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As a total bottom (and trying to own it lol), I actually prefer that masseurs don’t actually stick their finger in my hole. First of all, a lot of guys’ fingers don’t feel that good to me because they are bony and/or have nails that I can feel. Sometimes it does feel good but I guess I really have to be into it.
 
Secondly, for me, massages are a time when I can let go and actually get pampered/worked on myself without having to reciprocate. If I had to think about douching etc then that puts me in a different mindset. But I usually shower and stick a finger in there just in case ?‍♂️

Starting Renee Zelwegger in full Joan Collins/Madeline Stowe mode and from the creator of the sometimes delicious ABC show, Revenge.
 
Read this review from NPR and you’ll see. Also, plenty of hot men’s backsides. It even has a threesome with a lawyer, his hot realtor boyfriend and a go-go boy.

Just a word of warning about this guy. He's totally unreliable.

What makes a guy a skate type? How old? Can he be versatile top or just top? Can Italians apply even though they're technically Mediterranean?
 
You have hundreds of guys in NYC.
 
Why did you have a couple of bad experiences? Have you thought about telling them your stats and expectations upfront just in case?

It is just their marketing spin. You will be surprised how many guys on Grindr indicate in their profile that they are a "top" and then approach me looking to 'bottom'. You just can't believe what is written most of the time.

Well hung/body odor

Intense arousal / poor hygiene

appealing opportunity/lack of appealing opportunity

Entering from behind and teasing my earlobes, neck and nipples - moans in xtc - sheer bliss and I get wildest

Entering from behind and teasing my earlobes, neck and nipples - moans in xtc - sheer bliss and I get wildest

Oooh goosebumps and chills

Save the best for last babe! ?

Thank you! Very helpful. A big dick will get you only so far LOL.

Thank you! Very helpful. A big dick will get you only so far LOL.

His ad is no longer up. It was there a couple of days ago.

https://rentmasseur.com/JamesBringer/ Had a massage appointment with James at my place this past week. It was a fine experience, and did not disappoint. He is quite a personable guy, has very good massage skills, and consider the time spent a great value for the fee charged. I will definitely be hiring him again, in the near future. Happy to share specifics of the massage if you contact me directly.

I checked out his ad on Sunday. He saw that I had viewed his and he sent me a text introducing himself and asked if I wanted a session. How he was able to text me, i do not know as I had not messaged him or given him my number.
 
I browsed his ad again today when I read your post and he texted me again...this time letting me know that he was in Silver Spring.
 
At this point, I thought "OK. I have got him on the line, I will see what I could find out about him"
 
I asked if he had a pic, since the one on his ad was taken from a far distance. He replied with a close up face shot...with bunny ears and whiskers drawn on (a la snapchat).
 
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Edit: We had continued our conversation about expectations in an ad, and communication. I also asked him how he got my number. He showed me that somehow in my profile, I have phone number exposed. I will need to adjust my setting. This is a caution to others...
 
Also, he seems to be a very nice guy. I am still trying to get over those bunny ears though

Some cameras are activated by any movement so just stay REALLY REALLY REALLY still and you won't be filmed.

I have securty cams in every room and outside. I have camera warning signs at both doors and they are not hidden.When someone is over for sex I cover the bedroom one.
 
But often they want to do it on the sofa or floor. I guess I should remind them of the cams.

It was a joke. You need to relax. Maybe a massage? Lemme turn on the VCR.

It’s important that we understand that PrEP was intended to be used in CONJUNCTION with other methods of protection.
The gays are now doing what the straights did with “the pill”.... having bareback sex, thinking of only ONE issue rather than the others.
 
Everyone is now having this big barebacking party, thinking they are superhuman now they they claim to be free from any risk of HIV infection. However, no one is thinking about:
1.) the other numerous STD’s that PrEP doesn’t protect your from.
 
2.) how other medications one is taking will react to PrEP, and could possibly affect its overall efficacy.
 
3.) the possible side effects of long term use, and
 
4.) PrEP’s ability to work within ones system, that may already have other existing STI’s (for example, if a PrEP user currently had syphillis and gonhorrea, how is the medications reacting to the users compromised immune system to properly do its job to prevent HIV infection?
 
Also, as a side note, I find it alarming that so many people trust the government enough to regularly take a medication which they have sanctioned to prevent a disease that they claim they can’t cure.
 
This could be one huge unorthodoxed “clinical trial/experiment”....

In today's world you never know, with all the new technology, even with a cell phone. I think we all need to be aware that we might be recorded during our sessions. There is no way to know for sure. You just NEVER know. It can be done so discreetly. I do know someone (not during a massage setting) who had a set up where he would video his hook ups without there knowledge. So whether during massage....or hooking up, it does happen, and the only thing you can do is just be aware. Nothing else you can do.

Yes I had the same experience years ago with Josh Big Texan. Not the rate increase but the sudden change in personality. Moving on though sad is the best way to go.

There's a guy that I meet on a regular basis whenever I'm in his city. What happens in our meetings are quite limited, he has made his boundaries clear at the very beginning of our work relationship, and I agreed to them. And I never once attempted to cross them.
 
He also gave me a rate that was lower than the average market value, adjusted for the type of services he provides.
 
Last week, I tried to book him again. He was gruff and for no reason that I could think of, quoted me prices above market average. Thinking that he's now willing to provide more than what we used to share, I asked what can I expect in our meeting. He replied "same boundaries as before."
 
I replied along the lines of how much I enjoy his company, but I didn't find his new rate to be fair for what we get to do. I didn't think there was any reason to ask why the rate increase and the sudden coldness, so I just went ahead and cancelled the meeting.
 
I shrugged and said to myself that it's time to move on. Although I'd be lying if I said I'm no longer befuddled by the whole thing.

I always try to be alert when visiting people's home.