Masseurs who kiss

[Other Mouse]

Is that a thing?

Any out there?

[Kevin Eagle]

I do. I have clients who just want the passion they're missing with their partner.

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[Other Mouse]

Thx for the reply, Kevin.

[UncutDad]

I would never approach a masseur with any expectation of kissing.  If there is chemistry and it happens naturally during a session, that's one thing.  But IMO that is more of an escort bargain for which I would expect to pay more for.  I search for good deep tissue massage therapists.  They are hard to find.  When you throw that kind of request at them, it's not hard to see why many of them want to not stay in the massage profession.  

[Other Mouse]

Thx, UncutDad.

Are you talking about extras (beyond hand jobs) in general or just kissing?

[UncutDad]

I guess i should qualify a little more.  There are escorts that stray into the RentMasseur side of work.  They usually have prices between $200 and $300.  So they are trying to get scort work wherever they can.  I think it would be acceptable to ask guys that charge that much because their bodywork is rarely good.

But the few experienced lower priced massage guys are different.  I've had conversations with massage men when they are working on me, and they tell me of getting annoyed at clients that come at them asking for escort services for cheaper massage rates.  I know of three guys that will no longer advertise on RentMasseur because they have "erotic" as a selection. They do not check that box as what they offer, but they still get the requests.  They are decent looking guys and they don't seem to have a problem with H.E. But everyone assumes that they are going to give full sexual service for a massage rate of between $120 and $160 just because they are on a particular site.  

And if I recall what was relayed to me correctly, I believe MasseurFinder limits how high the therapist can charge just to avoid  even a hint of escort activity.  Which just kind of highlights the difference of the sights and attitudes of their home country.  One (RM) is based in Europe where sexuality can be talked about in an adult manner.  The other website is based in the US where we have to be babysat and censored.....cuz, America the land of free speech, is truly no longer that.  It's just an empty slogan now because of liability.    Oops, sorry for getting a little "ranty" there.

[Other Mouse]

Thx, again,

to be honest, I am thinking escort minus sex plus massage…and kissing.

[jmichaeliii]

17 hours ago, UncutDad said:

I would never approach a masseur with any expectation of kissing.  If there is chemistry and it happens naturally during a session, that's one thing.  But IMO that is more of an escort bargain for which I would expect to pay more for.  I search for good deep tissue massage therapists.  They are hard to find.  When you throw that kind of request at them, it's not hard to see why many of them want to not stay in the massage profession.  

Interestingly I just did approach one of my rent masseur providers about this.  Our massage sessions always end up in great play time..much like escort but without penetration.   

I've seen him many times and I just said to him, hey we always have a lot of fun, but I don't want to cross any boundaries with you,  so can you tell me what you are OK and not ok with.  I now know kissing is not his thing but pretty much everything else is.  

I'd never ask this on a first session, I would just see where things go.  I'm on my 5th or 6th now with this provider.  

[fancyboot]

Theres one guy I see 4-5 times a year and we spend a good part of the session making out. It's definitely harder to find guys who will do this. I enjoy it, but I can see where a masseur might want to avoid it. 

 

[musclvr]

On 6/18/2024 at 4:49 PM, Other Mouse said:

Is that a thing?

Any out there?

You didn't say where you are but here is a recent thread on NYC masseurs.

https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/152309-nyc-providers-who-kiss/#comment-2302237

[Other Mouse]

Thx, musclvr,

I’m on the west coast, but really wanted to know if they existed.  I am figuring out that they exist for some folks, but maybe wait a few sessions to see report before inquiring.

[d.anders]

There was a massage guy in NYC's Flatiron many years ago who would offer kissing as part of his sensual service. I did not go to him for that, but when I visited, and he offered the upgrade, he did it in a very seductive manner, and I surprisingly accepted. I'm glad I did. He was a great kisser, and a talented seducer. He would kiss passionately, while touching all the hot spots with his warm and sensual touch. He was very skilled at massage. I don't remember his name. Not sure if he's still around. He was popular back in the day. I imagine it's easier to find kissers among the escorts who do massage. They know the deal. Asking a non-escort is fraught with an invite to rejection, on all levels.