music played during massage

[viewing ownly]

A rather subjective subject, but one that appears to never have been touched upon in the forum until now.

Since an experience is to be mutually enjoyable, but for most all providers the focus is on our comfort level more than their own, should it be mentioned if the selection of sound is personally objectionable? It is rare that my ears are being tortured with the sounds the masseur puts on, but I tend to bite the bullet and not repeat, rather than cause conflict with their own likes. 

I do find it adds to the fun when things turn rather sexual when that clarinet pipes in with some ocean crash sound effects. 

[Jamie21]

Good question. I have a few preferred playlists when seeing clients. Usually Cigarettes After Sex or a classical playlist including Mahler and Albinoni. I’m not keen on that random ‘spa music’ that tends to get played. Music sets the mood, pace and atmosphere for the session. I find I can time things to it too. Occasionally clients comment on the playlist, or express a preference for next time. 

I once accidentally played Tchaikovsky’s 1812 overture which wasn’t really suitable to a relaxing massage but was ideal to get his climax to coincide with the cannons 🙂. 

[56harrisond]

Briefly discussed here

 

[+ poolboy48220]

One of my favorite masseurs played the usual spa music the first time I saw him. We had a bit of playtime that time. The second time the play was more, er, vigorous, and he switched the music to Ricky Martin when that started.

[maninsoma]

I can generally ignore the music being played unless it stands out for some reason.  I've had a few memorable experiences:

One guy who gave a very good massage but who was definitely "out there" mentally from my perspective started his playlist with Gary Wright's "Dream Weaver."  I like the song, but in the context it was kind of corny.

One guy who gave a horrible massage actually just had the TV on.  At some point I asked if he could just turn it off since it was so annoying.

I understand a provider wanting to have some sort of playlist because that can help them keep track of the time without needing to look at a clock.  I enjoy background music when it's well chosen to fit the mood and not just generic "new age" stuff.

[+ JamesB]

I generally don't mind the music played during my massage sessions, as long as it's not loud enough to bother me. However, there was one occasion where a Latin masseur played reggaeton, which I didn't care for. I didn't mention it during the session because everything else was quite pleasant. At the end, I asked if we could have a different style of music for our next session. He seemed offended and mentioned that it was a cultural thing. Naturally, I didn't return. When he texted me about scheduling our next session, I simply chose not to respond.

[soloyo215]

On 6/17/2024 at 2:57 AM, viewing ownly said:

A rather subjective subject, but one that appears to never have been touched upon in the forum until now.

Since an experience is to be mutually enjoyable, but for most all providers the focus is on our comfort level more than their own, should it be mentioned if the selection of sound is personally objectionable? It is rare that my ears are being tortured with the sounds the masseur puts on, but I tend to bite the bullet and not repeat, rather than cause conflict with their own likes. 

I do find it adds to the fun when things turn rather sexual when that clarinet pipes in with some ocean crash sound effects. 

A while back I did post about the background music (here), but it was about the music being interrupted by loud insurance commercials or some kind of public announcement. As a client, you do have a saying over the type of music you prefer to relax if the current music doesn't do it for you. You can ask, and I believe that they are more than happy to accommodate. With an escort I see no problem inquiring about background music if any,

I also had a terrible experience with a "masseur" who was not very professional (or knowledgeable), who had the Steven Wilkos show in the background instead of music, among other things.

Other than that, I am fairly easygoing with whatever background music is in the background, but I do know of people who react to certain types of music negatively. I see no problem in asking when booking the appointment.

[Hot4latin]

On 6/17/2024 at 8:56 AM, JamesB said:

I generally don't mind the music played during my massage sessions, as long as it's not loud enough to bother me. However, there was one occasion where a Latin masseur played reggaeton, which I didn't care for. I didn't mention it during the session because everything else was quite pleasant. At the end, I asked if we could have a different style of music for our next session. He seemed offended and mentioned that it was a cultural thing. Naturally, I didn't return. When he texted me about scheduling our next session, I simply chose not to respond.

I think I would have countered with a little light salsa to be followed by merengue if things turned playful.  Maybe end with Batea? 😂