Seeking advice on spas and masseur in nyc (newbie)

[Jackylas]

, I’ve been curious on the whole scene and only experience is just getting happy . But thinking to go beyond to see how it feels with a guy, I admit being virgin so don’t judge. 

and needing to know good spa and person in nyc 
That will take the initiation to go further than just a  happy. Any places and masseuse recommendation be much appreciated . I’ve curiuos on  square spa if recommended. Plus if place is doing multiple pops even better

I’ve been to HK once but didn’t feel vibe of person and felt intimidated. Escape spa and the New paradise was was pretty good

Also what type of things to take to help enhance the experience and lose inhibition? I was thinking 🍄 but not sure what else or where to get (Please do Dm) . Plus prefer lasting longer and Not looking to do sober. 

I’m not intrested in group session or bath house (even thou curious to check) since I’m  afraid I’ll be intimidated and back out.

Overall any advice and recommendation  is greatly appreciated .

[Jackylas]

Anyone?? Could really use the advice and suggestions

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

On 8/2/2024 at 6:48 AM, Jackylas said:

Any places and masseuse recommendation be much appreciated

If you're looking for a masseuse, then you're on the wrong website.  Masseuse is a woman 👠.  Masseur is a man 👞. 

 

Edited August 5 by Vegas_Millennial

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

7 hours ago, Jackylas said:

Anyone?? Could really use the advice and suggestions

Start here: 

Enjoy yourself, and welcome to America!

 

Edited August 5 by Vegas_Millennial

[+ FrankR]

On 8/2/2024 at 9:48 AM, Jackylas said:

 

Also what type of things to take to help enhance the experience and lose inhibition? I was thinking 🍄 but not sure what else or where to get (Please do Dm) . Plus prefer lasting longer and Not looking to do sober. 

If you are looking to go beyond a happy ending you may have a hard time finding what you need at a spa. You are really looking for an escort, not a masseur. Frankly it is also a bad idea to be intoxicated on your first time at a spa - that is something I would only consider with a provider I know and have a level of trust with.  My advice would be to reconsider your approach.

[Jackylas]

2 hours ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

If you're looking for a masseuse, then you're on the wrong website.  Masseuse is a woman 👠.  Masseur is a man 👞. 

 

Yes damn auto correct ( Masseur is what I seek) lol

[Jackylas]

49 minutes ago, FrankR said:

If you are looking to go beyond a happy ending you may have a hard time finding what you need at a spa. You are really looking for an escort, not a masseur. Frankly it is also a bad idea to be intoxicated on your first time at a spa - that is something I would only consider with a provider I know and have a level of trust with.  My advice would be to reconsider your approach.

I guess it’s more on the intimidation knowing it’s happening if going thru escort. Than with masseur it ease in with massage, and almost surprise that something going beyond the massage that slight pressured into going further . Hence even wanting to take something to even reduce that anxiety and slight bliss feeling thru the journey. 
 

Hope that makes sense, hence trying to figure out which masseur and which spot, which seems HK or time square be good from what I have read. 

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

1 hour ago, Jackylas said:

I guess it’s more on the intimidation knowing it’s happening if going thru escort. Than with masseur it ease in with massage, and almost surprise that something going beyond the massage that slight pressured into going further . Hence even wanting to take something to even reduce that anxiety and slight bliss feeling thru the journey. 
 

Hope that makes sense, hence trying to figure out which masseur and which spot, which seems HK or time square be good from what I have read. 

If you're a virgin, you might just try finding someone on Grindr.  Or, chat with someone at a gay bar one evening.  Just look for someone to make out with, and see where it goes from there. 

The added bonus: you won't be pressuring someone else to have sex with you as part of their job as a massuer.

[Jackylas]

Thanks for input but Not looking into going into relationship, just curious on the experience . Plus not seeking legit spa, hence on this forum 

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

On 8/5/2024 at 4:41 PM, Jackylas said:

Thanks for input but Not looking into going into relationship, just curious on the experience . Plus not seeking legit spa, hence on this forum 

I have stronger relationships with my regular masseurs than I do with my one-time hookups I meet on Grindr.  If you don't want intimacy, a hookup app is the way to go

[+ sniper]

Look for a masseur on rentmasseur who ALSO has a profile on rentmen that lists things beyond massage. That way you've got the option to "upgrade" the session if you wish. At a spa in general, even the naughty ones, a decent fraction of the masseurs have limits that are short of what you appear to be looking for.

[Jackylas]

4 hours ago, sniper said:

Look for a masseur on rentmasseur who ALSO has a profile on rentmen that lists things beyond massage. That way you've got the option to "upgrade" the session if you wish. At a spa in general, even the naughty ones, a decent fraction of the masseurs have limits that are short of what you appear to be looking for.

Thanks, saw one that was doing nuru. Might use that person not sure yet