Overnight questions

[cruiserdude1234]

I am thinking about planning an overnight with an escort in Austin, TX at the end of April and wanted some information on a general timeframe for going out to dinner, going out dancing, seeing a movie or something like that etc. Have not done an overnight and just trying to figure out how best to organize and what to plan or not plan.

[TruthBTold]

I am sure there are a couple of threads that discuss overnights, you may want to do a search. One is https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/overnights.142186/#post-1611319. I am sure there are others. For me I so not like to eat before I have sex so in general I would always have light appetizers and some kind of drink and then have hot and heavy sex. When that is done and we have taken a nice shower we go out to eat for dinner. There isn't much I really mandate except I make sure I leave time for him to answer a phone call or two. Then we probably would have sex the next morning and I always either make breakfast or ask if he wants to go to breakfast. He might not and generally that is not part of the overnight. For me, for an overnight, I do not leave "time" for him to be by himself as I would if it were a full day or two.

[blackriver]

I’ll add another question... do escorts do overnights with new clients?

[TruthBTold]

I am sure most would. However, the question is probably the other way around. Do you want to do an overnight with someone that you have not done a couple of hours with first? Most of the wisdom around generally tends to be try the person out and then if you have felt that an overnight would be appropriate, go for it. An escort will expect payment if you have made an overnight appointment if you decide to leave because you just don't "click." He could have (or might have) booked other people. So my advice is to try him out for an evening and then if you really like him book him for the next night if you really have to have him or another trip if you are leaving right away. But that is just my advice.

[big-n-tall]

I’ll add another question... do escorts do overnights with new clients?

 

As @TruthBTold mention, yes an escort would do an overnight with a new client.

 

The first time I met AJ Irons it was for an overnight in San Diego. It was a great experience and we still see each other to this day. There are a few others I met for overnights the 1st time we met that also worked out extremely well.

 

That being said if you are uncertain about your 1st experience what Truth says is good advice.

[+ WilliamM]

I would not have a problem with someone whom I met in another city and later talked with several times on the phone.

 

But it would be someone I immediately liked physically.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

I’ll add another question... do escorts do overnights with new clients?

 

Yes.

 

Have not done an overnight and just trying to figure out how best to organize and what to plan or not plan.

 

I'd recommend going with the flow. An overnight timeframe allows for a natural evening progression, conversation, play, dinner, etc.

 

If there's something specific that interests you for the time, yes, I'd plan or discuss it with your guy. Otherwise, just play it by ear, don't over-plan and enjoy the experience.

[Geriatric Otter]

I've been hiring for 18+ years, and have met some really fine men. I sometimes see someone first time overnight, if I know their reputation and reviews, like Mike Gaite, Matt Stevens, Adam Russo, Allen Silver. I'm a pretty good companion and feed and house my guys well. Typical overnight for me is meeting up at 3-4, play, nice dinner +/- show or music, play, sleep, sometimes play in AM. That part is something not everyone gets into. Communication is key. I generally let new people know that I'm affectionate and into a BFE, and that keys in for most people. If two days, the second day is most fun, with shopping, museum, and just hanging out together.

[+ oldNbusted]

I've been hiring for 18+ years, and have met some really fine men. I sometimes see someone first time overnight, if I know their reputation and reviews, like Mike Gaite, Matt Stevens, Adam Russo, Allen Silver. I'm a pretty good companion and feed and house my guys well. Typical overnight for me is meeting up at 3-4, play, nice dinner +/- show or music, play, sleep, sometimes play in AM. That part is something not everyone gets into. Communication is key. I generally let new people know that I'm affectionate and into a BFE, and that keys in for most people. If two days, the second day is most fun, with shopping, museum, and just hanging out together.

 

Sounds wonderful!

[hypothetically]

I am thinking about planning an overnight with an escort in Austin, TX at the end of April and wanted some information on a general timeframe for going out to dinner, going out dancing, seeing a movie or something like that etc. Have not done an overnight and just trying to figure out how best to organize and what to plan or not plan.

 

This is completely up to you. There is no format. You can A) Be transparent and thorough per what you are seeking during the overnight session. Or B) Have no set agenda and let things just unravel naturally as the evening progresses. I suggest you communicate clear expectations.

 

I do overnights regularly with first time clients, I make sure to at the very least call them or FaceTime with them prior to meeting.

 

They vary. Sometimes it’s dinner, chatting, light play and bed. Other times, it’s simply playing many times over the course of the night. Luckily, you get to decide