s_walker_c Posted June 16 Share Posted June 16 Hey all I am obsessed with rimming (giving, not receiving), and have no interest in penetration whatsoever. Since I don't want "full sex", I was thinking about finding a masseur instead of escort for erotic service (that would involve me rimming the provider). I have heard some masseurs do this, but wanted to hear about any experiences/recommendations. I am in LA/OC btw + Vegas_Millennial, Topform and soloyo215 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jeezifonly Posted June 16 Share Posted June 16 Not an odd scene at all, and really no shortage in SoCA. Find someone who advertises as a bottom, with a beautiful derrière. He’ll be used to the request and know how to prepare and serve a salad you’ll toss for hours 🤑 + Vegas_Millennial 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
s_walker_c Posted June 16 Author Share Posted June 16 I figured any escort who bottoms would be down for it, but the scene/vibe I want is more "massage + rimming", so an escort feels a bit 'overkill' I guess? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamie21 Posted June 16 Share Posted June 16 Come to London. It’s part of my massage if you want that. musclestuduws, + Kevin Eagle, + robear and 7 others 3 6 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soloyo215 Posted June 16 Share Posted June 16 11 hours ago, s_walker_c said: Hey all I am obsessed with rimming (giving, not receiving), and have no interest in penetration whatsoever. Since I don't want "full sex", I was thinking about finding a masseur instead of escort for erotic service (that would involve me rimming the provider). I have heard some masseurs do this, but wanted to hear about any experiences/recommendations. I am in LA/OC btw You can increase your chances if you look at masseurs who are also in escort websites. I you are interested in the massage portion too, first identify the masseur that is also in the escort website, not escorts who have "erotic massage" added to their profile (9 times out of 10, that's self-marketing nonsense). That said, I've had three masseurs who seem willing to get rimmed (I neither confirm nor deny having rimmed the hell out of all three), so they seem to be around. It might be a matter of inquiring and also the way you inquire. + Vegas_Millennial, Whippoorwill, Topform and 4 others 4 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
caramelsub Posted June 17 Share Posted June 17 On 6/16/2024 at 2:42 AM, s_walker_c said: I figured any escort who bottoms would be down for it, but the scene/vibe I want is more "massage + rimming", so an escort feels a bit 'overkill' I guess? That sounds like mutual play, which is sex, or sexual foreplay. Regardless if no penetration is involved. Those are the services of an escort. I don’t normally hire erotic masseurs, but it’s my understanding they are limited to giving a handjob happy ending, and the masseur is naked for the massage, with lots of body contact, and massage of private areas. Anything more including oral sex giving or receiving is escort services, and escort pricing. + DrownedBoy, s_walker_c and + Vegas_Millennial 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
s_walker_c Posted June 17 Author Share Posted June 17 41 minutes ago, caramelsub said: That sounds like mutual play, which is sex, or sexual foreplay. Regardless if no penetration is involved. Those are the services of an escort. I don’t normally hire erotic masseurs, but it’s my understanding they are limited to giving a handjob happy ending, and the masseur is naked for the massage, with lots of body contact, and massage of private areas. Anything more including oral sex giving or receiving is escort services, and escort pricing. Thanks for the advice. I think my best bet is finding someone who advertises as both an escort and a masseur, then running it by them to see what their pricing would be. jeezifonly, caramelsub and Topform 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Enzo Falcone Posted June 18 Share Posted June 18 On 6/16/2024 at 9:23 AM, soloyo215 said: You can increase your chances if you look at masseurs who are also in escort websites. I you are interested in the massage portion too, first identify the masseur that is also in the escort website, not escorts who have "erotic massage" added to their profile (9 times out of 10, that's self-marketing nonsense). That said, I've had three masseurs who seem willing to get rimmed (I neither confirm nor deny having rimmed the hell out of all three), so they seem to be around. It might be a matter of inquiring and also the way you inquire. This is the best answer right here. As a provider who is on both massage and escort websites, the boundaries of what I offer are different. This is because the services and rates vary depending on what is being sought out. However, a client who reaches me for escort services and is looking for a full massage+, I will happily meet. When vetting which provider you'd like to book with, I would suggest asking about their massage practice, to make sure it meets your expectations. Do they have a professional table? Do they have a preferred technique? If the session were an hour, how much of that would be dedicated to receiving the massage service you're looking for, before moving into the fantasy/scenario you have laid out? Hope that helps! soloyo215, Whippoorwill, s_walker_c and 3 others 2 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Vegas_Millennial Posted June 18 Share Posted June 18 (edited) On 6/17/2024 at 2:55 PM, caramelsub said: That sounds like mutual play, which is sex, or sexual foreplay. Regardless if no penetration is involved. Those are the services of an escort. I don’t normally hire erotic masseurs, but it’s my understanding they are limited to giving a handjob happy ending, and the masseur is naked for the massage, with lots of body contact, and massage of private areas. Anything more including oral sex giving or receiving is escort services, and escort pricing. I don't believe in putting limits on another person's abilities. 😆 I don't believe any government agency limits masseurs to handjobs and massage of genitalia either. 😉 My first rim job was from a massuer during our massage; but, he has long since retired. My first time eating ass was also during a massage session. The massuer positioned himself with his hole in my face as he massage my torso or upper legs or something. This was years ago from a Craig's List massage hire. Edited June 18 by Vegas_Millennial caramelsub, Topform, Whippoorwill and 3 others 2 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamie21 Posted June 18 Share Posted June 18 31 minutes ago, Vegas_Millennial said: I don't believe in putting limits on another person's abilities. 😆 I don't believe any government agency limits masseurs to handjobs and massage of genitalia either. 😉 My first rim job was from a massuer during our massage; but, he has long since retired. My first time eating ass was also during a massage session. The massuer positioned himself with his hole in my face as he massage my torso or upper legs or something. This was years ago from a Craig's List massage hire. Yes this is it. There’s considerable overlap between what masseurs will include and what escorts will include. It’s a blurred line. If I, who advertises as a masseur, suddenly find a client’s cock in my mouth an alarm doesn’t go off and the escort police burst in to redefine the session and me as an escort or insist that I haven’t done sufficient effleurage on his back to be called a masseur. Everyone is free to define themselves and their service how they want to because the work isn’t regulated or codified. Clients should check with their escort or masseur if they have specific requirements. I’ve had all sorts of requests! Some are ‘yes of course’ and some are ‘that’s not my thing sorry’. I’m glad to be asked. No judgement. + Vegas_Millennial, Whippoorwill, Topform and 2 others 3 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cany10011 Posted June 18 Share Posted June 18 On 6/16/2024 at 2:42 AM, s_walker_c said: I figured any escort who bottoms would be down for it, but the scene/vibe I want is more "massage + rimming", so an escort feels a bit 'overkill' I guess? If you are looking for a masseur who wants to be rimmed, I'd expect to pay escort rates. Why not just find an escort into rimming? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
caramelsub Posted June 18 Share Posted June 18 I should have been more clear. I was referring to escort vs masseur pricing. In general, escorts charge more than masseurs by the hour. For example an escort may charge 300 per hour for full service play. Then 200 for erotic massage. Then maybe 150 for therapeutic massage. If a client is looking for an erotic massage for 200, with oral and rimming included, instead of paying 300 outright for full service, that may come across as haggling. Topform and soloyo215 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Vegas_Millennial Posted June 18 Share Posted June 18 1 hour ago, cany10011 said: If you are looking for a masseur who wants to be rimmed, I'd expect to pay escort rates. Why not just find an escort into rimming? Because not all escorts give a good massage. A good massage may be even more important than the ability to rim. soloyo215, + robear, Monarchy79 and 1 other 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
s_walker_c Posted June 18 Author Share Posted June 18 1 hour ago, Vegas_Millennial said: Because not all escorts give a good massage. A good massage may be even more important than the ability to rim. That's exactly it. I find getting a skillful massage to be very erotic - and an escort doesn't necessarily know how to give a GOOD massage. That's why I'm looking for providers who advertise as both. But I guess my expectation is that the majority of the session would be a massage, with the rimming sort of taking place of the HE 2 hours ago, caramelsub said: I should have been more clear. I was referring to escort vs masseur pricing. In general, escorts charge more than masseurs by the hour. For example an escort may charge 300 per hour for full service play. Then 200 for erotic massage. Then maybe 150 for therapeutic massage. If a client is looking for an erotic massage for 200, with oral and rimming included, instead of paying 300 outright for full service, that may come across as haggling. I guess it does seem like haggling. I don't want come across as cheap. My point was I don't want to be charged for "full service" when that's not what I want, same way I wouldn't want to be charged erotic massage rates if I was getting just a regular massage. I totally respect providers setting their own prices. If I tell a provider what I'm looking for (massage + rim) and they say that's more escort than erotic massage, I understand and respect that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Solution Simon Suraci Posted July 2 Solution Share Posted July 2 I’m your man, right here. Based in SoCal. I advertise as a masseur and an escort and I am good at both. It’s not just one service lumped into the other as an afterthought as is so commonly the case. As far as pricing goes, I would not mind the client rimming me, and I would not charge extra for it. I would, however, expect the client to communicate his needs when booking so that I can allocate adequate time beforehand to make sure I am fresh and ready to be rimmed. I would also expect the client to tip more generously because the service the client is asking for goes well above the call of duty for a masseur. There may be no penetration, but it’s still some level of escort service. Not everyone who hires escort service wants penetration, but that doesn’t mean it’s not escort service. Clients who don’t tip for going the extra mile I’m less inclined to go said mile the next time around. I don’t distinguish my pricing between therapeutic and erotic since almost all my clients want and expect at least a minimal amount of erotic contact during their sessions. How far they want that erotic level to go is up to them. Regardless of the erotic elements, the client still gets a focused, therapeutic massage in a reasonable range of $150/hr. The rest is a value-added bonus. The lines can get blurry at times, but I do draw some limits. I can’t offer oral and/or penetration to everyone for a regular massage fee. It’s simply unsustainable to operate this way. It might be other things like someone wanting a lot of spanking, fetish play, kissing, or what have you. There are no codified limits as to what the boundaries are. When I sense the client wants and needs a lot more than I can provide for a massage fee, I suggest after the session is over that they book a combo massage / escort session, or an escort session the next time. That way I don’t need to hold back at all. We just go for it. Everyone is happy. thomas, + robear, 56harrisond and 2 others 1 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monarchy79 Posted July 2 Share Posted July 2 On 6/18/2024 at 4:06 PM, cany10011 said: Why not just find an escort into rimming? Because he still wants a massage. + Vegas_Millennial 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
s_walker_c Posted July 3 Author Share Posted July 3 22 hours ago, Simon Suraci said: ... Thank you for this info. Yes - I fully expected to tip more for "going the extra mile", as I know what I'm asking for is beyond the scope of "just a massage". Like I said, I'm not trying to be cheap and get escort service for massage prices. Thanks for giving some insight and tips about how to approach this - I really appreciate it. Simon Suraci 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
carolus Posted July 7 Share Posted July 7 On 6/16/2024 at 2:50 AM, s_walker_c said: Hey all I am obsessed with rimming (giving, not receiving), and have no interest in penetration whatsoever. Since I don't want "full sex", I was thinking about finding a masseur instead of escort for erotic service (that would involve me rimming the provider). I have heard some masseurs do this, but wanted to hear about any experiences/recommendations. I am in LA/OC btw There are some escorts who usually offer penetration but would allow rimming. the two aren't mutually exclusive. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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