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I think it lacks credibility when you don't think of hiring an escort in this way. Fundamentally, you are hiring the escort for his time. X money for X time is still how this transaction is communicated by basically all escorts and clients (at least in my experience) even in places where sex work is decriminalized. It's up to both client/provider to communicate wants and the fulfillment of those wants in the time provided. Most time you get most of what you want, but not always. A credible client will pay regardless.

Obviously, you are not spending $300 to just sit silently and stare at his face. But escorts are human beings providing an entertainment service and we should treat them as such. It's like when you pay money to see a concert or comedian and yeah sometimes the band doesn't play your favorite song or the comedian isn't funny. That doesn't mean you get to demand a refund at the end of the performance. I feel bad about the experience of the OP and feel that the escort should have done a better job being ready to perform. But I think it's absolutely ridiculous and unfair to ask for a refund to an escort who shows up on time, does his best in the situation to perform for you (but cannot) and is willing to try to make something fun happen in the time that you have together. This is exactly the case according to the OP's description of events. It can be hard the first time when you have a lot of built up expectations of what you're "supposed" to get as a client, but reality often doesn't meet our expectations. This has happened to me multiple times hiring (though probably only one out of every 10 or so) and with experience I have learned that through communication and adaptability, you can usually still have a great time even if you don't get 100 percent what you originally wanted. It's completely ridiculous to say that just because you didn't get exactly what you want, that you shouldn't have to pay the escort for his time. That's some self-entitled BS and is I think an attitude that leads a lot of escorts to increasingly give up on continuing in the profession.

There are a few that do it. Mike Gaite I know does. And I think I've seen a few others here and there offer a 30-minute session. Kinda depends on the guy and their situation. It's not common but it's not impossible to find either.

That's really unfortunate. I just told a former regular who used to escort that someone was using his profile photos on Friendboy (and it was another person because the profile didn't connect to his e-mail or phone number). He was really pissed about it. He hasn't escorted since before the pandemic and now has a professional job. This kinda stuff can really hurt the people whose photos are being used without permission. If one wants to take it there, you could probably even file defamation or fraud charges against someone for doing that.

Haha..I used my COVID stimulus check for it. I figured it might as well be used for my stimulus. Haha.

I believe 100% that you should still pay them for the agreed upon rate. Remember you are paying for time, not for sex. It is an unfortunate circumstance and one that has happened to me. But I have paid 100 percent every time. What I have done is say something like, "Well this is a bit disappointing as I was hoping we would be able to do X." Sometimes the session can still be saved and a good professional truly will attempt to do so. Maybe he offers a discount or gives you a bit more time or does an alternative activity that leaves you (at least somewhat) satisfied with his services. This is a discussion you need to have with the escort and you certainly should not assume you will get any discounts and never that you will not have to pay him for his time. But in many cases, we've been able to figure something out. In one case, I put on some porn that he liked on the TV and that seemed to take care of the problem and also gave me an additional hour at no cost so we could relax and reset. Another time with long-time regular ended up turning it into a hot fisting session. Another brought out some fun toys. And yes sometimes you end up a bit disappointed by the experience, just like a lot Grindr hookups seem like they'll be hotter before they actually happen. And that's why we have Daddy's and this forum to avoid guys that are flaky or have constant performance issues. In the end though, you are paying for the escort's time and if he fulfills that time, you should pay him. Of course, he should fulfill your other wants and desires as well. But they're only human and things happen.

Yes I've done it..usually hiring a couple who escorts together. It is quite fun. I did an overnight for my birthday this summer. It was an incredible time. It helps that all three of us have great chemistry together. I did it two other times (with different escorts) and once it was also super hot and great and the other time it was fun though slightly disappointing. One guy had a hard time staying hard and the other guy had a relatively small dick and also didn't bottom. It was not as great as the other experiences but we still had fun. I'd definitely do it again.

I agree with Benjamin here. You can also arrange to meet an escort in person in public before you go up to their place or before they come up to yours. I just did that when I went to New York. For both safety and to make sure they say they are who they are. I told the NY escort that I wasn't comfortable going up a random apartment building and ask they he come down and meet me and we walk up together. And he agreed. And I've done the same where I prefer to meet the guy in the hotel lobby or outside my apartment. I guess if you're super discreet this doesn't work, but I think it's better to meet and have that opportunity to trust your instincts and walk away if something doesn't feel right. I got burned really badly once by a terrible escort in Las Vegas not following my instincts and meeting in public. After that time, I have really tried to follow it whenever possible. (Of course only for new guys. Regulars I buzz into my apartment and it's all good).

Also...I found this web site because an escort asked specifically if I could write a Daddy Review and he explained to me what that was and I found the forum from there. Definitely a great and welcoming community.

I think there are risks if it grows too quickly. I think it has grown naturally through people searching for this kind of thing and maybe that's how it should be. There already is a significant amount of disagreement amongst some forum members and adding more conflict could be detrimental. I would like to see more escorts contribute though. I've told a few regulars about this forum and at least one has become an (infrequent) contributor. I do like their perspectives on this whole process for sure. And more clients on here is great too, but I don't think we need a flurry of new forum members.

I think Daddy picks the coverboy just based on the reviews submitted for that day and his own personal preference. He probably can talk about what goes into it, but that's my understanding.

Definitely a lot of clients would love to help you with that horniness, Maus. ? But totally understand you wanting to be safe especially visiting your parents soon. Hope your journeys are productive and you have a great time with your family. Glad you are staying safe as well. All of us will be still be around when things get less crazy.

I was just in NYC Labor Day weekend and $300 was quote to me across the board with really no deals for extended time or anything. I met with two escorts..one was worth it 100%...the other I say wasn't quite worth $300, but was fun and ok. But as far as I could tell, nobody in NYC was providing discounts at all.

Yep. You can buy a giftcard with cash at CVS, Kroger, Safeway, Target, etc. You can also get them at https://www.giftcards.com but buying a giftcard itself would show up on your credit card statement if you went that route.

I quite like it...love alterlatino music. This is great..I added it to my Spotify. Thanks for sharing.

The Visa GiftCard I used only required you to give a ZIP Code and it could be anything you wanted. You could put 90210 just because you're a big Tori Spelling fan. You just have to remember the ZIP Code you put originally.

I used to do the Denver Post, but sadly the quality has gone down so much with its vulture capitalist owners that I no longer get the print edition. Instead I get my local news through Colorado Public Radio (which also has a quite good online product and I am a member). I also subscribe to NYT digitally.

My regular came down from Montana. Met him this weekend and he said I was the only client in Denver. However, he was going to head east this time through Omaha, Des Moines and the Twin Cities and he said he got a lot of interest on his ads in there so maybe he'll have some more success on that road trip. He's considering doing camming/OnlyFans though because it's been a challenging summer financially. However, he apparently doesn't really enjoy that as much so he's hoping the rest of the trip will be more successful.

I won a Visa gift card for this trivia event and used it to buy one-month memberships to Guys With Sweatpants, BaitBuddies and Latin Leche. No problem on any of those.

It's actually very easy. 1) Set up a fake, anonymous e-mail address. 2) Buy a Visa gift-card for whatever amount you need it for 3) Use the Visa gift-card to make the porn purchase.

I'm waiting until my next GP appointment which is in early October. Hopefully that will be a good time to get it still.

I still see an escort semi-regularly that is no longer advertising and not seeing very many clients. But because we developed a good friendship and have excellent chemistry we still hang out. Unfortunately, he actually has a live-in partner so I know that it's not going to be anything more. But I wouldn't say that just because he is taking a break means that he won't stop seeing you. Not sure if that actually helps with your feeling or not though.

Vitiglio and hyperpigmentation are also genetic, harmless, noncontagious and incurable skin condition that effect many people and many parts of the body (including the genitals). I had an escort once almost refuse to see me because of my skin condition. He ended up requiring me to wear a condom for receptive oral sex. Obviously this isn't a great feeling and I doubt he made many other clients wear a condom for oral and didn't wear one when it was reciprocated. Thanks for bringing this up. Remember that most skin conditions are not contagious and harmless. Meanwhile, you're probably getting HPV and oral chlamydia from guys whose dicks and skin look absolutely normal.

Yeah, we have to remember that some guys get into porn because they maybe have a hard time finding other types of work because of their criminal backgrounds or whatever. Personally, we should have empathy for all of these guys. And in many cases, if it's related to drugs, it's totally understandable. Addiction is such a hard thing and I've seen family members and friends really struggle with it. So many of us struggle with hard times and let's hope that everyone on that web site was able to find some light and make necessary changes in their lives.

Yep...the average penis size is only a bit over five inches. I'd say Chris is decently above average but definitely not like porn-star hung. Interestingly only about 2 percent of men have a dick bigger than 7" so truly these hung porn-stars and escorts are quite exceptional.