marylander1940 Posted August 17 Share Posted August 17 I would say it matters to me when it comes to hire him again, for instance I just can't stand attitude and ungratefulness. Obviously looks and interaction come first! + BenjaminNicholas, pubic_assistance, + Axiom2001 and 3 others 5 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ JamesB Posted August 17 Share Posted August 17 It plays a significant role in my decision to hire him again. Whippoorwill, marylander1940, + sf westcoaster and 10 others 3 10 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jmichaeliii Posted August 17 Share Posted August 17 3 minutes ago, JamesB said: It plays a significant role in my decision to hire him again. 100% + sf westcoaster, ericwinters, Medin and 4 others 3 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ sf westcoaster Posted August 17 Share Posted August 17 Absolutely it matters! Whippoorwill, + Axiom2001 and marylander1940 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NipLuvr212 Posted August 17 Share Posted August 17 i totally agree that it matters, BUT -- i had a real situation this past week when i hired the nicest guy in the world (as far as I know), but the erotic experience just didn't happen. what's worse, he sent me all these nice and complimentary texts, wants to get together, etc., etc. what is to be done? Whippoorwill and Luv2play 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soloyo215 Posted August 17 Share Posted August 17 (edited) 2 hours ago, NipLuvr212 said: i totally agree that it matters, BUT -- i had a real situation this past week when i hired the nicest guy in the world (as far as I know), but the erotic experience just didn't happen. what's worse, he sent me all these nice and complimentary texts, wants to get together, etc., etc. what is to be done? I agree with all that attitude matters, but I also know that being nice, friendly and even having good chemistry doesn't necessarily mean quality experience. Attitude is only one of several things that matter to me. Edited August 17 by soloyo215 Whippoorwill and NipLuvr212 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Whippoorwill Posted August 17 Share Posted August 17 For me, attitude is key to maintaining the fantasy that not only do we have a hot sexual experience but that he actually wants to, for something other than the money. jackcali, wanderlust307 and Fridolf 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wolfer Posted August 17 Share Posted August 17 Super important to me. I want to feel welcome, wanted and appreciated. dbar123, Fridolf, Whippoorwill and 6 others 4 4 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LostUpstate Posted August 17 Share Posted August 17 I once went for an erotic massage with a provider who had zero personality and it was impossible to have any type of conversation after, and I would never go back. Personality definitely counts. pubic_assistance, + Axiom2001, NipLuvr212 and 1 other 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ DrownedBoy Posted August 17 Share Posted August 17 Yes. Even if I think a guy is physically attractive, if their ad or attitude sounds pompous or too willful, I just back off. Besides, good actors are great at roleplaying. pubic_assistance, Whippoorwill and + sf westcoaster 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Solution + BenjaminNicholas Posted August 17 Solution Share Posted August 17 The ideal cornerstones are 'kind, intelligent and interesting' What he can roleplay otherwise is what makes him a great escort. Many escorts aren't cut out to be more than one-hour hires. 56harrisond, Whippoorwill, Your Man in Arlington and 9 others 7 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted August 17 Author Share Posted August 17 I would certainly never enable an escort's drug habit. I'm not saying nice guys don't fall into that kind of lifestyle. pubic_assistance and + DrownedBoy 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Decatur Guy Posted August 17 Share Posted August 17 (edited) I'm not necessarily looking for "nice," but I certainly want someone dependable about appointments, discreet about the arrangements and trustworthy no matter how animalistic the encounter might be. A "gentleman in the streets, a devil in the sheets" kind of situation. And if "nice" and "friendly" and "outgoing" are part of that package, so much the better. Edited August 18 by Decatur Guy + DrownedBoy, HockeyMan, Your Man in Arlington and 4 others 4 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted August 18 Share Posted August 18 I really prefer providers of sexual services to be "nice" in terms of easy to talk to and open minded, intuitive people who can go from nice to naughty when the clothes come off. I like extreme sexual fetishes but trust is important in this realm so I need to be with someone who I know is a good person behind the wild playtime. Simon Suraci, spidir, Frog and 5 others 4 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dbar123 Posted August 19 Share Posted August 19 There is nothing worse than spending your money on an uninvolved provider. Medin, + DrownedBoy, Frog and 3 others 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
acks0104 Posted August 20 Share Posted August 20 I don't necessarily need nice, but I do need respectful and professional. peter831, Frog and Redwine56 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Redwine56 Posted August 22 Share Posted August 22 On 8/17/2024 at 12:42 PM, NipLuvr212 said: i totally agree that it matters, BUT -- i had a real situation this past week when i hired the nicest guy in the world (as far as I know), but the erotic experience just didn't happen. what's worse, he sent me all these nice and complimentary texts, wants to get together, etc., etc. what is to be done? It seems as if he was more into you than you were into him. Although you left feeling that the encounter was not erotic, he may not have thought there was a problem. I gather you didn't express that your expectations were not met. His follow-up comments are seeking another meet-up. You are the paying customer who will have to decide whether another encounter will be better than this one. NipLuvr212 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frog Posted August 22 Share Posted August 22 Basic humanity like kindness, decency, discretion & respect are really important to me alongside physical attributes. For me, I like some kind of emotional & relational chemistry to be there to make the physical sparks really fly.... Redwine56, Whippoorwill, jmichaeliii and 1 other 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AtlTopGuy Posted August 22 Share Posted August 22 Personable is great and needed as well as discretion. I also like someone that is willing to engage via text of call about interests, fetishes, limits, likes, dislikes. While I am all about "me" in the situation, I have found that providers that will chat be open create a much better experience with a much better chance at having good chemistry. We both tend to know what to expect on the first encounter and then can decide how future ones will proceed. I like to be open about what things I like and what I definitely dont like. Guys that spend a bit of time (more than "just tell me when and we can work out the details when we meet") are usually worth both the time and the cost. Frog and + KensingtonHomo 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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