Monarchy79 Posted June 20 Share Posted June 20 7 hours ago, DrownedBoy said: Yes, this is a funny question, but it's also a funny way to celebrate Juneteenth. My company gives us the day off in order to appear concerned about race relations, so I decided to use the day as intended. Or not. (and if I hired a guy called Jesus, I'd do it on Easter instead of Christmas) Not funny at all. You found a way to disrespectfully snub a holiday you care nothing about. + BenjaminNicholas, JourneysEnd and Shawn Monroe 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monarchy79 Posted June 20 Share Posted June 20 (edited) I sincerely hope that escorts of color see this entire conversation. Understand what many of these clients really think of you. Just amusement for their sick biases, and who you are as a person (your customs, holidays, recognitions), are nothing more than a joke to these bigoted, elitist jerks. listen to what they are saying here: 1.) “Hire a black guy for Juneteenth… (ha ha) next, it will be: 1.) “Hire a Mexican for Cinco De Mayo 2.) “Hire an Asian for the anniversary of the bombing of Hiroshima” A wise person said a long time ago that gay white men are white men first…. The disgusting comments on this thread proved that through and through. Edited June 20 by Monarchy79 + José Soplanucas, + BenjaminNicholas and Shawn Monroe 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ BenjaminNicholas Posted June 20 Share Posted June 20 (edited) Calling a Black escort 'ghetto' is casually racist and what most in the POC community would consider a microaggression. C'mon... It's really not that difficult to be a decent human being. And please don't attempt to justify this bullshit on 'what Chicagoans do and think.' I'm from Chicago, born and raised. You're wrong. Edited June 20 by BenjaminNicholas Shawn Monroe, marylander1940, FaustOust and 8 others 2 6 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ nycman Posted June 20 Share Posted June 20 4 hours ago, Vegas_Millennial said: It's no different than a New Yorker saying they hired someone from Jersey……it's not a compliment, but it's hot 🔥 No, it just means you’re poor. + José Soplanucas, + Vegas_Millennial, marylander1940 and 1 other 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monarchy79 Posted June 20 Share Posted June 20 15 hours ago, jeezifonly said: Presuming he was advertising his personal services, he didn’t have to be pressured into meeting on this day, and you paid and tipped him well for the good time, what could be incorrect? The fact that this escort didn’t know that he was hired as a “joke” to poke fun at a holiday that the OP was just glad to have the day off for. I’m quite certain that @DrownedBoy didn’t message the guy, saying: ”Hey, from your profile, I see that your black, and was looking to hire some “BBC”, to amuse myself for this “silly little black holiday” that gave me the day off. Oh, can you confirm that you live in the Ghetto please? And if possible, let’s have some rap music playing in the background too. I’ll bring the cash, some weed for ya’, a 40 oz., and a bucket of fried chicken….” 😒 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
carolus Posted June 20 Share Posted June 20 So OP is racist, and thinks fucking a black guy on the holiday to celebrate the abolition of slavery is "a good deed". + DrownedBoy, + Vegas_Millennial and Shawn Monroe 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TonyDown Posted June 20 Share Posted June 20 20 hours ago, DrownedBoy said: For Juneteenth, I found a young, handsome man of African descent living on the South Side of Chicago. Very ghetto, but an amazing kisser - a great combination. Does this make me a horrible person? Ultimately, there are forum members that find Asian guys are extra hot or black guys are extra hot. Should they apologize for that? Is that your question? I doubt you are a horrible person. But your post does invite people to read between the lines about some things. If you changed your post to say "I can't get enough of all the fine ass black men here in Chicago. That's how I celebrated Juneteenth. So suit me." That might say it better for some, yet not all. It's tricky. + DrownedBoy 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Pensant Posted June 20 Share Posted June 20 It’s always wise to review a post self-critically before posting. I was a bit shocked to see the word “ghetto”. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Monarchy79 Posted June 20 Share Posted June 20 (edited) 6 hours ago, TonyDown said: Ultimately, there are forum members that find Asian guys are extra hot or black guys are extra hot. Should they apologize for that? Is that your question? Fetishizing people for sexual gratification has absolutely nothing to do with thinking someone is “hot”. Slavemasters and overseers in America who were raping female and male slaves, sexually torturing them by castrating them, didn’t think they were “hot”. These slaves were just sources of sexual perversions. No different than the “Hottentot Venus”, who was toured around like a circus freak around France because of her big voluptuous figure. The French thought that she was so much of an “African Freak of Nature”, that after she died of multiple diseases (from sexual abuse and exploitation), France kept her body for “scientific experimentation”. Now we are in 2024, and people think it’s cool or “funny”, to hire a “ghetto” black guy, on a holiday that’s specific to slavery, and believe that this is harmless. Well it’s not. 1.) Would these same black guys be taken out on a proper dinner date? NO. 2.) Would these same black guys be introduced to your intimate group of friends? NO. 3.) Would these same black guys be considered for a relationship or even marriage? Would they be introduced to your family as your partner? NO. So NO, these guys do NOT think black guys are hot, they’re nothing more than big black cocks and phatt butts and orifices of sick Mandingo and “thug” fantasies. There’s absolutely nothing flattering about this type of “acknowledgement” or “recognition”. Edited June 20 by Monarchy79 + BenjaminNicholas, FaustOust, + José Soplanucas and 1 other 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ DrownedBoy Posted June 20 Author Share Posted June 20 20 hours ago, FaustOust said: However, is there a word that identifies you as someone who obviously comes from a Chicago Italian neighborhood and do most people hear that word as complimentary? I don’t think so. "Chicago wop." As for Monarchy79, that self-righteous moralizer just became persona non grata to me, thanks to my ignore list. Ta! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monarchy79 Posted June 20 Share Posted June 20 (edited) 8 minutes ago, DrownedBoy said: "Chicago wop." As for Monarchy79, that self-righteous moralizer just became persona non grata to me, thanks to my ignore list. Ta! I give zero f*cks. Further, I’m not “self-righteous”. I’m just RIGHT. Edited June 20 by Monarchy79 + KensingtonHomo 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monarchy79 Posted June 20 Share Posted June 20 11 hours ago, carolus said: So OP is racist, and thinks fucking a black guy on the holiday to celebrate the abolition of slavery is "a good deed". And he’s arrogant and smug about it too. He’s literally standing ten toes down on this degenerate B.S. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hot4latin Posted June 20 Share Posted June 20 On 6/19/2024 at 5:11 PM, DrownedBoy said: and if I hired a guy called Jesus, I'd do it on Easter instead of Christmas Because he rose on the third day and promised to cum again? + Vegas_Millennial and + DrownedBoy 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ purplekow Posted June 20 Share Posted June 20 (edited) 15 hours ago, nycman said: No, it just means you’re poor. I have lived equal parts of my life in NY where I was reared and NJ where I work as an adult. There are parts of NY which are wonderful and part that are poor just as in Jersey. The NY snobbishness about Jersey is ridiculous and usually represents .lazy thinking or ignorance. YMMV. I am happily living at exit 114. Edited June 20 by purplekow thomas 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ nycman Posted June 21 Share Posted June 21 9 minutes ago, purplekow said: I am happily living at exit 114. I still love you 114…..even if you’re only "Jersey Rich". grin thomas and + Vegas_Millennial 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ José Soplanucas Posted June 21 Share Posted June 21 1 hour ago, DrownedBoy said: As for Monarchy79, that self-righteous moralizer just became persona non grata to me, thanks to my ignore list. Ta! What did you expect? You opened a thread intentionally looking for triggering that kind of reaction. You know what? Just to answer your OP question, I am not sure but you may be a horrible person. Not because of what you allegedly did, but because of all your manipulations around it. Shawn Monroe, marylander1940 and Monarchy79 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ DrownedBoy Posted June 21 Author Share Posted June 21 19 hours ago, BenjaminNicholas said: Calling a Black escort 'ghetto' is casually racist and what most in the POC community would consider a microaggression. C'mon... It's really not that difficult to be a decent human being. And please don't attempt to justify this bullshit on 'what Chicagoans do and think.' I'm from Chicago, born and raised. You're wrong. Fair enough. During the 90s, in the youth meeting group at Horizons (old name of Center on Halsted), there was a "swear jar" to keep our tongues blunt. One of the words that cost money was "ghetto." I'm sorry, but I didn't think it belonged on that jar then, and still don't. I don't believe in "microaggressions," even given some offensive things I've been told as a gay man. If my thinking is still decades old, so be it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted June 21 Share Posted June 21 (edited) 1 hour ago, purplekow said: I have lived equal parts of my life in NY where I was reared and NJ where I work as an adult. There are parts of NY which are wonderful and part that are poor just as in Jersey. The NY snobbishness about Jersey is ridiculous and usually represents .lazy thinking or ignorance. YMMV. I am happily living at exit 114. Here's a trailer about riding from Manhattan through the Lincoln tunnel to the nicer areas of NJ! How much is ‘The Sopranos’ house worth now? NJ1015.COM So many New Jersey filming locations belonged to the HBO series, The Sopranos Edited June 21 by marylander1940 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monarchy79 Posted June 21 Share Posted June 21 1 hour ago, José Soplanucas said: What did you expect? You opened a thread intentionally looking for triggering that kind of reaction. You know what? Just to answer your OP question, I am not sure but you may be a horrible person. Not because of what you allegedly did, but because of all your manipulations around it. He simply forgot he was in mixed company. 😎 + José Soplanucas 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monarchy79 Posted June 21 Share Posted June 21 1 hour ago, DrownedBoy said: If my thinking is still decades old, so be it. Your thinking isn’t decades old. It’s centuries old. Dating all the way back to June 19, 1865. + Vegas_Millennial 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monarchy79 Posted June 21 Share Posted June 21 3 hours ago, DrownedBoy said: "Chicago wop." As for Monarchy79, that self-righteous moralizer just became persona non grata to me, thanks to my ignore list. Ta! Wop: an insulting and contemptuous term for a person of Italian birth or descent. So… you’re calling Italians “wops”, and hiring black “ghetto” escorts as novelties to poke fun at a holiday that celebrates freedom from slavery from the last holding state…. I don’t even have to comment on your character at this point. It speaks for itself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shawn Monroe Posted June 21 Share Posted June 21 2 hours ago, José Soplanucas said: What did you expect? You opened a thread intentionally looking for triggering that kind of reaction. Exactly. He asked a question he already knew the answer to, knew his answer for, and knew outright the response he’d get. + KensingtonHomo, Simon Suraci, + José Soplanucas and 1 other 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mike carey Posted June 21 Share Posted June 21 36 minutes ago, Monarchy79 said: So… you’re calling Italians “wops”, I think he was describing himself with that word. + DrownedBoy 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Vegas_Millennial Posted June 21 Share Posted June 21 On 6/19/2024 at 11:42 AM, DrownedBoy said: For Juneteenth, I found a young, handsome man of African descent living on the South Side of Chicago. Very ghetto, but an amazing kisser - a great combination. Does this make me a horrible person? Nice! Last year on July 4 I was in London and had sex with the British! You inspired me: This year I'll look for a sexy Italian to hire on October 12! Happy celebrating! 🥳 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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