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[Guest chaz49wm]

How much is enough information from a Client? Do you want more or leave something to talk about later. What type of questions would you ask of us as we ask of you? do you prefer email, phone or waht? Is it a guy feeling after all said and done? Have you been disappointed many times after the questioning and answers. HUGS CHUCK

[jacobno]

I much prefer phone contact to email. My personality comes across better talking 1on1 plus a guys voice can sometimes give a bit of info about him. I usually don't ask a guy his stats but if he cares to disclose that its cool. The only thing I like to know when I knock on the door is that the guy has all his limbs (or has told me if he doesn't) ans what his likes and dislikes are.

[Guest Masgboy]

Masgboy@aol.com

 

I like it when a client is upfront about what he likes and does not like... then i can be perpared for the session 100%...

also I like to have a contact # for the client, so many clients who dont give contact #'s usually dont showup or confirm.. thats a disapontment.

I would never call or contact a client unless i was told i can do so, and if and when i do, its very discretly and professional..

 

Louis

[Guest Bitchboy]

>Masgboy@aol.com

>

>I like it when a client is upfront about what he likes and

>does not like... then i can be perpared for the session

>100%...

>also I like to have a contact # for the client, so many

>clients who dont give contact #'s usually dont showup or

>confirm.. thats a disapontment.

>I would never call or contact a client unless i was told i

>can do so, and if and when i do, its very discretly and

>professional..

>

>Louis

 

 

That Louis is so cute!!! I got him when he was brand new (and so was I). Good to see he's progressed so well. An absolute dream "date."

 

 

:9

[Guest DevonSFescort]

>How much is enough information from a Client? Do you want

>more or leave something to talk about later. What type of

>questions would you ask of us as we ask of you?

 

I want as much or as little info as the client prefers to give. A lot of times when a client doesn't give much info (or even ask for much) it just means he doesn't have much of an agenda, that he likes to meet an escort and go with the flow, and that can be a great way to approach a date.

 

What I'd hate to hear later, though, is that there was something a client was dying to try but didn't feel comfortable asking. Or if he really does have an agenda -- certain things that, if they don't happen, he'll be disappointed -- but didn't tell me.

 

>Do you prefer email, phone or waht?

 

I prefer email for the one of the same reasons Jacob prefers the phone -- I feel like my personality comes across better that way. Also, I hate to admit it but being on the phone as my first contact with a new client reminds me of my telemarketing days in the early-to-mid nineties. However, that experience did prep me to give good phone, which I can and do for the benefit of clients who prefer the verbal communication. I'd rather have a client call me and feel comfortable than email me and feel uncomfortable. Anyway, my cell phone signal comes in better at my new place, so I can actually get through an unbroken conversation for a change. :-)

[Guest DevonSFescort]

>How much is enough information from a Client?

 

One thing...if a client is a top with a big dick, that is handy information. I might want to sit down on something in anticipation of his arrival. :7

[Guest ChicagoCorey]

I think for online escorts, it works best to email first and maybe follow that up with a phone call. (It seems best for both sides to hear each other's voices before they hook up.)

 

I like to know as much about the client beforehand as they feel comfortable sharing. I definitely like to know what they like to do and have a general sense of the "mood" that they are looking for. It doesn't even have to get that explicit -- but there's a big difference between an appointment that's a "let's talk and fuck around" and a "come over and pound my ass" mentally. It's good to know what you're getting yourself into.

 

On a related note, it's good to know where you want something to end. If a guy wants to fuck me on an overnight, he shouldn't ask me for the first time 20 minutes before checkout after I've cum 4 times. That's just not going to happen. Communication is the key. I don't want to disappoint and I don't think others do either. Just let them know what you expect. If they aren't willing to do it, telling them will save you the disappointment.

[Guest chaz49wm]

Thanks for pointing that out. I feel that some just hope they will know what we want and you dont if we dont tell you. HUGS Chuck

[Guest atr322]

i've had the experience a few times recently where the escort wants to deal only thru em which can, sometimes depending on his ability with words, be an extraordinary tease and really fire up the imagination.

 

other times, when i have talked on the phone, either initially, or after an intriguing em, the voice on the other end of the line is so perfunctory and "dead" that i've saved myself what might well have been an experience as dreary as the escort's phone personality.

 

i have been told that a lot of escorts might not come across well on the phone but are great in person, but i'd rather not take the chance.

 

so my adivce, boys, is the same as i give my corporate clients...the way you or your receptionist answers the phone is that first impression...the one that counts....so forget that artifically "butch" and detached tone and let the guy calling you get a real feel for what you have to offer... :9

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

AMEN

 

Sorry I was a fomer alter boy in a different life.

 

Corey (Message 6) hit it perfectly. I do not think it is appropriate to ask for a photograph but a simple description, if it would be helpful, is appropriate. On line, I always offer the opportunity to speak with me by telephone and often initiate the long distance calls myself (though these are not long calls) when that may need to be the case.

 

And Devon made another good point about descriptions, Even as a total top, if a client wants his cock in my mouth and it is a "party size" penis, then he better let me know. If the client wants to kiss he should ask and make it clear he wants that. I didn't realize it until I was told by a client that all my early reviews indicated I did not kiss....