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It's contagious. Now I have one.

I often reach out to masseurs last minute due to the nature of my own schedule and career. It’s hard for me to carve out time days in advance and have it still be there when the time comes. 
 
I am never offended when they aren’t available.
I also notice a lot of providers who mention something along the lines of “same day appointments only.” So every provider has their own way of dealing with the vagaries of client availability, I suppose.

Let's not forget that a lot of clients enjoy these types of massages in complete confidentiality from their personal lives.
This means that opportunities can be rare and sometimes last minute.
I always preface my last minute requests with, "Sorry for this last minute request......"
I have explained this to my regulars and they know I completely understand if they are not available....or even if they don't respond. There is no pressure on my end.
On another note, a sensual/erotic massage is a very intimate experience compared to a dinner with a friend.
If I had a miserable day in the office, I can still pull off the friend dinner but allowing myself to completely relax/unwind for a sensual massage is difficult for me to do.

PLAYGUY magazine, December 1989

I'm seeing him today. I'll let you know how it goes. 

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