Eddie Morales Posted June 1 Share Posted June 1 I asked this a while back, but who in NYC doesn't mind their ass turning nice and red? Thanks! MikeThomas 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eddie Morales Posted June 1 Author Share Posted June 1 Is it too early to bump this? Hot4latin, Wanderoz and + Vegas_Millennial 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eddie Morales Posted June 2 Author Share Posted June 2 Anyone? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eddie Morales Posted June 3 Author Share Posted June 3 No one else looking to spank? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ KensingtonHomo Posted June 3 Share Posted June 3 If you look for escorts who are into S/M, you’ll find a few. I’m not a spanker but I’ve seen a few into it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Your Man in Arlington Posted June 3 Share Posted June 3 I think this is tough ask. Back in the day (30 or so years ago) when I was a provider, I took a job that involved getting spanked. The client was so genuinely messed up and genuinely sadistic, that I swore I would never take a job like that again. I would think/hope that providers will want to have a conversation—more than do you mind getting your ass turned red—before taking a job that could quickly pivot from a known, consensual scene to one that leaves visible physical damage and/or devolves into emotional abuse. That said, there are 68 profiles on RM in NYC with position "Bottom" and "Spanking" listed as what they are into; or 8 profiles with the keyword "sub" and are into "Spanking". I would start a conversation with those providers about exactly what I'm looking for. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bokomaru Posted June 3 Share Posted June 3 31 minutes ago, Your Man in Arlington said: The client was so genuinely messed up and genuinely sadistic, that I swore I would never take a job like that again. I’m really sorry that this happened to you. Limits can take a tremendous amount of discussion and hiring does not usually involve extensive communication. I would like to point out that “genuinely sadistic” is not really a problem if both parties are in agreement about what could happen. I am genuinely sadistic, however, I wouldn’t think of hiring someone for an SM scene that would mark the bottom. I agree, (anything more than playful) spanking is a big ask. Your Man in Arlington 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Your Man in Arlington Posted June 3 Share Posted June 3 9 minutes ago, Bokomaru said: I’m really sorry that this happened to you. Limits can take a tremendous amount of discussion and hiring does not usually involve extensive communication. I would like to point out that “genuinely sadistic” is not really a problem if both parties are in agreement about what could happen. I am genuinely sadistic, however, I wouldn’t think of hiring someone for an SM scene that would mark the bottom. I agree, (anything more than playful) spanking is a big ask. Thank you! My intention was not to kink shame, and a poor choice of words on my part. My meaning was that my client's intention was to not respect my explicit boundaries, and violating those boundaries was really what he was looking for when engaging me, on top of not fully communicating the scene he was aiming to create. You seem smart, experienced, and aware that these scenarios require a good understanding as to what will happen and both parties to stick to that. Many clients are not that self-aware, and I think there's a greater risk for providers in these sorts of jobs when being hired as a sub. Still, best of luck to the OP! Andy2 and Bokomaru 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BaronArtz Posted June 3 Share Posted June 3 4 hours ago, Your Man in Arlington said: I think this is tough ask. Back in the day (30 or so years ago) when I was a provider, I took a job that involved getting spanked. The client was so genuinely messed up and genuinely sadistic, that I swore I would never take a job like that again. I am sorry to read this happened to you. Very often clients forget that escorts are real people with real feelings. I hope you found your inner peace after that experience. Your Man in Arlington 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BodeBrentwood Posted June 5 Share Posted June 5 I mean, I've been a part of scenes like this, feel free to shoot me a RM message or dm sometime Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Your Man in Arlington Posted June 5 Share Posted June 5 On 6/3/2024 at 2:36 AM, BaronArtz said: I am sorry to read this happened to you. Very often clients forget that escorts are real people with real feelings. I hope you found your inner peace after that experience. Thank you! Fortunately, I didn't was able to reflect on it, not take it personally, and turned it into learning experience moving forward. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DamizzonNYC Posted June 6 Share Posted June 6 On 6/1/2024 at 1:25 AM, Eddie Morales said: I asked this a while back, but who in NYC doesn't mind their ass turning nice and red? Thanks! I've done some S&M sub work, including impact play, and it's been a really hot time. I've only ever had good experiences doing it! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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