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If we’re talking about bad tattoo choices, anyone remember Michael Hoffman? He was ripped and hot the first time I saw him. Fast forward and he now looks ridiculous. I couldn’t post full body shots because his erection would violate forum rules, but he has Popeye among other cartoonish characters on his thigh. I included a link below for those who are curious. This is a definite “what not to do.” https://gaybeeg.info/pornstar/michael-a-hoffman/

The only caveat with Metamucil is to take it at least two hours before or after any prescription meds. The bulk fibers can affect how well other meds work.

My Samsung Smart TV has an app so I’m sure it’s available with most brands. I can also add the channel to my Amazon Prime account and watch it through their app. Either way, you’ll get a free trial but need to subscribe when signing up. If you don’t want to pay you need to cancel before your trial period is over.

Because some clients are looking for more than sucking and fucking. As someone who enjoys long make-out sessions and cuddling when I sleep, I enjoy that time as much as, if not more, than the physical sex. I just had an overnight on Saturday with my regular and had a blast. We made out for over an hour, had some hot fun, showered, had some food, watched a movie together while cuddling and drinking wine, moved to my bedroom for some additional fun, slept wrapped around each other all night, and awoke to some more fun. We've started calling it our "date night." If you're just into getting your rocks off I can see where an overnight wouldn't make sense. At times, I wish I was one of those guys who want nothing more than get in, get off, and get out. It sure as hell would save me a lot of money, but I don't find that completely satisfying and I actually enjoy the connection made with a guy during longer sessions.

My guy hosted in his apartment, whether it was to see him or one of his boys. He’d be in the living room or bedroom with his boyfriend while the client and escort were in a second bedroom. A little too close for comfort.

Picture it....Philly 1982...a nervous, scared, closeted, college-aged young man paging through the classified section of Philadelphia Magazine, comes across a text-only advertisement for a “male escort.” I called the number and spoke with a guy named “Rick,” who was the escort, and he provided me with a physical description of himself. No photos, no e-mail or internet at that time, and definitely no forums like this. I can’t even remember how much, probably like $60 for the hour, which was a fortune to a college kid in 1982. As it turns out, he had a “stable” of young men available, including his current boyfriend, all of whom he managed. My first 3-way was with him and the boyfriend about a year later. I hired a couple other times through him over the next couple years, based solely on a physical description provided verbally by “Rick” over the phone. I hadn’t hired since then until December, 2019. It’s a whole new world with the internet and texting and I’ve never felt older than I do now after recounting that story.

I’m more than willing to help these performers who go “independent” via OF and JFF, which is why I subscribe, but I’m also going to spend my dollars where I get the best value and not where I’m treated like an ATM. I’ve had private DM conversations with Griffin Barrows without any tip or additional donation expected or required. That, along with updated, hot content without up-selling is why I keep subscribing each month and probably why he continually ranks among the top page creators on both OF and JFF.

I’d do the same thing, especially if the page to which I subscribed was offering everything for the subscription price then converted to a PPV pricing structure. At the end of the day, it’s the creator’s page to do with as he wishes and my dollars to spend where I wish. And honestly, if the creator is well-known, there are tons of free content on various websites. Unless he’s doing something completely different, why would I pay for what is already available for free?

He really likes Gabriel and they have great chemistry together. A hot couple for sure.

Like fine wine, he gets better with age. To make it even hotter, he’s gotten into topping a lot more. I’d borrow against my 401k to spend a night with him.

This latest blog post just reinforced why @Benjamin_Nicholas is on my bucket list. Nothing hotter than a dominant verbal top. Mental note to self: remember to bring him a white wife beater. ?

Grindr has become overrun with bots, cat fishers, and scam artists. It’s challenging Adam4Adam for worst app.

Or tell him you have a mime fetish and ask him to wear a pair of white gloves. ?

Respect and consideration (by both parties) do wonders to enhance the experience.

@Rudynate is correct. Be clear with your potential overnight so you can both manage your expectations. I have two regulars with whom I’ve done several overnights in my home. We have a great time and allow for adequate sleep. With that said, I’d be lying if I said nothing ever happens in the middle of the night. Nothing like waking up with a hard-on pressing against your ass. Carpe penis! I don’t think any potential companion will have an issue with some middle of the night fun, but again, ask up front. It shows respect for them and that you want the experience to be mutually pleasurable.

I’ll post the advice I received from the master of deep throating....oil it up, boys.

A few days ago I posted in the OF thread about Griffin, what he offers, his personality, and his interactive nature with his subscribers and suggested anyone looking to try OF or JFF study his business model. You may want to follow him on Twitter if you’re not already. A few days ago he posted the below, which I thought was very generous of him. This is his business but he doesn’t treat his subscribers like ATM machines and he’s willing to advise other guys trying to give it a shot. [MEDIA=twitter]1293932568577028102[/MEDIA]

Yes, but you can choose to reply or interact without charging for it. Griffin Barrows has 560k Twitter followers. He posts at least a few times per day and usually reacts and replies to the first comments on each (probably because he's still on-line), but followers don't expect him to reply nor get publicly angry if he doesn't. I subscribe to his OF page and have sent a few DM 's to him without any additional tip and he's always replied, been engaging, pleasant, cheerful and expresses gratitude. He makes his subscribers feel valued and that, plus his updated content, keeps me subscribing each month. Conversely, I subscribed and unsubscribed to Collin Simpson's page within an hour when I realized everything other than his teasers were additional and he bombarded my OF message box with sales pitches, even after my subscription ended.

Exactly. The site apparently hosts multiple masseurs and you can’t get past their home screen and generic “about us” information without registering and paying the booking fee. You can’t even browse the masseurs until you book.

Not sure if this belongs here or The Spa. Anyone familiar with this site? https://magictouch88.godaddysites.com/ Got hit up on Grindr today by a guy offering massages whose ad I never saw before. He was attractive and I’m always interested in a hot massage. I asked if he was local to which he replied yes. He had some obviously scripted messages and replies. The requirement was that you had to register on this site, pay a refundable $3 booking fee to search for and book him. I’m suspicious of having to divulge personal information, especially the requirement of an electronic payment. The balance of the session is payable in cash when it happens. $3 is an insignificant amount, but I can lose a lot more than $3 by providing that information. I told him I’ve never had to register for a session before and I pay in cash at the time it occurs. His reply was that it was for the safety of the masseur. $3 does not provide safety for the masseur, so I’m guessing the value is obtaining the client’s personal information. My final message was that I wasn’t going to create an account and provide personal information, at which point I was blocked. I’m positive this was a scam, but wanted to get others’ thoughts and warn other members who may use the hookup apps.

Holy shit, he’s gorgeous. His IG has videos of him giving lectures. Those looks, that Italian accent, and brains. Grazie, Pietro.

I didn’t quote Army Hands, I quoted you. You can spin this however you’d like. It doesn’t matter whether he called you something as benign as a jerk or as ugly as an STD infested druggie, any rational person would throw a block on his RM profile, block his number on your phone, and move on. But no, you decided you were going to blow up his life. Whether you followed through is irrelevant. What makes it worse is that you’re still justifying it. Guess what? The mere fact that you think it’s acceptable and you don’t seem to value discretion is a huge red flag. You bitch and complain about clients not respecting you or your time, yet see nothing disturbing about your own behavior. And please, please tell me you didn’t compare being called names, however vile, to a man who was murdered. Please tell me I read that wrong.

Without hesitation, Griffin Barrows and Tyler Saint. https://onlyfans.com/griffinbarrows?rec=24590236 https://onlyfans.com/tylersaint?rec=24590236

Did you, a provider, actually write on a public forum frequented by clients that you were going to contact the employer and partner of a man (potential client) who you never met, didn't cheat you out of money and you "woulda charred" because he called you names? If this isn’t a red flag for every client out there, I don't know what is.

I used to watch Cam4 (and WebCamNow when it still existed) for hours. It wasn’t as token/payment centered back then and the guys were much more engaging. You had the ability to tip, but most of the guys performed for free. As it became more monetized the guys became less engaged. They’d look for tips in the room and then you had to pay for a semi-private show to see anything. I’ll save my coin for my in-person regulars.