BBB89 Posted June 30 Share Posted June 30 Hi! I am a young paralegal who works at a big firm. A week or so ago, I was looking for someone. Well, it turns out there is a lawyer at my firm who hooks on the side. Not gonna lie, he's attractive AF and want to hire him, but understand it's completely inappropriate. Maybe pay for videos and sexy pics? lol What should I do? Thanks! samhexum 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ DynamicUno Posted June 30 Share Posted June 30 Do not contact him or engage him in any way. Block him if you must. As far as you are concerned, he does not exist. 56harrisond, + Lucky, + BobPS and 14 others 2 15 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Vegas_Millennial Posted June 30 Share Posted June 30 (edited) If this person didn't advertise, were you going to ask him on a date? If yes, then proceed with asking him on a date. If not, then move along and find someone else to hire. I would follow this regardless of profession. Being lawyers is not relevant. Working for the same company is relevant. Edited July 1 by Vegas_Millennial + KensingtonHomo, + APPLE1, + mature_guy and 3 others 1 3 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BBB89 Posted June 30 Author Share Posted June 30 4 minutes ago, DynamicUno said: Do not contact him or engage him in any way. Block him if you must. As far as you are concerned, he does not exist. I work for a very large firm, so I know of him and he doesn't know of me. Johnrom 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BBB89 Posted June 30 Author Share Posted June 30 1 minute ago, Vegas_Millennial said: If this person didn't advertise, were you going to ask him on a date? If yes, then proceed with asking him on a date. If not, then move along and find someone else to hire. No, he is arrogant and conceited. Typical lawyer lol + Lucky and + Vegas_Millennial 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Vegas_Millennial Posted June 30 Share Posted June 30 4 minutes ago, BBB89 said: No, he is arrogant and conceited. Typical lawyer lol This Company of Men exists to share our experiences with other professionals so that others need not rely solely on advertisement photographs when deciding to hire. You have the benefit of knowing this professional in person and don't like his personality. That's enough to make most men walk away and not hire that person. There are plenty of sexy men for hire with whom you might actually enjoy their company. Johnrom, maninsoma, + APPLE1 and 4 others 3 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TonyDown Posted June 30 Share Posted June 30 Do you want to do the ethical thing? Or find a way around that? ReynST 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BBB89 Posted June 30 Author Share Posted June 30 5 minutes ago, TonyDown said: Do you want to do the ethical thing? Or find a way around that? I'm trying to decide, my two heads are saying two different things... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ DynamicUno Posted June 30 Share Posted June 30 17 minutes ago, BBB89 said: I work for a very large firm, so I know of him and he doesn't know of me. And? You do not want to be on his radar. If he's a lawyer and you're a paralegal, the minute you become a potential threat to him professionally they will find a way to show you the door. Exposing him, or threatening to do so, is not likely to work in your favor. Or you can fuck around and find out. Enjoy! Johnrom, Luv2play, Quincy_7 and 9 others 6 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BBB89 Posted June 30 Author Share Posted June 30 10 minutes ago, DynamicUno said: And? You do not want to be on his radar. If he's a lawyer and you're a paralegal, the minute you become a potential threat to him professionally they will find a way to show you the door. Exposing him, or threatening to do so, is not likely to work in your favor. Or you can fuck around and find out. Enjoy! He's an associate at a large firm, so I don't think he could fire me. But I should avoid I know Johnrom and + APPLE1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rvwnsd Posted June 30 Share Posted June 30 7 minutes ago, BBB89 said: He's an associate at a large firm, so I don't think he could fire me. But I should avoid I know No, he could not fire you. But he could file a complaint with one of his superiors or HR. Then they will take disciplinary action, which could result in your termination. You've mentioned you work for a large firm. They tend to have human resources policies. See the policy on personal relationships among colleagues (or something like that). Luv2play, chitownguy, marylander1940 and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ BobPS Posted June 30 Share Posted June 30 Mind your own business! Shoedog112, fancyboot, acks0104 and 9 others 4 6 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BBB89 Posted June 30 Author Share Posted June 30 I was and came across his profiel is all Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ azdr0710 Posted June 30 Share Posted June 30 if this little story is even true (other dubious stories have appeared in the forum over the years), the obvious answer is to do nothing.......but keep it in mind (and his profile copied on a thumbdrive!!) for future, uhhhh, negotiations??!!........(sarcasm alert!) + BOZO T CLOWN, BBB89, + APPLE1 and 2 others 3 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ JamesB Posted June 30 Share Posted June 30 Just stay away. You should avoid creating trouble or causing issues in places that are important to you, such as your workplace. It's about maintaining boundaries and respecting the environments where you work to avoid potential conflicts and negative consequences. In other words, keep your professional and personal spaces separate and free of unnecessary drama or complications to ensure they remain pleasant and functional. chitownguy, pubic_assistance, Jamie21 and 4 others 1 5 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ DERRIK Posted June 30 Share Posted June 30 if you see his profile - others have + Vegas_Millennial and BBB89 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DunwoodyGuy Posted June 30 Share Posted June 30 I've seen this movie and I know how it ends: You get fired; he does not. Casual, NYXboy, pubic_assistance and 8 others 5 2 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ShortCutie7 Posted June 30 Share Posted June 30 I think paying for videos/pics is a decent balance for having you fulfill your fantasy without getting anyone in trouble as long as he has no way of finding out who you are. + friendofsheila 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BuffaloKyle Posted June 30 Share Posted June 30 I was about to post why does a lawyer need a side gig as an escort but there was that judge who was doing onlyfans so anything is possible. 🤣 + APPLE1, + KensingtonHomo and + friendofsheila 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BBB89 Posted June 30 Author Share Posted June 30 1 minute ago, BuffaloKyle said: I was about to post why does a lawyer need a side gig as an escort but there was that judge who was doing onlyfans so anything is possible. 🤣 You mean this guy? lol Ex-Judge & OnlyFans Creator Speaks Out About Being Fired WWW.OUT.COM “The most vulnerable members of the queer community are fighting for their lives, and the only people offended... pubic_assistance, BuffaloKyle and + Vegas_Millennial 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted June 30 Share Posted June 30 2 hours ago, BBB89 said: Hi! I am a young paralegal who works at a big firm. A week or so ago, I was looking for someone. Well, it turns out there is a lawyer at my firm who hooks on the side. Not gonna lie, he's attractive AF and want to hire him, but understand it's completely inappropriate. Maybe pay for videos and sexy pics? lol What should I do? Thanks! Move on.... What he does is his own business! 2 hours ago, BBB89 said: No, he is arrogant and conceited. Typical lawyer lol Don't cross him, mind your own business. Live and let live. Ohers have seen his advertisement is up to them to "report" him to the firm or not. Johnrom, + Charlie and pubic_assistance 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LookingAround Posted June 30 Share Posted June 30 What do you hope to gain by posting here? + Vegas_Millennial, marylander1940 and + azdr0710 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Lucky Posted June 30 Share Posted June 30 3 hours ago, BBB89 said: No, he is arrogant and conceited. Typical lawyer lol Since you don't like lawyers, why are you interested in him? + Vegas_Millennial, marylander1940 and LookingAround 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ glutes Posted June 30 Share Posted June 30 Kris Parr! Kris Parr! + azdr0710 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Lucky Posted June 30 Share Posted June 30 @KrisParr is one of my favorite posters, but I don't know if he is an escort and a lawyer. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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