Gooberman Posted April 14, 2023 Share Posted April 14, 2023 Live in NYC. Only tried bottoming twice and it didn't work out. Willing to try again. Looking for NYC recommendations good w/beginners. Leave a list here or PM me w/any suggestions and details. Thx. BananaBagel 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jonnychgo Posted April 14, 2023 Share Posted April 14, 2023 MikeAustin - Pornstar Performer, Rentboy, Gay Massage in New York City, NY | RentMen RENTMEN.EU Pornstar Performer & Rentboy in New York City, NY - MikeAustin: Superior TOP in Hell’s Kitchen or for Travel Don't let his size fool you. Just explain you're new to this and he will be patient and make it pleasant. He did for my first time. Luv2play, vasco and thomas 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ KensingtonHomo Posted April 14, 2023 Share Posted April 14, 2023 I have a couple of recommendations but also a few general notes from a lifelong bottom. Older guys (35 and up) tend to be more experienced and more patient If you don't have toys, get them and start playing. Start small and use all the lube. Bottoms always need more lube than most tops think we do, and creamier lube, whether silicone or water-based, will feel better With an escort, it's your time. Be very open about your experience and what you want, and do your best to relax. If you're going to douche, finish that up at least 2 hours before you plan to play. If I do it closer than that, I find that I'm more sensitive. Okay, here are my guys: Jonah Wheeler - He's more average-sized in the dick department but is amazing in bed. He's vers, so I think he appreciates what bottoming is like. He's also a fun, sensual, and all-around great lay. Nick Halden - He does a massage, fucking combo that is really sensual, relaxing and very pleasurable. Also, more of an average penis size and also vers. NYWolfman - He's a bit older and has a big thick dick. But he is there to please the bottom. I suspect he's similar to Mike Austin in that way. He knows what he's doing, and your pleasure is his priority. Happy bottoming! chadLA, CuddleBuddy, + bashful and 2 others 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kaboom35 Posted April 15, 2023 Share Posted April 15, 2023 I second Mike Austin. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
christo_dc Posted April 15, 2023 Share Posted April 15, 2023 Kai Johnson was *so* patient and careful with me. KaiJohnson on Rent.Men RENT.MEN View my profile on Rent.Men Westsideguy 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harryinny Posted April 15, 2023 Share Posted April 15, 2023 Related to @Gooberman's question, can a virgin hole be torn by even a careful penetration of a mid size cock? Whenever I have tried (guess where I am coming from) I feel that I am going to be ripped apart and stop. Any comments? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ KensingtonHomo Posted April 15, 2023 Share Posted April 15, 2023 30 minutes ago, Harryinny said: Related to @Gooberman's question, can a virgin hole be torn by even a careful penetration of a mid size cock? Whenever I have tried (guess where I am coming from) I feel that I am going to be ripped apart and stop. Any comments? Do you play like other kinds of butt play? Getting rimmed? Toys? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harryinny Posted April 15, 2023 Share Posted April 15, 2023 2 hours ago, KensingtonHomo said: Do you play like other kinds of butt play? Getting rimmed? Toys? So far only rimming. + KensingtonHomo and Wanderoz 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Axiom2001 Posted April 15, 2023 Share Posted April 15, 2023 20 hours ago, KensingtonHomo said: I have a couple of recommendations but also a few general notes from a lifelong bottom. Older guys (35 and up) tend to be more experienced and more patient If you don't have toys, get them and start playing. Start small and use all the lube. Bottoms always need more lube than most tops think we do, and creamier lube, whether silicone or water-based, will feel better With an escort, it's your time. Be very open about your experience and what you want, and do your best to relax. If you're going to douche, finish that up at least 2 hours before you plan to play. If I do it closer than that, I find that I'm more sensitive. Okay, here are my guys: Jonah Wheeler - He's more average-sized in the dick department but is amazing in bed. He's vers, so I think he appreciates what bottoming is like. He's also a fun, sensual, and all-around great lay. Nick Halden - He does a massage, fucking combo that is really sensual, relaxing and very pleasurable. Also, more of an average penis size and also vers. NYWolfman - He's a bit older and has a big thick dick. But he is there to please the bottom. I suspect he's similar to Mike Austin in that way. He knows what he's doing, and your pleasure is his priority. Happy bottoming! In addition to what KensingtonHomo wrote, I'd advise that you use your fingers to begin loosening yourself. Begin with two fingers--play around--then use all of them plus your thumb. Also, remember to give yourself a good dousing at least two hours prior to play. Lastly, I went to the websites of J. Wheeler, Nick Halden, and NY Wolfman, and from the three, my choice would have to be the latter. One of his vids had me getting hard w/o my touching myself, for I would have loved to have been the bottom who was receiving his pleasure. [I love receiving a nice-sized cut or uncut cock while lying on my back; that's when the top can really reach all points of your "tight Chunnel."] Harryinny, thomas and + KensingtonHomo 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LFABWC Posted April 28, 2023 Share Posted April 28, 2023 (edited) man.....before, for me bottoming, it always was a pain in the BUTT ....🤣......until..... I discovered that if: 1-I "inject" a little water based lube into my hole. 2- I get topped first lying on my left side, 3-sniff some poppers........ The "thing" goes all the way in with almost no pain.....a little pain at the beginning, and then.......woof, what a pleasure!!!.....no dick feels big enough at that moment!!!!..... I love squeezing them at this point as hard as I want and when I want. now the top can breed me in any position he wants until he shoots his "babies" all the way in!!!! But big thick dicks....not good for me.....maybe I will try again following these rules. but interestingly, some small and thin cocks hurt me more than thicker, bigger ones. Maybe it depends on the shape of the guy's cock?....the curvature? the cockhead shape? on the mutual attraction or chemistry?.....or the top guy's fuck "style"??? A lot of variables here LOL....😄!!!! Edited April 28, 2023 by LFABWC Wanderoz, thomas and rhh33 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Decatur Guy Posted April 28, 2023 Share Posted April 28, 2023 I've never been with this guy, but I would be drawn to him especially for a first-time outing. I agree with the advice above about older guys and lube. TopGunLatino - Pornstar Performer, Rentboy, Gay Massage in New York City, NY | RentMen RENTMEN.EU Pornstar Performer & Rentboy in New York City, NY - TopGunLatino: Masculine,Discreet ,Uncut thomas 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ukbearmass Posted February 12 Share Posted February 12 Probably an unusual subject - but I rarely bottom so looking for some tops more on the gentle or average side. Or at least not going to go at it like a jackhammer. 🫠 Any recommendations? NYXboy, Decatur Guy, scrtlovr and 2 others 3 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Decatur Guy Posted February 12 Share Posted February 12 (edited) I feel like this guy would be very comfortable from gentle to rough to in-between. He was in-between with me and did check-ins and such to make sure I was good when he picked up the pace and intensity a notch. I just got a sense he reads his clients well. StephenVersTop - Pornstar Performer, Rentboy, Gay Massage in New York City, NY | RentMen RENTMEN.EU Pornstar Performer & Rentboy in New York City, NY - StephenVersTop: Young 🔥 passionate 🔥masculine... Edited February 12 by Decatur Guy NYXboy, + Vegas_Millennial and Wanderoz 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Saabster Posted February 12 Share Posted February 12 (edited) I had a good experience last year with BodeBrentwood. BodeBrentwood - Male Escort, Gay massage - New York City | Rent.Men RENT.MEN BodeBrentwood Gay Escort in New York City, New York, available for Gay Escorting,Modeling,Erotic Massage. | Find all the best Male Escorts at Rent.Men Edited February 12 by Saabster correct spelling BodeBrentwood 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Vegas_Millennial Posted June 23 Share Posted June 23 (edited) On 2/12/2024 at 9:28 AM, Saabster said: I had a good experience last year with BodeBrentwood. BodeBrentwood - Male Escort, Gay massage - New York City | Rent.Men RENT.MEN BodeBrentwood Gay Escort in New York City, New York, available for Gay Escorting,Modeling,Erotic Massage. | Find all the best Male Escorts at Rent.Men I had a great experience this week with @BodeBrentwood. We met at the Annual Company of Men Palm Springs gathering; and, I finally had the opportunity to hire him when I was in New York this week. He's excellent. I was still sore from hooking up with a young 20something the night before who went at it like a jackhammer. Bode Brentwood took his time and was very gentle and pleasurable. Edited June 23 by Vegas_Millennial BodeBrentwood and Saabster 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cliff Posted June 23 Share Posted June 23 (edited) While Nicolas is well endowed he will be as gentle and accommodating as you desire. He’ll also go the rougher route, should you wish. FunNicolasny - Pornstar Performer, Rentboy, Gay Massage in New York City, NY | RentMen RENTMEN.EU Pornstar Performer & Rentboy in New York City, NY - FunNicolasny: Handsome, masculine, discreet and... Edited June 23 by Cliff queensboroboy 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JMan Posted August 16 Share Posted August 16 I’m looking for recommendations in NYC for a very patient top who will work with me as a first time bottom. Hoping for someone who will give me a nice BFE. Thanks! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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rubdowntime Posted August 27 Share Posted August 27 (edited) Hi everyone, I am a top but I want to try to bottom, I have never really been fucked -those who had tried have gone soft because I was so nervous. Can anyone recommend a sensual top and can stay hard and be gentle and help me? (In the US, pretty open) Edited August 27 by rubdowntime more clearity Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mike carey Posted August 27 Share Posted August 27 8 hours ago, rubdowntime said: Hi everyone, I am a top but I want to try to bottom, I have never really been fucked -those who had tried have gone soft because I was so nervous. Can anyone recommend a sensual top and can stay hard and be gentle and help me? It would be helpful if you mentioned the city, or at least region that you are in, or if you're prepared to travel for the right guy. Edit to add, we've merged this new thread with several others asking the same question. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
steve10025 Posted August 28 Share Posted August 28 Here's a counterintuitive hint that helped me when I started bottoming - as your partner is inserting his dick, squeeze your ass muscles tight! You'd think you would want to do the opposite but this can work well for some. rubdowntime 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rubdowntime Posted August 28 Share Posted August 28 7 minutes ago, steve10025 said: Here's a counterintuitive hint that helped me when I started bottoming - as your partner is inserting his dick, squeeze your ass muscles tight! You'd think you would want to do the opposite but this can work well for some. Thanks for the tip . I do have some toys I play with but looking for the real thing to try it before I try with others to work out the kinks steve10025 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luv2play Posted August 28 Share Posted August 28 48 minutes ago, steve10025 said: Here's a counterintuitive hint that helped me when I started bottoming - as your partner is inserting his dick, squeeze your ass muscles tight! You'd think you would want to do the opposite but this can work well for some. This doesn’t work with all tops. I have had several who asked me not to squeeze but rather to relax my ass muscles. They tend to be the bigger guys. Happened two weeks ago with an overnight session. After he asked the first time, I had to remind myself a few times. The morning session really loosened me up. 😈 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
danteig Posted August 28 Share Posted August 28 On 8/27/2024 at 1:15 AM, rubdowntime said: Hi everyone, I am a top but I want to try to bottom, I have never really been fucked -those who had tried have gone soft because I was so nervous. Can anyone recommend a sensual top and can stay hard and be gentle and help me? (In the US, pretty open) Hi! I have a couple of recommendations. DM me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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