TonyDown Posted July 5 Share Posted July 5 That he's not an escort and not attracted to you seems incongruent. Kudos for allowing others to give you a reality check. I hope you find ways to make your next trip with your friend enjoyable, whether or not it's your last together. + nycman, Johnrom and pubic_assistance 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lohengrin1979 Posted July 5 Share Posted July 5 The use of the word friend is being applied very liberally here. I would say, no matter what the feelings involved are, these things strike me as true about friendship: - If you’re paying someone and they’re having sex with you, they aren’t your friend. The relationship isn’t equal and it’s quid pro quo - If you’re not paying someone, and having sex with them, you also aren’t friends. You’re something else. Friends don’t fuck. Friendships are supposed to be clear of all that extra baggage. - If you’re providing living expenses for someone, you are not friends. Friends help each out once in a while, I.e., a one-time loan, letting them crash at your place for a while. Giving your “friend” a monthly salary makes the relationship something else, and something fraught. My question to you, is do you have other close friends and would you do the same thing for them that you do for this guy? I can guess the answer but surprise me JeffsterLA, + DrownedBoy, pubic_assistance and 1 other 1 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jeffla Posted July 5 Share Posted July 5 When feelings get involved, and money is still part of the deal, someone is bound to get hurt. Wish you well. Johnrom, MscleLovr, BSR and 3 others 2 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SamRockdale Posted 14 hours ago Share Posted 14 hours ago These kinds of relationships are indeed tricky and complex. As a very kind hearted and empathetic provider, I get sad when I hear of SBs taking advantage of their SDs. I've always wanted a SB/SD relationship, but one with clear communication and a genuine interest in each other. As someone who has genuine care for my regulars, you deserve to be treated with dignity and care. I wish the best for you! @411Reviews pubic_assistance 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ nycman Posted 13 hours ago Share Posted 13 hours ago Any update @411Reviews? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ DrownedBoy Posted 1 hour ago Share Posted 1 hour ago On 7/4/2024 at 8:54 PM, Lohengrin1979 said: If you’re not paying someone, and having sex with them, you also aren’t friends. You’re something else. Friends don’t fuck. Friendships are supposed to be clear of all that extra baggage. According to what book of etiquette? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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