. So she moved her hand. I then took hold of the butterfly still in my arm-pulled back a bit and the blood started flowing. Thankfully butterflies are more common these days and most phlebotomists are familiar with them. Gman

I was wondering if he was in scrubs. That material is fairly thin. So it might have been easier to feel. Also @FreshFluff, you are very pretty. It might have been totally involuntary on his part, and he might not have realized that you felt it. Gman

While just my opinion, I like this one-it's more subtle. This one is just too much for a VPL for me. Now don't get me wrong, I'd probably like to see 'it' unclothed. But I like my VPLs a bit more restrained and tasteful. Gman

Looked like a pretty long penis. Gman

@TruHart1, here's one for you. Gman

This picture was so nice I couldn't resist. There's no VPL, but there is a VPHL (Visible Pubic Hair Line). http://i2.mirror.co.uk/incoming/article10096077.ece/ALTERNATES/s615b/Thom-Evans.jpg Gman

Even though though some comments have been redacted by Daddy, you can tell from the pre-redaction responses, that the redacted responses were not complimentary. Gman

Maybe it's my own filthy mind. But I thought a statement like that was talking about inducing fantasies of 'below legal age youths'. Gman

In one picture he looks like a guy that I think I remember advertising on Backpage. I was never sure if that ad was legitimate or not. Gman

Addendum: I had been minorly attracted to him years ago assuming his pictures are accurate. But I was not looking for a hypnosis session/erotic massage which was all I thought he offered. Looking at his Hypnofantasy ad, his 'all ages' legal in fantasy disturbs me. I don't think those kind of fantasies ought to be encouraged Gman

In the past when I saw what I'm sure must have been this guy's ads, it seemed to me he was only offering hypnotic sessions with no 'actual' interaction. I guess it's possible I misinterpreted those ads. Now, at least in the Fantasy Jack ad, it seems he is more willing to indulge in a more 'normal' type of escort experience with or without hypnosis. Gman

I'm almost 100% positive that none of the physicians or dentists I had growing up were gay. So it never happened then. I'm also pretty sure that none of my routine doctors were gay during most of my adult life. When I finally got to the point in my late 40's of looking for gay practitioners because I thought they might understand me better, I was bald and fat. So no it has never happened to me. Gman

If you will only kindly point me to the proper thread, I will give you pearls of such great price that they (along with $4.50) will get you a grande caramel frappachino at Starbucks. Gman

It's really too bad that no one likes this thread. Gman

I think you are reasonably safe as to him being the guy in the ad. @MikeBiDude had a good time with him. The question will be if he shows up. Gman

Did he? The last post I can find from him is in February 2017. Gman

I miss @Truereview and @geminibear. Gman

@purplekow means that it's easy to consider other people's problems that you don't have as not very important or minor. At least that's my take on what @purplekow meant. If I'm wrong, I ask his pardon. Gman

To categorize and to measure is really the only way to know or find out anything. The problem is the opprobrium that some categories have. But on the other hand to deny our feelings about things isn't good either. I'm not the most most masculine guy. But effeminate guys tend to set me on edge (I'm not fond of drag queens), so do 'butch' women, and so do hyper-masculine straight guys-the guys with extreme chips on their shoulders or the ones whose every other word is an expletive. It's a tough subject. I'm not saying my feelings are the guideline on how people should act in their private lives. I know a large part of this is innate. But I most likely would not want any of the above as a sex partner. Now maybe my comfort zone will change over time. I'm not saying any of the above are bad or wrong. But people have preferences. Gman

It's not going to make you feel any better, but being a bald chubby guy who was a fat child, an average non-muscular build teenager and adult into my early 30's thanks to puberty and the metabolism young men possess, and now am a fat bald mid-50's guy, I really envy you. I also envy that while you seem to have some hang-ups, you at least seem to be trying. In my 30's I was determined that if I couldn't be straight I was never going to act on being gay. When I finally decided that I had to have sex, I was 41. I don't know if I could have found a hook-up on my own. I still didn't want to be gay. I chose an escort for my first experience. He had to teach me how to kiss. I am so grateful I picked an escort who turned out to be kind and willing to teach me. But even after that, while I continued hiring escorts, I still didn't want to be gay. In fact I'm better than I used to be, but I still struggle. I'm hoping because you are starting around a decade before me that you'll have more success than I have. So as I said, I know that won't help. But there are a lot of us who probably wish we could say we had your physique and your opportunities. Gman

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If there is such a walk, I have to say @FreshFluff, that I don't think this is it. Gman