Best position for newbie bottom

[SometimesBi]

I feel like trying to sit on top, while giving the bottom full control, is a position where it would be difficult to relax. Indeed, maybe even impossible for some bottoms (especially first timers). 

I'd recommend laying face down, where you can completely relax every muscle in your body. 

P.S. Even if there is some pain, despite all the care the top is taking, remember that in the end, bottoming feels great! There's a reason so many men like to bottom. If as the top finally get all the way in, you do experience some pain/discomfort, I'd suggest letting him stay inside, and just be still for a few moments as you continue to adjust to the new sensation. In the face down position, he can just lay across your back, and you both relax, and get used to it. That full body warmth feels great, too! 

[SometimesBi]

On 7/24/2024 at 6:48 PM, 56harrisond said:

 

I'm sad they didn't show actual examples of these positions 😏

Or do they on their OF page? I don't want to subscribe only to be disappointed 😉

[hungry4darkmeat]

I suggest gradually moving from doggy to flat on your stomach - that position is the most likely to help you achieve the “woman’s orgasm” and should be part of getting you opened up so you can take a good pounding on your back afterwards

[CuriousByNature]

6 hours ago, hungry4darkmeat said:

I suggest gradually moving from doggy to flat on your stomach - that position is the most likely to help you achieve the “woman’s orgasm” 

Strange - I sleep flat on my stomach almost every night, and I have yet to wake up with a clitoris.

 

Edited August 1 by CuriousByNature

[hungry4darkmeat]

1 hour ago, CuriousByNature said:

Strange - I sleep flat on my stomach almost every night, and I have yet to wake up with a clitoris.

 

Lmao well you should try it with a big dick in your ass and tell me how that goes 

[BaronArtz]

'Butt Seriously' is a most informative book written my Dr Evan Goldstein of Bespoke Surgical.  Just Google it.  The definitive guide to anal health, pleasure and everything in between.  He describes in great depth methods of anal training for beginners and may I - for advanced afficionados.

I recommend.

[+ poolboy48220]

The first time I bottomed, the top suggested I sit on his cock, it would give me more control of how much & how fast I could take it.

I hired Matthew Ford in the mid-2000's, he mentioned that me being on my side while he fucked me was "a good position for me".

[hungry4darkmeat]

There’s also “The ins and outs of gay sex” by dr stephen goldstone is the definitive work on the subject. He also happens to be a fantastic doctor (he’s one of mine). Highly recommended 

[jeezifonly]

The position is less important to likelihood of enjoyment than the confidence you can materially accommodate it.

Toys - even small ones, awaken your sense of anal and prostate pleasure. Use one or two for solo play in the days before your date. An average size of 6in can prepare you for most live dick. Once you already know it fits, you can hunger for it, and that will allow the position to be organic. 

[Whippoorwill]

When I was new to this game, I had a friend who had a Four-Poster bed. We soon discovered that if I stood up and wrapped my arms around one of the pasts, he could stand behind me and easily slide in…with a lot of flexibility for each of us to adjust to the best possible effect. I could turn my head around and kiss. Worked for us.