Hiring from Instagram

[LumberjackMatt]

Any success with hiring guys from Instagram? I’m looking for the best way to bring up the topic of hiring without violating IG’s terms of service or spooking guys who may be open to escorting but prefer to remain discreet. Any tips? Success stories?

[soloyo215]

Never tried Instagram, but you can connect it to Messenger. In messenger, the rules are more relaxed, so you might be able to reach out to that person (if he's in Messenger too, of course). That's all I can think of.

[LumberjackMatt]

Thanks. But I guess I’m looking for solutions that could work even if he doesn’t have messenger. Maybe specific phrasing or something to let him know that I want to hire him without blatantly stating it

48 minutes ago, soloyo215 said:

Never tried Instagram, but you can connect it to Messenger. In messenger, the rules are more relaxed, so you might be able to reach out to that person (if he's in Messenger too, of course). That's all I can think of.

 

[+ ThroatCummer]

Write a quick private message:  "Hey. Your photos and [insert a compliment or two here] are amazing. Do you ever do side work one-on-one with people? I'd love the opportunity to have some private time with you and maybe spend the night with you if that's your thing. [Insert something about yourself here, age, stats, location, etc.].  If not, no big deal. Keep doing what you're doing, it's working. Peace" 

That'll work.  The worst thing anyone can say in life is no... but you miss 100% of the chances you don't take, and if you take enough, you will eventually get a yes. It's practically guaranteed.

Edited June 14 by ThroatCummer

[Sub boy]

I’ve hired 2 guys from IG. And I totally get where you’re coming from as far as needing to be discreet as well as not wanting to violate IG’s terms of service. I think many insta guys, especially guys with large followings, may not respond out of fear that you’re trying to trick them into get their account suspended or damaging their reputation. The 2 guys I hired have extremely large IG followings. What worked for me is I did similar to what @ThroatCummer wrote except I didn’t include the part about spending the night (because that may be a little too blatant) but instead I invited them for dinner. Inviting them for dinner got my foot in the door without being too obvious or violating IG’s rules. Then during dinner I let them know I was interested in more and brought some cash as a good faith deposit. It worked both times. Hope this helps.

[LumberjackMatt]

17 hours ago, ThroatCummer said:

Write a quick private message:  "Hey. Your photos and [insert a compliment or two here] are amazing. Do you ever do side work one-on-one with people? I'd love the opportunity to have some private time with you and maybe spend the night with you if that's your thing. [Insert something about yourself here, age, stats, location, etc.].  If not, no big deal. Keep doing what you're doing, it's working. Peace" 

That'll work.  The worst thing anyone can say in life is no... but you miss 100% of the chances you don't take, and if you take enough, you will eventually get a yes. It's practically guaranteed.

Thanks for the suggestion.

[LumberjackMatt]

18 hours ago, Sub boy said:

I’ve hired 2 guys from IG. And I totally get where you’re coming from as far as needing to be discreet as well as not wanting to violate IG’s terms of service. I think many insta guys, especially guys with large followings, may not respond out of fear that you’re trying to trick them into get their account suspended or damaging their reputation. The 2 guys I hired have extremely large IG followings. What worked for me is I did similar to what @ThroatCummer wrote except I didn’t include the part about spending the night (because that may be a little too blatant) but instead I invited them for dinner. Inviting them for dinner got my foot in the door without being too obvious or violating IG’s rules. Then during dinner I let them know I was interested in more and brought some cash as a good faith deposit. It worked both times. Hope this helps.

Oh wow! Glad to hear that worked for you! Makes a lot of sense, asking for a dinner meetup is pretty benign. I’m going to give it a try. Hopefully the guy responds. Wish me luck!

[DamizzonNYC]

I maintained a pretty thirst-trappy Instagram model page for a long time which attracted a bunch of those offers.  
 

“Do you ever meet up with fans?”  
“Do you ever do one on one work?”       “Do you ever take additional evening work?”

Those are coded questions that always worked for me!  Though I can’t speak to spooking non-providers.  I certainly got weirder questions than those and just ignored.  

[Thomas_Belgium]

On 6/14/2024 at 12:55 AM, LumberjackMatt said:

...without violating IG’s terms of service...

About IG's TOS: they don't mention "prostitution". The only thing about it I found was "you can't do anything illegal". In my opinion if it's legal, you can ask.

[Sub boy]

24 minutes ago, Thomas_Belgium said:

About IG's TOS: they don't mention "prostitution". The only thing about it I found was "you can't do anything illegal". In my opinion if it's legal, you can ask.

Prostitution is illegal throughout the United States, except in a few rural counties in the state of Nevada. Of course you can ask, but you’re rolling the dice.

[Sub boy]

45 minutes ago, DamizzonNYC said:

I maintained a pretty thirst-trappy Instagram model page for a long time which attracted a bunch of those offers.  
 

“Do you ever meet up with fans?”  
“Do you ever do one on one work?”       “Do you ever take additional evening work?”

Those are coded questions that always worked for me!  Though I can’t speak to spooking non-providers.  I certainly got weirder questions than those and just ignored.  

Those questions alone aren’t the issue. It’s if you also start discussing rates and the sexual acts you want included that may get an account banned. Instagram’s terms of service prohibit users from offering or asking sexual services on the platform. 

[MikeBiDude]

Just now, Sub boy said:

Those questions alone aren’t the issue. It’s if you also start discussing rates and the sexual acts you want included that may get an account banned. Instagram’s terms of service prohibit users from offering or asking sexual services on the platform. 

Most of the conversation of what’s really going on quickly moves to a different messenger or platform.

[Sub boy]

1 minute ago, MikeBiDude said:

Most of the conversation of what’s really going on quickly moves to a different messenger or platform.

Hahaha! I was literally about to edit my response to include “You’d be better off giving them your number to text or use another platform” 

Thanks!

[DamizzonNYC]

4 hours ago, Sub boy said:

Hahaha! I was literally about to edit my response to include “You’d be better off giving them your number to text or use another platform” 

Thanks!

Hahaha yes very that!  Once you read between the lines you move to telegram!

[wanderlust307]

Hi everyone. First post here. 

Insta is the new grindr. And the quality is much better. There is no need to mention money. Insta models don't consider themselves escorts. 

This happened to me last week. I dm an 18yo that i would like to meet him.  And he responded, take me to Mykonos. 

[Thomas_Belgium]

23 hours ago, Sub boy said:

Prostitution is illegal throughout the United States, except in a few rural counties in the state of Nevada. Of course you can ask, but you’re rolling the dice.

 

In your opinion, would it be against IG TOS if I ask when I'm in a country where prostitution is legal?

[BaronArtz]

I have had success with cam models who have IG profiles (most of them do - just ask).  Start a conversation on IG, suggesting dinner or requesting a private tour of their city when you are visiting, which works well in places like Colombia. If you sense they are interested, take the conversation to Whatsapp.

[Sub boy]

5 hours ago, Thomas_Belgium said:

 

In your opinion, would it be against IG TOS if I ask when I'm in a country where prostitution is legal?

Yes. Instagram’s terms of service prohibit users from offering or asking sexual services on the platform. So it doesn’t appear to be country dependent.

[marylander1940]

On 6/26/2024 at 11:45 PM, wanderlust307 said:

Hi everyone. First post here. 

Insta is the new grindr. And the quality is much better. There is no need to mention money. Insta models don't consider themselves escorts. 

This happened to me last week. I dm an 18yo that i would like to meet him.  And he responded, take me to Mykonos. 

 

They don't consider themselves escorts because they're not escorts, and God knows how they would perform with people who don't look like other models but that's a whole different subject.

Very hot guys moved from Grindr to Instagram and send private messages to each other there. 

How many 🌹 did he ask for you to take him to Mykonos?

 

[wanderlust307]

1 hour ago, marylander1940 said:

 

How many 🌹 did he ask for you to take him to Mykonos?

 

Zero. He just wants to go there and have fun. I will cover flights, hotel (separate rooms) and restaurants. 

He is 18... 

[SouthOfTheBorder]

1 hour ago, wanderlust307 said:

Zero. He just wants to go there and have fun. I will cover flights, hotel (separate rooms) and restaurants. 

He doesn’t need to put a number on it bc it will easily be $10k+ for a week.  Mykonos is one of the most expensive summer destinations in the Mediterranean.  If you’re in that league, I’d go to Mykonos solo and you’ll find many IG models already on the island that can be had.  
Mykonos is major summer destination for known global providers that do the NY/Miami/London circuit as well. There is no shortage of working guys there.

If you haven’t been before  - it can be a nightmare.  5 cruise ships in the harbor each letting off 3000 people for a day or overnight. It’s a very small island 

[+ KensingtonHomo]

1 hour ago, wanderlust307 said:

Zero. He just wants to go there and have fun. I will cover flights, hotel (separate rooms) and restaurants. 

He is 18... 

I'd check his passport. You don't want to get charged with trafficking. 

[Colton]

2 hours ago, wanderlust307 said:

I will cover flights, hotel (separate rooms)

Did he ask for the separate room?

[marylander1940]

2 hours ago, wanderlust307 said:

Zero. He just wants to go there and have fun. I will cover flights, hotel (separate rooms) and restaurants. 

He is 18... 

That's called nature's credit card

[wanderlust307]

35 minutes ago, SouthOfTheBorder said:

He doesn’t need to put a number on it bc it will easily be $10k+ for a week.  Mykonos is one of the most expensive summer destinations in the Mediterranean.  If you’re in that league, I’d go to Mykonos solo and you’ll find many IG models already on the island that can be had.  
Mykonos is major summer destination for known global providers that do the NY/Miami/London circuit as well. There is no shortage of working guys there.

If you haven’t been before  - it can be a nightmare.  5 cruise ships in the harbor each letting off 3000 people for a day or overnight. It’s a very small island 

Thank you. I go to Mykonos almost every year for the last 20 years. It will be a bit over 10K Euros for the 10 days we go. I am going with the usual bunch of friends. And I am not looking for any working guys there.