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I'm wondering if Chance is bi-there's an article I found. It talks about how Chance must have been on the young side when his son was born. It also mentions Chance having had a boyfriend at one time. But of course no telling if the article is accurate or not. Gman

Then you haven't looked at his Instagram site. Whether he has muscle now, he def had some in the past. I have a vague memory of seeing him back in 2011 or 2012. I think I remember very muscular thighs. I didn't think the massage was that great. I think he used baby oil. He may have improved since then. Gman

i know this is personal-it's just that it looks from his ad that he's looking more for subs. And while I know you are versatile, @Benjamin_Nicholas, I don't really think you are anyone's sub. Gman

Well on one hand I agree with you. But I still think even your averagely trained optometrist can tell how bad a cataract is. Plus I can see. I just have trouble with the edges of medians. Gman

Thank you for the suggestion. I actually had two eye exams last year-by two different doctors. While they say I may have some cataract formation-one optometrist said something like, "Young peoples' lenses are totally clear. Your lens while not totally clear is normal for your age." The other optometrist also did not seem to think I had anything to worry about as she didn't mention anything worrisome. Gman

My night vision is supposed to be fine. But for years now I've had trouble seeing the edges of medians when I'm making a left turn even if there's a light on the median. And forget me being able to see it well if it's unlighted, or there's fog/rain. Anyone out there in Message Center Land with the same problem? Also Is there anyone with city planning experience out there that knows why they don't put some kind of reflective strip along the edges of medians? Gman

I don't know how good an escort he is, but this video of his is making me dizzy. https://rentmen.eu/male-escort-videos/play/84810

I think I had been interested at one time, but the no kissing stopped me. Gman

There were several guys I have contacted over the years that for one reason or other I never met who then died. One was Cody Foster. He was supposed to be meeting me. At some point communication ceased. I talked to him afterwards, he said he was picked up by the police for something. The only one I think that I actually met who later died was Alexander Gustavo. It was a one time meeting for around an hour. As I recall, he was either going to drive to my hotel or motorcycle. But he ended up taking a taxi, and I ended up driving him back home. So we spent a bit more time together than the usual one hour visit. Gman

We know the black and white picture isn't current. I wonder about the other two. Gman

Exigent can also ( I looked it up) mean demanding. We've heard complaints before from escorts about overly demanding clients. But I'm not sure that's a particularly good thing for an escort to be either. Gman

Let me add that the reason I say this is mostly due to accountability issues. But it's an accountability issue on both sides. If there was a ? way to insure escorts lived up to their ads, and a ? sure way to sure all clients were decent guys, then maybe deposits would make more sense. But as things stand, deposits don't. Gman

But in general I'd say no escort is. Gman

I can remember at least three or four times not getting much satisfaction from an escort. Strangely enough three were from guys represented by Man to Man and once was a guy from Maximum escorts. Gman

I have no problems believing what you say happened. My question is -are you just having a run of bad luck with the providers you pick-or is it something else? Is it possible it's due to the type of guys you are attracted to? For example are the guys you are choosing well-known people either here on the Message Center or on Daddy's Reviews, or are they more unknown? If more unknown, maybe you should try someone who has been (well) vetted here on the MC or Daddy's Reviews? Gman

I haven't hired in many years. But I've never been much on porn. So I window shop Rentmen. And a vast majority of ads list "BFE." As for my suggestion about the shirt, that's what I did when I hired. Gman

When you consider that probably 90% of the escorts list "boyfriend experience," you have to think that at this point it's just words and may not mean anything. And as a suggestion to some newbies on here, at some point, esp if things seem to be moving slow, I'll usually ask a guy if I can unbutton his shirt. That usually leads to something. Gman

@RJD, you probably already know this. But if not, and I'm not saying it's the case here, but it's pretty easy to get fake Rentmen Reviews. There are apparently even 'standard' fake review profile names. I don't know how people on the Message Center found out. But people have pointed out the names of several fake profiles on RM that have reviewed lots of different guys. Gman

So-just be sure I understand-he didnt let you or the guy prior to you top him? Gman

There's one picture (or at least there used to be if not there now) of him wearing nail polish. Not that there's anything wrong with that-except for me-it gives me the heeby-jeebies. Gman

I have to think it's due to the stereotype of women making a fuss and complaining/b-tching or feeling more hurt than a man would. A man would, stereotypically, "suck it up," not let anyone see his pain, and any suffering, if the man was affected by the circumstances at all, would be done in silence. Because we men are TOUGH HOMBRES- not whiny women. Gman

I had forgotten today was your day!! Gman

Is there some reason not to use the phone apps? There are other sites-but I think they are more of the dating type -they have websites and might have phone apps too. 1. There's Plenty of Fish https://www.pof.com/ 2. OkCupid https://www.okcupid.com/ Okcupid if it hasn't changed from when I tried it years ago, this site will ask you a lot of questions and then will match you up. The problem being that I'm fairly unattractive. Just because I might match someone else's interests, if they didn't like the way I looked, they weren't interested in meeting. I'm assuming that's why no one was ever interested in me during the several months I was on it. 3. Match.com Interesting fact-initially it didn't cover same sex relationships. I believe the founder was a therapist who supposedly had done testing on compatibility. His stated reason for not including same sex matches was that he didn't have the data. At some point I think there was a lawsuit, and they were forced to include same sex matches. Going back to the gay sites, there's 4. adam4adam.com 5. Manhunt-I haven't looked at this site in probably 7 years. https://www.manhunt.net/signup Another site to try might be. Depending on where you live, there may be gay groups. MEETUP- meetup.com Gman

Why would he say "Top Only" in his ad copy, but then put "Ask Me" in the Position location? Gman

The problem is -and obviously it's not just with gay men-but he's too handsome. There are many gay men who would do anything to be with this guy. I'm sure all the adulation porn stars get has a tendency to go to their heads. Years ago I hired one of the handsomest guys to ever advertise. He's now retired. He was an incredibly nice guy. But you knew from the way he looked that he could have just about any guy he wanted. And it probably didn't hurt that he was well-hung and endurant to the point that he probably had trouble cumming when jerking off. (In case anyone is getting ideas about why I hired him, he was also versatile). And as nice as the guy was, there was an attitude. It probably wasn't as bad that being described about Riley. But it was still there. Human nature doesn't take well to being adulated. Gman