Becket Posted October 14, 2023 Share Posted October 14, 2023 (edited) My favorite provider is guy married to a woman. A guy with three kids. The sex is passionate and enjoyable for the both of us. I was married and had kids as well. Now I am single, and have no interest in marrying a man. I'm more of a loner; I'd rather live by myself. I prefer "straight acting" (whatever that means) providers. It just makes me more comfortable, especially in public settings. That's just me, my personal tastes. The guys I fooled around with in high school and college all would fit into the "straight acting" category. The sex and interaction with them in the bedroom was usually passionate and full of energy. It was clear they were enjoying the gay sex. With only one exception those guys have all gone on to have wives and kids and "traditional" lives and family. Are they gay? Straight? Bi? Whatever! Call them what you want. Call me whatever you want. You do you. What you need. What makes you happy and comfortable. I'll do me. No politics. No confining labels. Just different strokes for different folks. Edited October 14, 2023 by Becket + Vegas_Millennial, + The Big Guy, + Italiano and 14 others 8 1 1 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted October 14, 2023 Share Posted October 14, 2023 10 hours ago, Becket said: ...The guys I fooled around with in high school and college all would fit into the "straight acting" category. The sex and interaction with them in the bedroom was usually passionate and full of energy. It was clear they were enjoying the gay sex. With only one exception those guys have all gone on to have wives and kids and "traditional" lives and family. Are they gay? Straight? Bi? Whatever! Call them what you want... Well, they're definitely not straight, however well they may act. I will call them either (1) Bi, if that's what they are, or (2) deceitful. And I wish we'd get rid of that silly "straight-acting" adjective. Can't we just say masculine? If you prefer masculine men, just say you prefer masculine men. Saying you like men to be "straight-acting" just says you like men who can act/deceive well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Becket Posted October 14, 2023 Share Posted October 14, 2023 I do not consider the terms "straight acting" and deceitful to be synonyms. But you be you, Unicorn. + nycman, Danny-Darko, Marc in Calif and 3 others 3 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted October 14, 2023 Share Posted October 14, 2023 (edited) 1 hour ago, Becket said: I do not consider the terms "straight acting" and deceitful to be synonyms. But you be you, Unicorn. Well, the definition of an actor is "someone who pretends to be someone else while performing in a movie, play, or television or radio program." ACTOR | definition in the Cambridge English Dictionary DICTIONARY.CAMBRIDGE.ORG 1. someone who pretends to be someone else while performing in a film, play, or… In other words, pretending to be someone else in a film, play, or TV/radio program is acting. Everyone knows that actors are supposed to pretend to be who they aren't. When doing it in real life, however, it's called deceit, or trying to fool others (and perhaps themselves?). And I'm glad I know who I am. Being deceitful is definitely not part of that. 👍🏼 Edited October 14, 2023 by Unicorn Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mike carey Posted October 15, 2023 Share Posted October 15, 2023 Quite so, that is the definition given of 'actor', and is one, although a 'non-state actor', which would include NGOs, and militias and terrorist organisations, are not pretending so that's already shown that there is more nuance to the meaning of the word than had been claimed. But 'actor' wasn't the word in question, it was 'acting', and if you consult a dictionary the definition of the word 'act' includes 'behave in the way specified'. To take it to an extreme, I doubt anyone would conclude that a fast-acting poison or drug was pretending. But this entire conversation is away from the subject at hand, which is hiring straight guys. Hen, Marc in Calif, Luv2play and 1 other 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ICTJOCK Posted October 15, 2023 Share Posted October 15, 2023 (edited) I had a client who booked me stressing that he was "straight, but just curious". We visited about his lack of "background" with anything gay and that I would need to "take it easy and be a teacher". I can tell you he was anything but naive. I realized immediately, it was about trying to create something that wasn't reality. The booking went well, but that his "straight, teach me" illusion was just that. Now obviously this isn't a case of "hiring a straight provider" (I wouldn't be doing that as a provider), so this is about as close as it gets for me. Edited October 15, 2023 by ICTJOCK Luv2play and + azdr0710 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Danny-Darko Posted October 15, 2023 Share Posted October 15, 2023 17 hours ago, Unicorn said: Well, the definition of an actor is "someone who pretends to be someone else while performing in a movie, play, or television or radio program." ACTOR | definition in the Cambridge English Dictionary DICTIONARY.CAMBRIDGE.ORG 1. someone who pretends to be someone else while performing in a film, play, or… In other words, pretending to be someone else in a film, play, or TV/radio program is acting. Everyone knows that actors are supposed to pretend to be who they aren't. When doing it in real life, however, it's called deceit, or trying to fool others (and perhaps themselves?). And I'm glad I know who I am. Being deceitful is definitely not part of that. 👍🏼 Acting can also mean "Behaving as" depending in the context it's used. This should be obvious to anybody who's a native English speaker. People act a certain way. mike carey, EZEtoGRU, Luv2play and 1 other 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted October 15, 2023 Share Posted October 15, 2023 (edited) 6 hours ago, mike carey said: ...To take it to an extreme, I doubt anyone would conclude that a fast-acting poison or drug was pretending... Dude, if you like splitting hairs, which you do, fast-acting is obviously a completely separate word. And people are neither poisons nor drugs. You understood full-well the meaning of acting in that context. Edited October 15, 2023 by Unicorn Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ azdr0710 Posted October 15, 2023 Share Posted October 15, 2023 19 hours ago, Unicorn said: Well, they're definitely not straight, however well they may act. I will call them either (1) Bi, if that's what they are, or (2) deceitful. And I wish we'd get rid of that silly "straight-acting" adjective. Can't we just say masculine? If you prefer masculine men, just say you prefer masculine men. Saying you like men to be "straight-acting" just says you like men who can act/deceive well. 5 minutes ago, Unicorn said: Dude, if you like splitting hairs Marc in Calif, + WilliamM, + nycman and 4 others 2 2 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luv2play Posted October 16, 2023 Share Posted October 16, 2023 20 hours ago, Unicorn said: Dude, if you like splitting hairs, which you do, fast-acting is obviously a completely separate word. And people are neither poisons nor drugs. You understood full-well the meaning of acting in that context. When Dr. Denial starts a post with the word Dude, you know he is fighting a rear guard action of a losing argument. EZEtoGRU, + WilliamM, + azdr0710 and 3 others 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted October 16, 2023 Share Posted October 16, 2023 (edited) On 10/15/2023 at 7:13 AM, mike carey said: this entire conversation is away from the subject at hand, which is hiring straight guys. Is it ? Because if you're hiring a "straight guy" to have gay sex, I'm pretty sure there's some acting involved somewhere in that mix. I have been told many times that I am outwardly "straight" in my demeanor. I am also married with kids...so again...seemingly "straight". Just none of that's the case. Am I "acting" ? Am I deceiving ? No. People often see what they want to see. Doesn't mean your outward demeanor is deceitful. I see no reason to walk around like less of a man simply because I used to go to sex parties and let multiple men fuck me up the ass and cum down my throat. People are complex creatures. Not everything fits into easily defined categories. I've known plenty of men who are married with kids, love their wife/ play football/drink beer and drive a pick up truck, who occasionally like to pick up a teenage boy at a road side rest and fuck his little white ass and cum down his throat. Identity and biology don't always match up. That guy in the truck and the teenager cruising the parking lot would likely never set foot in a gay bar..but because they are both "acting" the part of normative macho straight men, the gay sex is no longer "gay". It's just sex. Bromosexuality is very exciting to some men. Edited October 16, 2023 by pubic_assistance additional thoughts. + Vegas_Millennial, Danny-Darko, + glycine and 6 others 6 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ bashful Posted October 18, 2023 Share Posted October 18, 2023 On 10/16/2023 at 9:45 AM, pubic_assistance said: Bromosexuality is very exciting to some men. +1 pubic_assistance 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted October 18, 2023 Share Posted October 18, 2023 On 10/16/2023 at 7:45 AM, pubic_assistance said: ... Bromosexuality is very exciting to some men. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Just Chuck Posted October 20, 2023 Share Posted October 20, 2023 I have had and hated the experience of being with a guy who was clearly trying to avoid looking at me and trying to focus on some other imaginary scene where he’s not with a man. He was clearly just trying to get through it. I came away from that feeling worse than if I never did it. Becket and thomas 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
studchaser Posted October 22, 2023 Author Share Posted October 22, 2023 (edited) On 9/28/2023 at 1:35 PM, glycine said: fuck yea im obsessed with serving straight men. Definitely online at least half aren't really straight, but ive had some amazing experiences - straight ones usually cant get hard unless their watching str8 porn, some never got hard but just verbally abused me . Next year will be the year of the straight man for me I want to start dedicating at least half my income to my Superiors. Glycine you sound liberated. There is a special rush that comes from dealibg with real straight men. It can't be duplicated. There is a reason gay4pay sells likehot cakes or most ppl ask for masc in ads. So why would you not want the epitome and originator?50 percent may be a bit much but enjoy yourself. Edited October 22, 2023 by studchaser + glycine 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ glycine Posted October 22, 2023 Share Posted October 22, 2023 (edited) On 10/16/2023 at 7:45 AM, pubic_assistance said: Is it ? Because if you're hiring a "straight guy" to have gay sex, I'm pretty sure there's some acting involved somewhere in that mix. I have been told many times that I am outwardly "straight" in my demeanor. I am also married with kids...so again...seemingly "straight". Just none of that's the case. Am I "acting" ? Am I deceiving ? No. People often see what they want to see. Doesn't mean your outward demeanor is deceitful. I see no reason to walk around like less of a man simply because I used to go to sex parties and let multiple men fuck me up the ass and cum down my throat. People are complex creatures. Not everything fits into easily defined categories. I've known plenty of men who are married with kids, love their wife/ play football/drink beer and drive a pick up truck, who occasionally like to pick up a teenage boy at a road side rest and fuck his little white ass and cum down his throat. Identity and biology don't always match up. That guy in the truck and the teenager cruising the parking lot would likely never set foot in a gay bar..but because they are both "acting" the part of normative macho straight men, the gay sex is no longer "gay". It's just sex. Bromosexuality is very exciting to some men. amen to this ! so sick of all this identity police identity bullshit Edited October 22, 2023 by glycine pubic_assistance 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted October 22, 2023 Share Posted October 22, 2023 5 hours ago, glycine said: so sick of all this identity police identity bullshit Absolutely. I advise all my younger friends and family to avoid the labels. You be you. MikeBiDude, Jamie21, dbar123 and 2 others 3 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marc in Calif Posted October 22, 2023 Share Posted October 22, 2023 5 hours ago, pubic_assistance said: I advise all my younger friends and family to avoid the labels. You be you. And yet... Some people on these forums are kind of obsessed with stressing those labels and their stereotypes. Example: Repeatedly using the phrase the gays to refer to a group of people as "the other." Things like that. 😒 + Lucky, mike carey and marylander1940 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted October 22, 2023 Share Posted October 22, 2023 4 hours ago, Marc in Calif said: And yet... Some people on these forums are kind of obsessed with stressing those labels and their stereotypes. Example: Repeatedly using the phrase the gays to refer to a group of people as "the other." Things like that. 😒 If people cluster into groups then the group gets tagged. If you maintain your individuality, you're simply called by your name. The choice is yours. Marc in Calif and GTMike 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted October 23, 2023 Share Posted October 23, 2023 On 10/15/2023 at 5:50 AM, ICTJOCK said: I had a client who booked me stressing that he was "straight, but just curious". We visited about his lack of "background" with anything gay and that I would need to "take it easy and be a teacher". I can tell you he was anything but naive. I realized immediately, it was about trying to create something that wasn't reality. The booking went well, but that his "straight, teach me" illusion was just that. Now obviously this isn't a case of "hiring a straight provider" (I wouldn't be doing that as a provider), so this is about as close as it gets for me. That sounds like role play, he was pretending to be a closeted newbie even though he already had some mileage... pubic_assistance and ICTJOCK 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted October 23, 2023 Share Posted October 23, 2023 11 hours ago, Marc in Calif said: And yet... Some people on these forums are kind of obsessed with stressing those labels and their stereotypes. Example: Repeatedly using the phrase the gays to refer to a group of people as "the other." Things like that. 😒 They are worse than vegans... They must introduce themselves with certain capital letters! Marc in Calif 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ICTJOCK Posted October 23, 2023 Share Posted October 23, 2023 I would concur with this assessment. I've seen it before. Not sure what there is to gain if fabricated, but I just go with the flow. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ azdr0710 Posted October 23, 2023 Share Posted October 23, 2023 8 hours ago, marylander1940 said: worse than vegans.... I actually 'LOL'd at that phrase just now sitting with my morning coffee! Perfect! Marc in Calif, marylander1940 and Becket 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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