[Do You] Ask escorts before reviewing them

[muscmtl]

You guys check with the escort first about reviewing them, or you just do it anyway?

 

Since I only pay for bb escort that swallow and get bred, I don't want to put something in the review that will scare their potential clients away. For some escort, even mentoinning that they btm is bad.

 

That's too bad because if noncensored reviews are soooo hot.

 

Of course if the escort was a total douche well... u know

[+ FrankR]

You guys check with the escort first about reviewing them, or you just do it anyway?

 

Since I only pay for bb escort that swallow and get bred, I don't want to put something in the review that will scare their potential clients away. For some escort, even mentoinning that they btm is bad.

 

That's too bad because if noncensored reviews are soooo hot.

 

Of course if the escort was a total douche well... u know

I do not ask for permission if the escort has an online profile. For those without an online/public presence, I only write if asked or if I believe there are safety concerns that our community needs to be aware of (has not happened yet; as you said, the douchebag scenario). My reviews are carefully written to be detailed and yet not too explicit. I always try to be clear on whether the promised service was delivered and if I would repeat.

 

When it comes to massage providers, I only submit a formal review if asked. Do I comment on the forum? You bet; same rule about community safety applies.

Edited November 7, 2018 by FrankR

[+ poolboy48220]

I always check.

[+ José Soplanucas]

I always check, but I rarely report two things: the fee and whether or not we played safe.

[BluDay]

I don't ask as a general rule, but I have told my regular when I do one.

 

If they have a profile on rent.men or another, what I'm saying should only help their business. Not that it's ever happened, but unless I did a deserved poor review, I would forward a request to take it down if the escort asked me.

 

If we engaged in services he doesn't state on his ad, I would not mention them. I think anything like that could be covered in "marvelous experience" "more than I hoped for" or something like that.

 

I admit I would be surprised for a man for whom this is their business would not want a positive review posted. I've not seen an un-reviewed escort in years, and I doubt I will as long as I can find reviews.

[+ JEC]

As with all things “it depends”. Sometimes I’ll ask if they are OK with the content or anything they prefer I do/don’t say. Sometimes I’ll just submit. As with others try to be careful with specifics...out of respect and also since sesta/fosta passage.

Edited November 8, 2018 by JEC

[rvwnsd]

I always check, but I rarely report two things: the fee and whether or not we played safe.

Like @latbear4blk, I always ask before posting a review. More than one escort for whom I would have written a glowing review asked that I not do so because of the pettiness and bitchiness that often accompanies reviews of new or previously unreviewed guys. When I do submit a review I don’t mention “specialty” services (in my case a guy’s ripe armpits, ass, and feet) given the potential for an escort’s willingness to oblige these requests to be deemed as having poor hygiene and therefore unworthy of being hired.

[Guest]

Like @latbear4blk, I always ask before posting a review. More than one escort for whom I would have written a glowing review asked that I not do so because of the pettiness and bitchiness that often accompanies reviews of new or previously unreviewed guys. When I do submit a review I don’t mention “specialty” services (in my case a guy’s ripe armpits, ass, and feet) given the potential for an escort’s willingness to oblige these requests to be deemed as having poor hygiene and therefore unworthy of being hired.

Wow. The thought of asking an escort's permission before writing a review has never even entered my mind (though most are positive, of course). Maybe I don't look carefully enough, but I haven't noted "pettiness and bitchiness" regarding reviews of newly-reviewed escorts. I greatly welcome reviews of escorts who haven't been reviewed before. What I have noticed is a suspicion for reviews from brand-new reviewers, especially when an escort has a disproportionate number of reviews from first-time reviewers. Obviously, everyone has to start reviewing for the first time, but if an escort has 5 glowing reviews from first-time reviewers, and one not so great review from an established reviewer, I personally view that as highly suspicious, as I would hope it would to anyone with any common sense.

 

I would not post the fee if he agrees to a fee less than his advertised rate (typically for long-term hires). Otherwise, this is information the reader wants to know and should be required. I would also not make mention of his doing anything he doesn't advertise as doing in his profile. However, if he can't adequately do what he says he does well, that experience should be shared. Otherwise, what's the point in writing reviews?

Edited November 8, 2018 by Unicorn

[+ StLouisOct]

My typical situation is that the escort has performed well and when I thank him I tell him I will be writing a review. Mine all bottom and they describe themselves as bottoms or versatile so complimenting them for their skills in that regard has never been a concern. I will occasionally send a copy of the review to the escort after I've sent it to Daddy. That's primarily to compliment them and to let them know that I'm doing a good thing for them. They've all been grateful for a positive review. I like having repeat visits and the fact that I've spoken well of an escort sets a positive tone for subsequent meetings.

[Guest]

...I don’t mention “specialty” services (in my case a guy’s ripe armpits...

 

[big-n-tall]

I tend to ask if they want one. I have encountered some, whom for whatever reason, don't want reviews.

[+ Pensant]

I haven’t done reviews in a while, but I’ve always asked. I’ve gotten lazy lately.

[muscmtl]

So we all agree that we don't report on special scts.

In some way that's too bad. Would love to read reviews where the escort bb btmed, swallowed cum, pisss. Especially an escort who advertise as a safe top, i d contact that escort in a flash.

[+ FrankR]

So we all agree that we don't report on special scts.

In some way that's too bad. Would love to read reviews where the escort bb btmed, swallowed cum, pisss. Especially an escort who advertise as a safe top, i d contact that escort in a flash.

I suspect some of the kind of chatter you are interested in, will be covered in the fetish forum... I am curious - how do you define “safe top”?

[BluDay]

Would love to read reviews where the escort bb btmed, swallowed cum, pisss. Especially an escort who advertise as a safe top, i d contact that escort in a flash.

 

I believe some escorts are more comfortable with some clients than others, so I wouldn't mention "special services". I've met one who kisses me but it's not part of his normal service. When we discussed it, he said he makes the decision based on how he feels with the client. I think that makes sense. I think an escort who totally knew a client only had sex with him would be more comfortable doing bareback since the risk would be so small (for example). I wouldn't mention he kissed in a review, so other clients wouldn't demand it of him, and he gets a sour taste in his mouth (I promise that didn't start as a pun), and not feel as comfortable kissing me.

[LaffingBear]

Good guys: I tell them about this board & Daddys reviews. Ask if preference for posted reviews. Honor requests if they dont want to be reviewed.

 

Bad guys: I don't ask. I share the info. Hope it can help others avoid the person or a similar situation.

[muscmtl]

I believe some escorts are more comfortable with some clients than others, so I wouldn't mention "special services". I've met one who kisses me but it's not part of his normal service. When we discussed it, he said he makes the decision based on how he feels with the client. I think that makes sense. I think an escort who totally knew a client only had sex with him would be more comfortable doing bareback since the risk would be so small (for example). I wouldn't mention he kissed in a review, so other clients wouldn't demand it of him, and he gets a sour taste in his mouth (I promise that didn't start as a pun), and not feel as comfortable kissing me.[/quote

 

Man! Even kissing is too much for reviews. That leaves little else

[BluDay]

@muscmtl No kissing on a review for that one provider who does not generally kiss. If it were listed in is ad, I consider it fair game. If you had a provider who was a top, but bottomed for you because of your relationship, I wouldn't put that in the review because it was just the two of you, he wouldn't want to do it for anyone else.

[+ José Soplanucas]

@muscmtl No kissing on a review for that one provider who does not generally kiss. If it were listed in is ad, I consider it fair game. If you had a provider who was a top, but bottomed for you because of your relationship, I wouldn't put that in the review because it was just the two of you, he wouldn't want to do it for anyone else.

 

I do not take very seriously when an escort tells me that he does something only with me. I do not think I am so special, it is just sweet talk.

 

Although it may occasionally be true.

[BluDay]

@latbear4blk I don't necessarily believe it either, but I do take it as a guide to what he's willing to tell the general public about their services.

[+ José Soplanucas]

@latbear4blk I don't necessarily believe it either, but I do take it as a guide to what he's willing to tell the general public about their services.

 

I prefer to put it exactly in those terms when I ask them if they are OK with me publishing a detailed review. Most times I directly ask whether or not there are any specific activities that they would prefer to remain private.