Ever take on women clients?

[Guest wndrwoman]

Hi guys,

 

I'm doing some research on male escorts and female clients. If any of you see women clients once in awhile, could you email me at wndrwoman69@hotmail.com? As you can imagine, the demand from women for male escorts is pretty rare (although I don't know why - my experiences have been mind-blowing!) and there's no info on women's websites advertising or rating male escorts.

 

And before anybody laughs asking why I would post on a male4male website, I want you guys to know that I found 2 fabulous male escorts from this site! :9

 

Tina

[foxy]

do they charge the same?

[Guest wndrwoman]

Hard to say since the reviews on here sometimes show 3 or 4 different rates for the same escort. Let's just say I got my money's worth...

[Guest Hole_4_Hire]

I have never considered accepting women clients (not even as part of a boyfriend/girlfriend tag team).

 

As my name implies, I prefer being a bottom and that usually requires a male partner. But, before becoming an escort, I did try "straight" sex once and was 100% limp the entire time. I did not find myself attracted to female tits, ass, or other body parts.

 

Even if I used Viagra I doubt that I could fake interest in having sex with a woman. I have several male friends who are escorts and they indicated they'd have no problem with women clients. Just not within my realm of possibilities.

[Bilbo]

Yes, Hole, but do remember that your view isn't the only one. I know that anyone claiming to be bisexual can be a red flag on this site, but I can say that when my Cub and I were both escorting, I could enjoy women or couples and he felt like you and had trouble understanding why I didn't. Chacun a son gout. Though I must say that I usually have escorted women only as part of a three way, I have over the years even enjoyed the occaisional liberated, brave woman for freebies. Yes, they did have to ask me, but isn't hiring an escort the epitome of asking for it?

[Guest wndrwoman]

Eh oui, Bilbo, chacun a son gout. I agree....but WHY is someone claiming to be a bisexual on this site, a red flag? I'm missing something...

And I agree, Hole, if you don't enjoy women, all the Viagra in the world ain't going to do it. However, there are male escorts out there who call themselves bisexual or straight (I personally don't give a shit about labels) who do handle women clients. Granted, they see male clients 99% of the time and enjoy them, because if they had to depend on women clients for their bread&butter, they'd starve. There's just not that many women out there who have the guts to hire a male escort. Why did I? For many of the same reasons as your clients: to eliminate the bullshit of meeting some stranger in a bar hoping that I'll get laid, to help me get over my divorce, to make me feel better about myself, to enjoy a professional who really knows what he's doing.

Am I touching a nerve here?

[Guest Thunderbuns]

I guess the "rules" for this board don't preclude women who want to talk about gay or bi male escorts but I have difficulty in understanding why they would want to.

 

There are many sites that cater to hetro male escorts who aim their talents at women. Why not go there? Unless they are "fag hags" - how's that for a term from the sixties?

 

So I guess they are welcome to post here, but I for one, find it intrusive and will automatically discount what they have to say.

 

Thunderbuns

[Bilbo]

We do listen to Kathryn. I always thought that we did that because she is so intelligent and writes well. Is another reason that we don't see her competing for the same escorts?

 

As to why bisexuality is a red flag with some around here, I may not be the best to answer that since it isn't with me. But almost everytime the bi part of glbt comes up in conversation, several people jump on it claiming that there isn't any such thing as a bisexual, and then we're off and running for a good ten or more posts on a hijacked thread. I would guess that a lot of people find bisexuality threatening because they see people competing for the same sexy people (the bi's) with whom they would suddenly left out of the competition should the bi suddenly decide to go permanently the other way. ("I'd do anything for him, but I'm not a woman, and I'm not becoming one! And she is one already!")

 

I'd love to lurk a day or two on a chat board for female clients of male escorts. If there is such a thing, please post an address for it.

[Guest wndrwoman]

>I guess the "rules" for this board don't preclude women who

>want to talk about gay or bi male escorts but I have

>difficulty in understanding why they would want to.

>

>There are many sites that cater to hetro male escorts who

>aim their talents at women. Why not go there? Unless they

>are "fag hags" - how's that for a term from the sixties?

>

>So I guess they are welcome to post here, but I for one,

>find it intrusive and will automatically discount what they

>have to say.

>

>Thunderbuns

 

Because I'm doing research on male escorts and if you know of sites that cater to hetero male escorts, by all means, please inform me. I've done an exhaustive search and if they're out there, they are well hidden.

 

If this topic is upsetting to everyone, I'll just wait to hear from any escorts who do see women (I posted my email address). I'd rather cut my hands off than give the names of the 2 guys that I met on this site; I consider myself a loyal and discrete person. Sorry if I offended anyone.

 

"Fag hag"? I haven't heard that one for years

:7

[Guest 7Zach]

the consensus of the posters on this board is that all bisexuals are really just closeted gays, and they usually throw in self-loathing, unexamined, etc. one would think that with the diversity in what posters on this site like to do sexually, e.g., fisting, rimming, urine, paddles, rape scenes, that they would at least think bisexuals were engaging in at least some sort of acceptable fetish - pussy, but that is not the case.

there is a lot more shading between gay for pay and gay only.

as far as wonderwoman, joe's boys in london had an escort reviewed in the last couple of days and they had boys who did both sexes. similarly, when u see the standard escort sites, some of them say bisexual or accept both sexes. finally, regarding the male escorts u used, did it really taste like pussy on a stick?

[Guest wndrwoman]

>We do listen to Kathryn. I always thought that we did that

>because she is so intelligent and writes well. Is another

>reason that we don't see her competing for the same escorts?

>

>>I'd love to lurk a day or two on a chat board for female

>clients of male escorts. If there is such a thing, please

>post an address for it.

 

 

After a few weeks of reading reviews and messages from clients, I still haven't picked up any hints of "competition for escorts". I've been impressed by insightful comments by escorts and clients alike. I am always in the process of learning (I have a Master's in Social Work and am doing research on male escorts/female clients)and if you see me as competing for male escorts, you're missing the point. As I've already stated, find me a chat board where women are discussing male escorts and I'll be surprised.

 

Plus, I'm not lurking. I emailed Hooboy beforehand to ask him if I could join, and he replied that the boards were open to everyone. I don't know about anything about Kathryn and I'm not asking anyone to listen to me: my question was posed to the escorts.

[+ deej]

>the consensus of the posters on this board is that all

>bisexuals are really just closeted gays

 

Consensus might be too strong a word. :9 I don't think we'll EVER reach a consensus on that topic.

[Guest hawaiiheat]

I thought the question was:

'have you seen female clients?'

and NOT... 'can people be bi? or are you a bottom only?' or 'do you like women?' Lets get back to the question which is.......

"

'have you seen female clients?'

 

 

Sooooo have you seen women? a simple yes and how was the experience without pontificating how you don't like women or there is no such thing as a bi-sexual person. I, for one, could care less if anybody thinks bisexuals exist or not, who cares really! Are they hurting anyone thinking they are....no.

 

How a simple question can turn into such a cess pool of opinions is beyond me.....

[Guest Thunderbuns]

>How a simple question can turn into such a cess pool of

>opinions is beyond me.....

 

Looks like you just joined the group - Stick around, honey. You ain't seen nutin yet!

 

Thunderbuns

[Guest 7Zach]

Since I contributed to the hijack, can't help but wonder if it hit some sort of nerve with you. Posters have a choice to respond to any prior posts...again, if don't like it, then spend the time helping Ethan decide where to go...

[Uncle Bill]

Hi, Tina.

 

I'm not an escort, but I've hired at least two escorts in Los Angeles who apparently see women as well, and you can get their e-mail addresses from their reviews to try to get their feedback on your questions:

 

Justin #2 -- A review was submitted by a couple, and I KNOW that he has at least a passing interest in women (eventhough I think that he's mainly into guys). This guy is actually one of my favorite escorts, and I see him once a month on average.

 

Nick Steele -- His website indicates that he's available for men/women/couples, and I know that he has done both straight and gay videos. A bit of an attitude (but a decent personality comes out over time) and a really nice face/body.

 

Hope this helps. By the way, IMHO, it's very nice to have different perspectives on this board, so "I bid you welcome" (just watch out for the vampires that lurk here).

[Guest wndrwoman]

>Since I contributed to the hijack, can't help but wonder if

>it hit some sort of nerve with you. Posters have a choice to

>respond to any prior posts...again, if don't like it, then

>spend the time helping Ethan decide where to go...

 

 

 

Nope, didn't hit a nerve with me. I was just waiting to see how many more clients were waiting to bash me and wondering why so many feel threatened by the idea that some of their escorts MAY be seeing women as well...

 

Thank you, Hawaiiheat, for trying to get people back on track with the real question. And thank YOU, Uncle Bill, for making me feel welcome and providing me with some good info.

[Guest Ruffboy4hire]

womanI did a woman client once and it was fun. Other than some dirty talk the get together was pretty vanilla though. I usually like something rougher and kinkier. I think it would be fun to get ruff with a chick, especially if she is short and petite. Wndrwoman, let's get together sometime and you can beat the bejesus out of my abs. If you really want to get nasty, I'll bring a pair of brass knuckles and nunchakus. I'll even cut you a discount rate if you manage to double me over. :9

[Guest wndrwoman]

>womanI did a woman client once and it was fun. Other than

>some dirty talk the get together was pretty vanilla though.

>I usually like something rougher and kinkier. I think it

>would be fun to get ruff with a chick, especially if she is

>short and petite. Wndrwoman, let's get together sometime

>and you can beat the bejesus out of my abs. If you really

>want to get nasty, I'll bring a pair of brass knuckles and

>nunchakus. I'll even cut you a discount rate if you manage

>to double me over. :9

 

 

Oh, ruffboy, you sure do enjoy controversy...Don't tempt me! }>

[Guest sdmuscl4hire]

Hi,

 

I am still trying to figure out where the idea to bash instead of talk about the thread is more important than life itself, however it seems to be the only thing that keeps most of these poor loosers dragging their tired ass out of bed every morning.

 

Now back to your question, I was married to a women for 4.5 years and she was the only female I have had sex with. We didnt have sex until our honeymoon night purely for the reason of I didnt know what the f*** to do with her. I have been divorced for 7 years and have not been with a women since. Recently I was asked to do a three way with boyfriend/girlfriend and contemplated it seriously for a week. I emailed back and forth with them and then they sent pics of them unrequested of course. Now I had decided that with enough viagra I should be able to pull it off since I have had sex with a women for 4 years, plus I have a man to play with if I somehow lost focus. Well then the pic showed up and the guy was uglier than sin itself, I thought to myself "shit, now it will be working double time trying to keep it up" lol Needless to say I declined simply for the reason I feel that if you are going to pay me good money to perform, you should get your moneys worth and I wasnt sure I could do that. So I doubt if I will venture into that area escorting, but I am now interested in seeing if I could have sex with another women

[Matt_Vancouver]

Like sdmuscl4hire, I too was married. But she was by no means my first and only female partner.

When I came out as a gay man, I had no intention of sleeping with women again. But when I started as an escort, and was working for an agency, business was kind of slow, and the agency would on occasion recieve calls from women. I was very upfront when I started working for them, in making sure they knew I was gay and only wanted to see men, but they still called me everytime a women contacted them.

So one day, after being pressured, I accepted the appointment. I arrived at a Huge house on the outskirts of town, rang the bell, and an attractive Japanese woman, dressed in evening wear, answered the door. I was wearing jeans and t-shirt, and she looked a bit suprised by my attire.

In very broken english, she told me that she thought we'd be going out to dinner and have a night out.(This wasn't communicated to the agency) I told her that I was normally contacted for sex, and her eyes lit up, and I said 'would you like me to go?'

She grabbed my arm and led me up the stairs: ) I was with her for about an hour and I swear she must have orgasmed about 20 times! (women are soo lucky that way) She told me her husband was in Japan on business, and she had never seen a dick like mine(you should have seen the look on her face when I got undressed: )

I wasn't sure I could even get hard with a woman again, but I suprised myself: ) I didn't cum, and probably couldn't have even if I tried, but when I left she was VERY satisfied.

After that I was a bit more willing to accept women clients, and did so on two more occasions. Both were in couple situations with the boyfriend/husband participating. (one just wanted to watch his 19 year old girlfriend get fucked by a big dick: ) he was fun actually, cuz he would get right up close to watch the action: )

Anyhow, I'm a bit busier these days, so the income isn't as much an issue, and I still do get contacted on occasion by women, but it's been over 2 1/2 years since I last saw a female client.

after all of that... the answer to your question is I used to, but don't anymore... talk about the long answer: )

Matt(gets hard, stays hard: ) (with the exception of only 2 or 3 times in my life... remember I'm only human: )

[Guest wndrwoman]

Thanks Matt and sdmuscl4hire,

 

Finally more escorts answering the question!

Sdmusc, why do you feel like you might want to try a woman again? Just curious...there's certainly not much $ in it as there are so few women who hire escorts.

 

My research is coming along slowly. I seem to get more indepth info from escorts over 30 years old (more experience?) and am getting a general consensus that for the escorts who do see women, they comment that those few and far between meetings are "interesting" and a change of pace, but totally different client dynamics (women portrayed as being needier than men, demanding more emotional fulfillment, etc.).

 

I just can't get over how most of the escorts that I've talked to REALLY enjoy getting to know clients and how caring and emphathetic many of you are - with both male and female clients. You NEVER hear female escorts talking that way about their male clients (not to knock 'em but there's a lot of anger in that population and for obvious societal reasons).

 

I'm impressed with the guys I've talked to, so far.

Thanks for continuing to help me out with my hopefully-some-day-to-be-published-book! Still have a lot of work to do!

 

Chris

[Bilbo]

You've mentioned a couple of times how there are very few female clients for male escorts. (and - to hijack my own note - one might assume even fewer female clients for female escorts?) Do you think that there are any factors that might change that situation? Would there be more of that kind of trade were escorting made legal? etc. run with it, please, if it interests you.

 

(I like variety - of all sorts - or I wouldn't have become an escort in the first place. :9 )

[Guest Ant415]

maybe if she had a strap-on dildo and was a flat-topped, diesel dyke, cement truck driving kinda gal?

[Guest wndrwoman]

>You've mentioned a couple of times how there are very few

>female clients for male escorts. (and - to hijack my own

>note - one might assume even fewer female clients for female

>escorts?) Do you think that there are any factors that might

>change that situation? Would there be more of that kind of

>trade were escorting made legal? etc. run with it, please,

>if it interests you.

>

>(I like variety - of all sorts - or I wouldn't have become

>an escort in the first place. :9 )

 

 

Hi handsome,

 

Sorry I haven't answered quicker - JUST got back from a business trip in DC and on the way out of town, visited an escort there as well.;-)

 

Good question - the women that I'm starting to find, who do hire escorts, have a really straightforward and healthy attitude about sex. They like men but at certain times in their lives, have become disillusioned with society's ideal of what a male/female relationship should be. We're talking about educated, upwardly mobile women, who feel confident enough about themselves and their sexuality, enough to consider hiring an escort. If you think about it, what will the woman of the future really need from a man, once she becomes economically self-sufficient? For many of us, a vibrator just doesn't do it; it's too lonely. A good escort can really get into your head, yet not fuck with it, the way a boyfriend or husband loves to do (no, I'm not bitter, just realistic).

 

Of course, that hardly answers your question (it's almost 4 in the morning, sorry...) but I think that just getting the word out, say in a best-selling book , would make women think about male escorts. It IS a big jump, socially, because traditionally women have equated sex with love and that doesn't quite go with the escort/client relationship. It was hard for me at first to consider paying for sex (hell, I never had to pay for it in my life!) but now I find myself wishing that I hadn't put all that money up my nose in the 80's, so that I'd have a stash to hire an escort now and then (no, I don't get discounts even though I interview these guys for research).

 

 

I don't think that legalizing it would make it more appealing to women. I think that if there was a prominent woman (Oprah? now, I'm getting giddy) in the media who raved about escorts, she might get the ball rolling....Maybe ads for "massages" in women's magazines, or better yet, in business magazines that women read. I really think that it could become a growing trend. It certainly makes sense to me...did I kinda answer your question?