Joeysf Posted July 8, 2020 Share Posted July 8, 2020 I'm in the same boat as the original poster -- middle aged, but still very fit and horned up. I find the Super Big Gay cities like Barcelona and Sydney and Manhattan don't work all that well -- too much attitude, and there's always someone hotter just one click away on Grindr or Scruff. But I could hardly walk from so much hot sex after a few days in Morgantown, W. Virginia, or Denver, Colorado, or Eugene, Oregon (all on business), or overseas, e.g. Brisbane and Hobart in Australia. Some of these places (e.g. the last two!) are amazing places to visit as tourists, as well. That is to say, the second (or third) tier cities have a lot of hot men with fewer opportunities who seem eager to take me into their arms (mouths, booties, etc.). Note this was all true pre-Covid. I'm assuming this discussion is fantasizing about the post-covid world. EZEtoGRU, Jdy718, thomas and 2 others 4 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EastbayMike Posted July 8, 2020 Share Posted July 8, 2020 I'm in my late 50s and within the past 3 years have been to Madrid, Amsterdam, Berlin, and Torre Molinos multiple times. All 4 have excellent sex clubs, bars that host naked parties, and saunas that are great fun for men of all ages. Guys in Europe are a lot more sex positive than men in the US. I never fail to find plenty of partners from mid 30s to late 50s. Haven't done any hiring there so I can't comment on the rent boy scene. I spent a few weeks in Poland in 2017 and was pleasantly surprised at the availability of sex there too. + Just Sayin, thomas and m4same 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ newatthis Posted July 8, 2020 Share Posted July 8, 2020 I was told to visit the Brazilian side. What do you think? Do both if you can. On the Argentinian side you get close up spectacular views of individual falls. On the Brazilian side you get an overview of what the whole ensemble of falls looks like. If you're so inclined, on the Brazilian side you can take a zodiac tour directly under some of the falls and get completely drenched. + Lucky, m4same and mike carey 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mike carey Posted July 8, 2020 Share Posted July 8, 2020 Do both if you can. On the Argentinian side you get close up spectacular views of individual falls. On the Brazilian side you get an overview of what the whole ensemble of falls looks like. If you're so inclined, on the Brazilian side you can take a zodiac tour directly under some of the falls and get completely drenched. I agree, I booked a package through a travel agent here when I did it in 2003, I forget how much it was, which included flights to and from BsAs, hotel (Sheraton I think) and transport and guide for three of us. You get a different perspective from the two sides, and as I remember, the grand perspective from the Brazilian side impressed me more. I wouldn't have missed either. We were based on the Argentine side and did a day trip to the Brazilian side. As I recall, that included a more-meat-than-you-could-eat lunch. We did a jet-boat trip on the Argentine side from a bit downstream up to the falls. m4same and thomas 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mike carey Posted July 8, 2020 Share Posted July 8, 2020 One thing I’m sure of is that unless you’re fluent in Spanish and very street-smart, do not go into Paraguay there. Or perhaps in Guaraní! m4same 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
m4same Posted July 8, 2020 Author Share Posted July 8, 2020 I'm in the same boat as the original poster -- middle aged, but still very fit and horned up. I find the Super Big Gay cities like Barcelona and Sydney and Manhattan don't work all that well -- too much attitude, and there's always someone hotter just one click away on Grindr or Scruff. But I could hardly walk from so much hot sex after a few days in Morgantown, W. Virginia, or Denver, Colorado, or Eugene, Oregon (all on business), or overseas, e.g. Brisbane and Hobart in Australia. Some of these places (e.g. the last two!) are amazing places to visit as tourists, as well. That is to say, the second (or third) tier cities have a lot of hot men with fewer opportunities who seem eager to take me into their arms (mouths, booties, etc.). Note this was all true pre-Covid. I'm assuming this discussion is fantasizing about the post-covid world. Yes. Hoping to travel again some day when it is safe. And hearing stories of travel and sex is exciting for me. Perhaps I should start another thread? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
m4same Posted July 8, 2020 Author Share Posted July 8, 2020 OK. I started a thread of travel sex stories. Let's see if we get some fun, exciting, and naughty experiences. https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/true-travel-sex-stories-any-youre-willing-to-share.158610/ CuriousByNature, + Just966 and + Lucky 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luv2play Posted August 8, 2020 Share Posted August 8, 2020 Try Berlin. There's something/one there for everyone/thing. I would second that. I once spent 10 days in Berlin basically a sex vacation with a little sightseeing thrown in during the day light hours. German gay men range the gamut and you will find them out in the bars and saunas. This was two decades ago but I actually stayed in a gay b&b where the owner had a stable of escorts (this was pre-smart phones) with a nice photo album type book with details on each one. One could order in. It wasn’t cheap then and I imagine much more expensive now so I’m glad I did it when I did. Quincy_7, + Just Sayin and m4same 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cany10011 Posted August 8, 2020 Share Posted August 8, 2020 I would second that. I once spent 10 days in Berlin basically a sex vacation with a little sightseeing thrown in during the day light hours. German gay men range the gamut and you will find them out in the bars and saunas. This was two decades ago but I actually stayed in a gay b&b where the owner had a stable of escorts (this was pre-smart phones) with a nice photo album type book with details on each one. One could order in. It wasn’t cheap then and I imagine much more expensive now so I’m glad I did it when I did. Luv2play, do you remember the name of the B&B? m4same 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bargara Leatherboy Posted August 9, 2020 Share Posted August 9, 2020 Japan is very prejudiced against foreigners , but I’ve heard that it can be fun. Vietnam is great, Hanoi and HoChiMin Beth have an active bar scene, great escorts and fun saunas. Nahm In HCMC is not to be missed. Cambodia has great massage parlours and some awesome gay hotel which run saunas , both in Phenom Penh and Siam Reap. Bali is hot, great bars, and escorts and some great massage places , Adam’s Apple and banana spa stand out . Malaysia is equally fun, but like Bali runs some risks from their Islamic govt. Singapore has a raging scene, at least 4 busy saunas Thailand is spectacular Babylon to the BoysTown . I saw my best male Sex show at Taiwan , two hot muscle men who blew their loads !! Berlin Amsterdam Paris Barcelona , Mykonos is season and Gran Canaria . So many places to visit and enjoy. + Pensant, m4same, thomas and 3 others 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
m4same Posted August 9, 2020 Author Share Posted August 9, 2020 Japan is very prejudiced against foreigners , but I’ve heard that it can be fun. Vietnam is great, Hanoi and HoChiMin Beth have an active bar scene, great escorts and fun saunas. Nahm In HCMC is not to be missed. Cambodia has great massage parlours and some awesome gay hotel which run saunas , both in Phenom Penh and Siam Reap. Bali is hot, great bars, and escorts and some great massage places , Adam’s Apple and banana spa stand out . Malaysia is equally fun, but like Bali runs some risks from their Islamic govt. Singapore has a raging scene, at least 4 busy saunas Thailand is spectacular Babylon to the BoysTown . I saw my best male Sex show at Taiwan , two hot muscle men who blew their loads !! Berlin Amsterdam Paris Barcelona , Mykonos is season and Gran Canaria . So many places to visit and enjoy. Thank you for this post. I can't wait until I can travel and try out some of these recommendations. + Pensant and Bargara Leatherboy 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted August 10, 2020 Share Posted August 10, 2020 Depending on where you are I personally think gay campgrounds/resorts in the summer are a great place to have some fun. I always find a hottie or three to have some fun with and you get a nice inexpensive mini vacation. They're usually really busy on holiday weekends and fill up fast and a lot of them have a variety of lodging/accommodations from primitive tent camping, small cabins, and even rooms with a private bath. Two I have enjoyed are The Dunes in Saugatuck MI that's basically an old motor lodge turned into a gay resort. The other is Roseland Resort in the hills of West Virginia. And no it's not as scary as it sounds it's actually quite nice and has a restaurant, bar with food (pizza and stuff), a pool bar that's really nice, and lots of trails for hiking. It also has a big mix of ages and types of men so you'll probably find something. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
m4same Posted August 11, 2020 Author Share Posted August 11, 2020 Depending on where you are I personally think gay campgrounds/resorts in the summer are a great place to have some fun. I always find a hottie or three to have some fun with and you get a nice inexpensive mini vacation. They're usually really busy on holiday weekends and fill up fast and a lot of them have a variety of lodging/accommodations from primitive tent camping, small cabins, and even rooms with a private bath. Two I have enjoyed are The Dunes in Saugatuck MI that's basically an old motor lodge turned into a gay resort. The other is Roseland Resort in the hills of West Virginia. And no it's not as scary as it sounds it's actually quite nice and has a restaurant, bar with food (pizza and stuff), a pool bar that's really nice, and lots of trails for hiking. It also has a big mix of ages and types of men so you'll probably find something. I've been to The Dunes a number of times beginning in the 80s. I'll need to discover Roseland. Thanks for the suggestions. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spencer L Posted August 16, 2020 Share Posted August 16, 2020 I'm a 60 year old gay man. I am blessed to still have lots of sexual opportunities (which I never expected at this age.) What are some of the most fun places to travel for a vacation and have lots of good opportunities for sex. I have found Puerto Vallarta, Palm Springs, Key West, Delhi, and Hanoi to be great places to visit. I think this could be a helpful and interesting thread. any place with a hot guy m4same 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Lucky Posted August 16, 2020 Share Posted August 16, 2020 If you are very cute, the best place to travel for gay sex would be my bedroom! + MysticMenace and m4same 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ g56whiz Posted August 16, 2020 Share Posted August 16, 2020 If you are very cute, the best place to travel for gay sex would be my bedroom! Except for the waiting time in the line outside your door. LOL. + newatthis and m4same 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
handiacefailure Posted August 17, 2020 Share Posted August 17, 2020 The city I've always had the best luck finding hookups in is Lima, Peru. If you like Latin men, the men are beautiful. And oddly every guy I've hooked up there with is cut. For some reason the guys in Lima love older white men. + Pensant, thomas, m4same and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
m4same Posted August 17, 2020 Author Share Posted August 17, 2020 The city I've always had the best luck finding hookups in is Lima, Peru. If you like Latin men, the men are beautiful. And oddly every guy I've hooked up there with is cut. For some reason the guys in Lima love older white men. sounds perfect for me. And they have pisco sours there, I'm sure. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
handiacefailure Posted August 17, 2020 Share Posted August 17, 2020 sounds perfect for me. And they have pisco sours there, I'm sure. Actually a very cheap place to visit. And amazing food. And Pisco sours and Pisco Chilcano are plentiful:) m4same 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luv2play Posted August 24, 2020 Share Posted August 24, 2020 Actually a very cheap place to visit. And amazing food. And Pisco sours and Pisco Chilcano are plentiful:) Reality check. Didn,t Peru go into complete shutdown a few months ago. I remember some pitiful stories of Canadians and others caught up in the instant closure of the borders and being stuck in quarantine facilities. Don.t know if they ever got out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
handiacefailure Posted August 25, 2020 Share Posted August 25, 2020 Reality check. Didn,t Peru go into complete shutdown a few months ago. I remember some pitiful stories of Canadians and others caught up in the instant closure of the borders and being stuck in quarantine facilities. Don.t know if they ever got out. I think they did go into a complete shutdown back in March and so did a couple other countries. Peru got hit very hard with Covid and had a lot of restrictions I wouldn't recommend anyone going there (or any other country) for a long time. I was stating that they have beautiful men there and it's a cheap place to visit. m4same 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ V-Vhitner Posted November 13, 2020 Share Posted November 13, 2020 Bangkok can be interesting. If you’re not into Asians there’s a lot of likeminded Europeans around the pool at Babylon. Is Babylon worth checking out? Would love to visit a beautiful hotel that caters to our interests... Danny-Darko and m4same 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
m4same Posted November 13, 2020 Author Share Posted November 13, 2020 Thank you for this post. I can't wait until I can travel and try out some of these recommendations. I just read this list again hoping that the vaccine will allow me to have travel adventures next year. + Lucky 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ MysticMenace Posted November 13, 2020 Share Posted November 13, 2020 Except for the waiting time in the line outside your door. LOL. unless the line outside the door has inadvertently shifted to an orgy session...sounds like still the place to travel for gay sex m4same 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bargara Leatherboy Posted November 17, 2020 Share Posted November 17, 2020 . Is Babylon worth checking out? Would love to visit a beautiful hotel that caters to our interests... It is the best stylish bathhouse i have visited. Its a venue for socialising as well as what goes on in the cruising areas. The bars and pool areas are fun to chill in, the cafe is good to eat at, its worth a visit m4same 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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