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So I was "straight" earlier in my life. Married to a woman, etc.  Fully 100% gay now. LOL :) 

I have this thing in my head that I want to fuck a dude with a pussy.  When I say dude, I mean really masculine and built. They're out there, I saw one on Rent Men a while back who is no longer active. Like 220 lbs, square jaw, jacked, tattoos, and a real vagina.  I really don't want a smaller or feminie guy or someone who is a twink/skinny, which it seems like 99.9% of the typical FTMs are. So I am looking for something really, really rare. I know. 

So I searched the entire Rent Men site worldwide and only found one other.  My question is are there other sites where I could find someone fitting this description other than RM that I don't know about. 

If anyone has suggestions or even a recommendation of someone, I will take that too. Location isn't the issue as for this fantasy, I can easily travel. 

Hope this doesn't come off too "weird" then again, we all have our thing. :) 

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I get where you coming from; I’ve had similar thoughts and have been looking for it. I did run across a site with a lot of FTM providers (proportionally) but it wouldn’t be what you’re looking for.  I think someone of that caliber is either going to be on RM, or getting hired without advertising. My suggestion is to find a FTM pornstar who fits the bill and reach out to them directly to see if they’d consider it. At the right price, it might work. 

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I’d be interested as well. It’s difficult finding FTM providers. Somewhat easier to find trans women, but trans men offering services are few and far between…

I agree, travel definitely has to be a part of the equation, either flying to their city or flying them to yours. Unlikely you can find the right fit in a given city/region.

Agree with reaching out to well known performers. But hey, expect to pay $$$.

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You will find some trans men on Tryst. Use the keyword field for FTM,  transman, and every other gender description you can think of.  
Tryst mixes up categories of biological sex (male and female) with categories of gender identity (trans and nonbinary). So you might have to try several combinations of search terms.

 

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I haven't checked it out recently, but when I did www.eros.com had quite a few options - MTF though.  I was not looking for FTM.  But it could be worth looking into.  

There are about 11 FTM escorts on RM - NYC.  

Good luck!

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Thanks guys for all the replies. This has been really helpful.  Still haven't found what I am looking for but I did find a bunch of people on Instagram searching #FTM and that led me to see all their followers and connections which made me realize there is a circle out there of what I am looking for, the big question is engaging respectfully. I can figure that out though without being a total creep. lol. 

For example: 

WWW.INSTAGRAM.COM

50K Followers, 870 Following, 336 Posts - Ajay Holbrook (@ajayholbrook) on Instagram: "🏳️‍⚧️ FTM | Los Angeles, California 🌴 🩸Bodybuilder 🌊 Dancer 📧:...

 

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On 7/25/2024 at 1:42 PM, ThroatCummer said:

So I was "straight" earlier in my life. Married to a woman, etc.  Fully 100% gay now. LOL :) 

I have this thing in my head that I want to fuck a dude with a pussy.  When I say dude, I mean really masculine and built. They're out there, I saw one on Rent Men a while back who is no longer active. Like 220 lbs, square jaw, jacked, tattoos, and a real vagina.  I really don't want a smaller or feminie guy or someone who is a twink/skinny, which it seems like 99.9% of the typical FTMs are. So I am looking for something really, really rare. I know. 

So I searched the entire Rent Men site worldwide and only found one other.  My question is are there other sites where I could find someone fitting this description other than RM that I don't know about. 

If anyone has suggestions or even a recommendation of someone, I will take that too. Location isn't the issue as for this fantasy, I can easily travel. 

Hope this doesn't come off too "weird" then again, we all have our thing. :) 

My go to guy in DC has a neighbor who looks EXACTLY like that, he/she/they is a fat and short FTM. He showed me his/her/their pictures on Grindr, unfortunately I don't think he/she/they work/s but if you come to Dupont Circle you'll find him/her/they online and maybe you're his/her/they type. 

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2 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

My go to guy in DC has a neighbor who looks EXACTLY like that, he/she/they is a fat and short FTM. He showed me his/her/their pictures on Grindr, unfortunately I don't think he/she/they work/s but if you come to Dupont Circle you'll find him/her/they online and maybe you're his/her/they type. 

I'll keep that in mind. Not really looking for short and fat though. Want big and muscular. Know you, someone who will start throwing punches and kick my ass if I get their pronouns wrong. 

That's kinda hot. 

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Tryst has a good article on booking TransMasc escorts here.

Learning how to avoid triggering dysphoria is important.  I was with a trans-guy a few years ago.  He wore a black extra-heavy-duty sports bra as a chest binder and a leather harness over the chest binder. Cluelessly,  I reached during play and felt up a breast and saw him wince and cringe.  I immediately realized what I'd done and pulled my hand away.  I started to apologize and he cut me off saying, "it's okay.  Just, please don't do that again."

I've seen other TransMen who had no dysphoria triggers like that. 

 

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