Bi Guys and Rimming

[+ Axiom2001]

Yesterday while my mind was in its meandering state, I thought about the escort in San Francisco who I have been seeing for almost two plus years now. He professes to be bisexual, yet he loves to have his ass fingered deeply and a hot rimming during every session. Because I have come to like providing him with what he desires (without saying a word)-- I ask you men here- what has been your experience with your being with a "straight" or "bi sexual" man for sexual play? :p:p

[+ azdr0710]

Have said this before, but I used to meet with a former Marine, and now firefighter for a major US county, who wanted nothing more (often begged) than to give me head and bottom for me. And once, it was after he put on a show with a chick for me like a pro. If anybody denies bisexuality exists, have them come talk to me.

 

The area around the butt is very sensitive (no surprise) and once a dude gets past the stigma, it can be a great thing!

[KeepItReal]

Yesterday while my mind was in its meandering state, I thought about the escort in San Francisco who I have been seeing for almost two plus years now. He professes to be bisexual, yet he loves to have his ass fingered deeply and a hot rimming during every session. Because I have come to like providing him with what he desires (without saying a word)-- I ask you men here- what has been your experience with your being with a "straight" or "bi sexual" man for sexual play? :p:p

I've had only a few encounters with guys that indicated they are bi - mainly due to my preferences when it comes to what I expect out of a visit. According to my 'little list', all but one asked to repeat. The one that did not ask for a repeat knew I would not be interested - he smoked like a chimney and I couldn't stand the smell.

[bostonman]

The area around the butt is very sensitive (no surprise) and once a dude gets past the stigma, it can be a great thing!

 

Plus, it's very clear to me that ass play in general is not just a "gay" thing I know straight couples who do anal sex as well as vaginal, and I know straight men who are very aware that that area is an erogenous zone for them. But yes, for others, there is a stigma.

 

During the "puppet sex" sequence in the musical Avenue Q, we hear a male puppet say to his female partner, "you can't put your finger there..." followed by "whoa! Put your finger there!!!" And we all know exactly what's being referred to.

 

For some years now, I've come to terms with the feeling that I'm just not interested in ass-related play. But back in college, I did enjoy rimming. And I do remember rimming a few straight guys, and they always enjoyed it.

 

And in fact, my one real remaining desire to rim is in a fantasy that brings me back to that, in a way - imagining going back to those school years and finally getting my shot with a cocky straight jock type - the guys I secretly drooled over back then but could never get. And at some point, seducing him into letting me finger and eat his ass. And thoroughly enjoying his very audible and conflicted reactions as he struggles with the sensation. Part of him stunned by how awesome it feels - and yet part of him feeling very emotionally vulnerable and taken down a peg, because he realizes that letting this happen and enjoying it is also a huge threat to his perfect masculine image lol. It's fun to think about, anyway.

[marylander1940]

Plus, it's very clear to me that ass play in general is not just a "gay" thing I know straight couples who do anal sex as well as vaginal, and I know straight men who are very aware that that area is an erogenous zone for them. But yes, for others, there is a stigma.

 

During the "puppet sex" sequence in the musical Avenue Q, we hear a male puppet say to his female partner, "you can't put your finger there..." followed by "whoa! Put your finger there!!!" And we all know exactly what's being referred to.

 

For some years now, I've come to terms with the feeling that I'm just not interested in ass-related play. But back in college, I did enjoy rimming. And I do remember rimming a few straight guys, and they always enjoyed it.

 

And in fact, my one real remaining desire to rim is in a fantasy that brings me back to that, in a way - imagining going back to those school years and finally getting my shot with a cocky straight jock type - the guys I secretly drooled over back then but could never get. And at some point, seducing him into letting me finger and eat his ass. And thoroughly enjoying his very audible and conflicted reactions as he struggles with the sensation. Part of him stunned by how awesome it feels - and yet part of him feeling very emotionally vulnerable and taken down a peg, because he realizes that letting this happen and enjoying it is also a huge threat to his perfect masculine image lol. It's fun to think about, anyway.

 

[big-n-tall]

Most of my regulars consider themselves bisexual. All of which, save one, thoroughly enjoy ass play (rimmed, fingered, or both). However, the one who doesn't enjoy rimming or being fingered I think feels some stigma about it, but oddly enough he likes to bottom.

 

As others have said the anus can bring pleasure (if done right) for a man or a woman.

[+ Gar1eth]

They may have liked rimming. But I'm not fond of giving. So they may have left disappointed.

 

Gman