Looking for the NYC escorts who also work as fitness trainers

[treatyoself]

I'm looking for a personal trainer that can help my current dilemma of really deep-rooted lack of motivation.

 

My lack of motivation has to do with my sex life frustration.

 

I know health should be a motivator but the reality is that I primarily want to get into shape to boost my self-esteem and improve my romantic and sex life.

 

I'm curious if finding a trainer in NYC (slight preference for someone gay vs. gay-4-pay) with current or prior experience as a sex worker might be a good fit to get me motivated by being able to chat about these psychological and sex life topics to keep be engaged and learning about my mental road blocks.

 

I guess you could say I'm looking for a fitness trainer that could double as a sex therapist!

 

Thanks i advance for any leads, recs, or other ideas! Private message or replying here is great!

Edited August 10, 2019 by treatyoself

[queensboroboy]

One of my fantasies

[SirBillybob]

I had one up here in Canada some years ago who blended a very rigorous routine with vigorous rewards. He put 30 lbs of muscle mass on me over the first two years, a 20% weight increase, and huge strength gains. I had been thin, not overweight.

 

I just took extra employment to partially finance it. Worth every penny.

[treatyoself]

I had one up here in Canada some years ago who blended a very rigorous routine with vigorous rewards. He put 30 lbs of muscle mass on me over the first two years, a 20% weight increase, and huge strength gains. I had been thin, not overweight.

 

I just took extra employment to partially finance it. Worth every penny.

 

Sounds a lot like what I'm looking for. Might not even need the escort services per se included, more just looking for the conversation around sexual health and stuff.

[+ purplekow]

Whan I first started hiring, I found a local escort who also did personal training. Each Tuesday afternoon, we would do an hour in the gym and an hour in the sack and usually a lunch afterwards. Since it was a regular weekly appointment, which lasted for more than a year, he gave me a great rate and we became good friends. so much so that when he broke up with his girlfriend and found himself without a place to stay, he moved in for a few weeks until he found an apartment.

Unfortunately, this story has a sad ending. RIP John still missing your infectious smile 12 years later.

[kaboom35]

I had this arrangement once as well many years ago. He was manager at a private gym so we would meet after it was closed since he had a key. We would do our workouts and then crazy sweaty fun in the sauna. I think that’s why I have a sweat fetish to this day. Lol.

[Guest LeonTrotsky]

May I speak frankly.... at the risk of being called a buzz-kill here?

 

If you are serious about fitness training, you can hire an escort to do a fantasy scene with you on an "as needed"/"as wanted" basis... but, quite frankly, no serious fitness trainer is going to go down this road with you on a long term basis. It just is not what a true fitness regimen is about, and a real trainer won't do it.

 

(Take it from me, I thought it would be a fun "niche" to promote myself and it was a train wreck!)

 

But having said that -- there are some escorts and masseurs who spend lots of time working out and have lots of knowledge to share... could be a fun fantasy scene, but do a reality check on it too.

[+ Gar1eth]

May I speak frankly.... at the risk of being called a buzz-kill here?

 

If you are serious about fitness training, you can hire an escort to do a fantasy scene with you on an "as needed"/"as wanted" basis... but, quite frankly, no serious fitness trainer is going to go down this road with you on a long term basis. It just is not what a true fitness regimen is about, and a real trainer won't do it.

 

(Take it from me, I thought it would be a fun "niche" to promote myself and it was a train wreck!)

 

But having said that -- there are some escorts and masseurs who spend lots of time working out and have lots of knowledge to share... could be a fun fantasy scene, but do a reality check on it too.

 

Not to say that you are wrong. But I've hired at least four escorts in the past who were personal trainers when not escorting. (One of them may not have been a personal trainer at the time, but became one a few years later). There may have been more. So it's possible the OP could find someone.

 

Gman

[Guest LeonTrotsky]

Not to say that you are wrong. But I've hired at least four escorts in the past who were personal trainers when not escorting. (One of them may not have been a personal trainer at the time, but became one a few years later). There may have been more. So it's possible the OP could find someone.

 

Gman

I'm actually really happy to hear that.

 

The world of personal trainers in New York is fiercely competitive.... to a crazy degree. And guys who work in the "corporate gyms" (Equinox, Crunch, NYSC, and so on) generally make a miserable paycheck. So what you write makes total sense!

[alexslaveboy]

I agree with @Gar1eth 100%

 

In the past I've seen at 4 NYC escorts who were/are personal trainer certified

 

Some have vanished or resurfaced as another name

 

But if the OP goes to NYC and adjusts the search engine to filter by muscle as body type and muscle guy as type

I'm sure some profiles will pop up with personal trainer in their bios

[coriolis888]

May I speak frankly.... at the risk of being called a buzz-kill here?

 

If you are serious about fitness training, you can hire an escort to do a fantasy scene with you on an "as needed"/"as wanted" basis... but, quite frankly, no serious fitness trainer is going to go down this road with you on a long term basis. It just is not what a true fitness regimen is about, and a real trainer won't do it.

 

(Take it from me, I thought it would be a fun "niche" to promote myself and it was a train wreck!)

 

But having said that -- there are some escorts and masseurs who spend lots of time working out and have lots of knowledge to share... could be a fun fantasy scene, but do a reality check on it too.

 

 

Very pragmatic, in my opinion!

[Guest buffwolverine]

The gym always makes me horny. I have this fantasy with @Benjamin_Nicholas. He’s on my list to hire for a session.

[myophile]

May I speak frankly.... at the risk of being called a buzz-kill here?

 

If you are serious about fitness training, you can hire an escort to do a fantasy scene with you on an "as needed"/"as wanted" basis... but, quite frankly, no serious fitness trainer is going to go down this road with you on a long term basis. It just is not what a true fitness regimen is about, and a real trainer won't do it.

 

(Take it from me, I thought it would be a fun "niche" to promote myself and it was a train wreck!)

 

But having said that -- there are some escorts and masseurs who spend lots of time working out and have lots of knowledge to share... could be a fun fantasy scene, but do a reality check on it too.

 

Totally agree. But in fact, the OP isn’t insisting on a PT who can both train and fuck him, but just wants a trainer open to discussing the sexual and psychological issues that bring the OP into the gym. That may be as difficult a pairing to find, and to maintain, as the PT/hooker combo. But I absolutely sympathize with the OP’s goals—for me, losing weight and getting fit, past a certain point, became rather less about health, and rather more about creating (or recreating) a body better suited to giving and receiving sexual pleasure. To paraphrase the late, great Anthony Bourdain, in late middle age I have come to realize that my body is not a temple, it’s an amusement park; and for me, the fitter I am, the more I enjoy the ride ...

[+ Reisr30]

Wow where can I find a personal trainer that provides companion services too...

[+ nycman]

Wow where can I find a personal trainer that provides companion services too...

I think you just described 80% of the personal trainers in NYC.

 

They might not all do it.

And they certainly don’t all do it for all of their clients.

But most do it for some of their clients.

[+ Gar1eth]

May I speak frankly.... at the risk of being called a buzz-kill here?

 

If you are serious about fitness training, you can hire an escort to do a fantasy scene with you on an "as needed"/"as wanted" basis... but, quite frankly, no serious fitness trainer is going to go down this road with you on a long term basis. It just is not what a true fitness regimen is about, and a real trainer won't do it.

 

(Take it from me, I thought it would be a fun "niche" to promote myself and it was a train wreck!)

 

But having said that -- there are some escorts and masseurs who spend lots of time working out and have lots of knowledge to share... could be a fun fantasy scene, but do a reality check on it too.

Not to say that you are wrong. But I've hired at least four escorts in the past who were personal trainers when not escorting. (One of them may not have been a personal trainer at the time, but became one a few years later). There may have been more. So it's possible the OP could find someone.

 

Gman

 

Now that I'm 6 hours or so past my original post I'm having a senior moment. I was re-reading my post in the course of looking at the responses, and I can only think of three guys at the moment. I know when I originally posted, I came up with 4 fairly quickly off the bat. But now for the life of me at 12:49 AM CDT I can't remember who was my 4th example.

 

Gman

 

PS But at 12:50 AM CDT, I remembered who the 4th guy was.

[dutchal]

Both these guys are personal trainers who advertise as a masseurs, and both had rentmen ads for a short time. Seems like they recoiled from offering escort services to the general market, but might be willing to discuss them with a personal training client (pure speculation on my part). The first of these guys has not gotten good comments here about personality, but you should look at the threads for yourself:

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/36830/

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/38476/

 

When I google searched [masseurfinder "new York" trainer] came up with a long list of masseurs who say they're also trainers. That list might be a place to start your search.

That didn't work for rentmasseur for some reason.

Same search for rentmen turned up a few, including:

https://rentmen.eu/FRANKXNYC

https://rent.men/JuliusMajor/ (expired)

https://rent.men/ChristopherCash (expired)

From what I've read here, messages to expired pages can still get through.

Edited August 11, 2019 by dutchal

[queensboroboy]

I want FrankXNYC to train me. Hot.

[BaronArtz]

Nice detective work, as usual @dutchal !

 

A quick search for 'trainer' on RM yielded many interesting results. One of them:

 

https://rentmen.eu/Hhermess

 

You got to wonder why a talent like him would want to live in Davenport, IA. I hope he makes it out to NYC sometime.

 

I second what many have said about trainers at corporate gyms in NYC. I was a member at Equinox Amsterdam/76 for a while. It was quite obvious which ones of the trainers were available for additional services with both male and female clients. I guess that's where the money is made ...

[RyanDean]

I would encourage you to flip your script, @treatyoself. It sounds to me like you're looking for someone (who's got fitness and sexwork experience) to provide personal coaching to confront your mental roadblocks and to help motivate you to connect with your body in a different way. This is a little bit different from hiring an escort for a fantasy-scene, but I suspect there are a number of gents in the game who would be well-equipped (and possibly inclined) to set up an arrangement for this kind of work.

 

I happen to know an NYC-based guy that I suspect would be perfect for you. He no longer advertises on RMen or comparable sites, but his personal/life coaching business appears to be going strong. I'll DM you the details.

Edited August 11, 2019 by RyanDean

[+ Gar1eth]

From what I've read here, messages to expired pages can still get through.

 

Do they actually get through, or is it the same as on the now defunct M4RN site where the providers were told they had messages but had to renew their ads before they could read them?

 

Gman

[+ Hung_Cody]

I'm looking for a personal trainer that can help my current dilemma of really deep-rooted lack of motivation.

 

My lack of motivation has to do with my sex life frustration.

 

I know health should be a motivator but the reality is that I primarily want to get into shape to boost my self-esteem and improve my romantic and sex life.

 

I'm curious if finding a trainer in NYC (slight preference for someone gay vs. gay-4-pay) with current or prior experience as a sex worker might be a good fit to get me motivated by being able to chat about these psychological and sex life topics to keep be engaged and learning about my mental road blocks.

 

I guess you could say I'm looking for a fitness trainer that could double as a sex therapist!

 

Thanks i advance for any leads, recs, or other ideas! Private message or replying here is great!

 

https://rent.men/Aaron_masseur

Aaron (aka Ajay Sean Cody) is a serious personal trainer. He's a nice guy. He's too expensive to be a regular escort hire for me but if I was in the market for a trainer I'd hit him up. I'm a big believer in practice what you preach and his body is ripped and incredible and he did it without steroids.

[+ Gar1eth]

https://rent.men/Aaron_masseur

Aaron (aka Ajay Sean Cody) is a serious personal trainer. He's a nice guy. He's too expensive to be a regular escort hire for me but if I was in the market for a trainer I'd hit him up. I'm a big believer in practice what you preach and his body is ripped and incredible and he did it without steroids.

 

Finally someone who lists that they are versatile and they kiss. Funny thing is that he doesn't list 'anal' but has pictures and videos of topping and bottoming.

 

Gman

[Rudynate]

I'm looking for a personal trainer that can help my current dilemma of really deep-rooted lack of motivation.

 

My lack of motivation has to do with my sex life frustration.

 

I know health should be a motivator but the reality is that I primarily want to get into shape to boost my self-esteem and improve my romantic and sex life.

 

I'm curious if finding a trainer in NYC (slight preference for someone gay vs. gay-4-pay) with current or prior experience as a sex worker might be a good fit to get me motivated by being able to chat about these psychological and sex life topics to keep be engaged and learning about my mental road blocks.

 

I guess you could say I'm looking for a fitness trainer that could double as a sex therapist!

 

Thanks i advance for any leads, recs, or other ideas! Private message or replying here is great!

 

Whatever gets you to the gym is a good motivation. I'm very fit, close to bodybuilder fit. My strongest motivation is a quest for personal excellence. Looking good is a strong second. Health is a distant third.

[builder boy]

Whatever gets you to the gym is a good motivation. I'm very fit, close to bodybuilder fit. My strongest motivation is a quest for personal excellence. Looking good is a strong second. Health is a distant third.

NICE