I think you made a wise decision. On one hand, I don't want the escort to do anything that's uncomfortable for him; on the other hand, it's uncomfortable for me to have sex without kissing. I mean I can have sex without kissing, but for me, it's a lot like jerking off with my left hand. It can get the job done, but something feels missing. I once passed up the chance to meet Jason Land because he didn't kiss.
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When I was trying to see if there was any compromise we could both make, he told me, I don't know if it was true or not, that he didn't even really kiss his boyfriend. Sadly, I knew we wouldn't be a good match.
Gman