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Hi guys - this question is mainly for the escorts, but input from others would be welcome as well: Do you find that the majority of your clients prefer to cuddle for a while after sex, or not? I know it will vary from client to client, but I'm interested to what extent post-sexual intimacy is important as part of the overall experience. Thanks.

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IMHO..I think part of the Liking to Cuddle or Not, would depend on how much time is Left after the Fact! IF the Client is a "Quick" Shooter, there will be time to Cuddle..BUT IF he likes his Forplay <G>.. There will not be alot of time left! A NYC "Slam Bammer Client" I am sure has no interest in Cuddling whatsoever! :+

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Unless the client almost literally runs out the door, the escort should always make the time to cuddle. Does this sound strange to some coming from an escort much of whose business is in Leather? It shouldn't. It is even more important at the end of an SMBD session for the Top to help put back together that which he has so lovingly and enjoyably taken apart.

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The escort I see most often seems to love to curl up and let me just play with his nipples and other parts after he pops his load. He never seems to be in a hurry and is always ready with another kiss. I guess that's one reason I consider him my regular escort and keep coming back.

 

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FrancoDiSantisxxx Community Regular

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Priceless

 

>>Cuddling is to lovemaking as a rubber should be to sex.

>>Essential!

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>ummmmmm?????? When you pay with Visa, it's hard to call that

>love making. Delusions?

 

Not every client wants to cuddle. Some, because they are married or more heterosexually identified, want a simple sex act and do not even want to be kissed; in these instances, cuddling would probably be along the lines of further activity which is not permitted.

 

On the other hand, generally speaking, if a client wants to cuddle, an escort should be open to it. Sexual intimacy is a different creature than sex, that is why a client might think of it as love making.

 

Joel, no offense, but this is akin to going to a fast food place and paying with a credit card and going to a dining establishment and also paying with your credit card. In both instances, you get fed, but hopefully in the second instance, you have an experience as well, which includes considerate service, consideration, higher quality food, a nicer enviornment and several other factors which make in dining versus merely eating.

 

There should be no delusions about these distinctions.

 

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RE: Priceless

 

>Joel, no offense, but this is akin to going to a fast food place and paying with a credit card and going to a dining establishment and also paying with your credit card. In both instances, you get fed, but hopefully in the second instance, you have an experience as well, which includes considerate service, consideration, higher quality food, a nicer enviornment and several other factors which make in dining versus merely eating.<

 

Sure enough. But, do you enter an appointment with a client to fall in love? Do you consider sex with a stranger and/or client "lovemaking." Lovemaking is for boyfriends. Anonymous sex that evolves through escort meetings is just that ... sex.

 

I'm not saying that cuddling isn't appropriate for some, but, let's be real. It's business.

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>A NYC "Slam Bammer Client" I am sure has no interest in Cuddling

>whatsoever!....

 

You rang?

 

LOL...even this dedicated Whammer occasionally likes to cuddle. It all depends on the chemistry with the escort. I don't really think of cuddling as a "charmer" attribute...I like to think of it as R-E-A-L-L-Y slow whamming....grin

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RE: Priceless

 

Falling in love? You're right. That's a nono with escorts.

But making love? Lovemaking? That is perfectly in line.

It's not only your lover that you make love with if you are building a community. It's your best friend. It's the new man on the block.

And, of course, sex isn't the only kind of lovemaking that there is. There's cooking, for example.

"Love for sale?" Of course not. That image has hurt this, the escorting community more than most others. But "Caring for rent". Hell, yes, bring it on. Same thing we (at least Franco and I, I would guess) get from a good waitress - or a good doctor, for that matter.

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