Proximusss Posted July 1 Share Posted July 1 Hey everyone, I would appreciate your insight into this as I’m still reeling from embarrassment. I had a session with my regular at his place the other day. We usually alternate between my place and his, and this time the festivities took place at his place. We don’t always have sex each time we meet, but this time he was up for some very, very animalistic sex this time (as was I!) Anyway, as we were getting into it I hear a crack coming from the bed. I was absolutely mortified as he heard it too. I heard a further crack after that but he kept going and didn’t mention it again. My question is; should I offer a tip to cover the damage? I’m not suggesting replacing the entire bed I was just thinking of sending him a little extra for the inconvenience. Any thoughts would be appreciated. pubic_assistance and Whippoorwill 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TT3690 Posted July 1 Share Posted July 1 The bed frame was probably old and in need of replacement anyway. I don't think you need to send anything, but you can if it eases your conscience. + Pensant 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamie21 Posted July 1 Share Posted July 1 Probably not necessary since he was by the sounds of it a very willing and active participant so it’s as much his fault as yours. Also the equipment is his responsibility, if he’s going to encourage vigorous action then he should be prepared with suitably robust facilities! I’ve experienced equipment problems a few times. Once was at a sex party (I wasn’t there in any professional capacity) and the bed broke because there were too many people on it. It was some rubbish bed from Ikea. Everyone just carried on regardless, as one would expect. It appeared that some didn’t even notice… Another time I was an assistant at a sensual massage event (think 12 tables, 12 volunteers on the tables, 24 trainees and the teacher plus the assistant- me). The teacher demonstrates a not especially vigorous move on one of the volunteers and the massage table under her collapses. Fortunately no one was hurt and it certainly broke the ice. Another time I was doing a 4 hands at my studio. I have an electrically powered adjustable table. The head end can be moved up or down (as can the whole table) through a foot pedal. This time I was kneeling on the head end because the client wanted to suck me as I sucked him (69 position). The 4 hands partner was behind me also kneeling on the head end. Let’s not worry about what he was doing…I sensed that something was wrong when the client said “I’m slipping off”. (I’m sure he managed to say it with his mouth full too). I got off and saw that the head end was bent downward so that the client’s waist was well above his head. We thought the table hydraulics had broken, but fortunately it was ok. That would have been expensive…but my cost. Lesson learned not to overload the adjustable end of the table. + APPLE1, Medin, Whippoorwill and 5 others 2 2 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted July 2 Share Posted July 2 16 hours ago, Proximusss said: should I offer a tip to cover the damage? I’m not suggesting replacing the entire bed I was just thinking of sending him a little extra for the inconvenience. Must you ? NO Could you ? YES that would seem very kind of you to offer something toward the "replace the bed fundraiser". JeffsterLA, thomas, MaybeMaybeNot and 7 others 9 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soloyo215 Posted July 2 Share Posted July 2 17 hours ago, Proximusss said: Hey everyone, I would appreciate your insight into this as I’m still reeling from embarrassment. I had a session with my regular at his place the other day. We usually alternate between my place and his, and this time the festivities took place at his place. We don’t always have sex each time we meet, but this time he was up for some very, very animalistic sex this time (as was I!) Anyway, as we were getting into it I hear a crack coming from the bed. I was absolutely mortified as he heard it too. I heard a further crack after that but he kept going and didn’t mention it again. My question is; should I offer a tip to cover the damage? I’m not suggesting replacing the entire bed I was just thinking of sending him a little extra for the inconvenience. Any thoughts would be appreciated. Why not. The regular is not going to reject it, I'm sure. I don't think you are mandated. You know him better than all of us, so you could take a better guess at what his reaction to you offering help will be. Whippoorwill, Proximusss and + APPLE1 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted July 2 Share Posted July 2 (edited) My regular in DC has a rule about no guy over 350 lbs. in his bed. He had an obese client who showed up out of the blue without even warning him about how overweight he was, the guy wanted to get fucked at the edge of the bed and she never recovered from it. Edited July 2 by marylander1940 Whippoorwill, pubic_assistance, Monarchy79 and 2 others 1 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wanderlust307 Posted July 2 Share Posted July 2 48 minutes ago, marylander1940 said: My regular in DC has a rule about no guy over 350 lbs. in his bed. He had an obese client who showed up out of the blue without even warning him about how overweight he was, the guy wanted to get fucked at the edge of the bed and she never recovered from it. Escorting is not for the weak of heart. Johnrom, pubic_assistance, Whippoorwill and 2 others 1 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CuriousByNature Posted July 2 Share Posted July 2 If only Heloise was still alive to chime in with a hint or two about situations like this... 😆 + bashful and rvwnsd 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ purplekow Posted July 2 Share Posted July 2 i have had my bed break during activity. I am a larger man and the escort was a 360 pound muscle man. At one point he decided to stand on the bed and jumped up and the bed cracked. It is years later and I am finally getting around to throwing the bed out. It was a fun time and a fun story. Proximusss and marylander1940 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ FrankR Posted July 3 Share Posted July 3 After seeing the Twilight bedroom scene I now offer all my providers a bonus if we break the bed! Luv2play, + DrownedBoy, Proximusss and 3 others 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Proximusss Posted July 3 Author Share Posted July 3 On 7/1/2024 at 6:28 PM, TT3690 said: The bed frame was probably old and in need of replacement anyway. I don't think you need to send anything, but you can if it eases your conscience. Thank you. I will add a tip the next time I see him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Proximusss Posted July 3 Author Share Posted July 3 10 hours ago, purplekow said: i have had my bed break during activity. I am a larger man and the escort was a 360 pound muscle man. At one point he decided to stand on the bed and jumped up and the bed cracked. It is years later and I am finally getting around to throwing the bed out. It was a fun time and a fun story. What happened after this? Did he mention it? I honestly wanted the ground to just swallow me up when I heard the crack. Especially because I am also on the heavier side and my regular is muscular (about 200lbs). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ purplekow Posted July 4 Share Posted July 4 (edited) The side board broke through the insert slot and that corner of the mattress went down. We just continued with the playing surface a bit askew. I subsequently took a couple of books and propped up the sagging corner and it has been that way ever since. By the way the escort weighed in at 260 not 360 and was in fact, the recently posted German escort. Edited July 4 by purplekow + APPLE1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ nycman Posted July 4 Share Posted July 4 I’ve broken a few beds in my day. Embarrassed? Oh hell, no. Damn proud actually. + DrownedBoy, thomas, + APPLE1 and 2 others 1 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
viewing ownly Posted August 17 Share Posted August 17 Offering to pay depends on whether or not you live in a "bed fault" state. Seriously though if the bed belongs to him, you should feel no obligation at all to pay for what happened. Just jokingly let him know when he feels his next bed is on it's last legs that he knows who to call. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NYXboy Posted August 17 Share Posted August 17 It's not your fault, unless you are 300lbs guy, then maybe it is! I don't think it is necessary, but I do think it is good manners. + sync 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luv2play Posted August 18 Share Posted August 18 There was a review in RM recently where the bed of the provider broke and the client left a one star review. I don’t remember why the client posted such a poor review but he remarked in passing that the bed was low end cheap IKEA crap or words to that effect. The provider posted a rebuttal and said regarding the bed he had paid $1100 for it and it was quite new. His zinger was that if the client wasn’t so heavy it wouldn’t have broken. + DrownedBoy 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ DrownedBoy Posted August 18 Share Posted August 18 I'm not heavy, but I'd be so damned embarrassed if the provider's bed broke when I was on it, that I'd immediately offer to split the cost with him while buying one online. Manners can be expensive; not everyone can be as well-mannered, I admit. + sync 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luv2play Posted August 18 Share Posted August 18 Providers might want to consider, if they do incalls, to have a bed suitable for vigorous sex. Since I do a fair amount of incalls as a client, I have a bed that is a mattress on a box spring on the floor. Impossible to break. I have a two bedroom house but I usually sleep in this room. The other bedroom has a massive antique bed which has seen a lot of action over the 40 years I have had it. I once had to have the underpinnings reinforced when they gave way. Today it is strong enough to take a threesome but one where the participants aren’t doing acrobatics on it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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