PileDriver Posted August 21 Share Posted August 21 just hit on someone young..regret my hit...juvenile in his response...buyers deserve better...thoughts? marylander1940, VeriChiKL, + DynamicUno and 2 others 1 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jmichaeliii Posted August 21 Share Posted August 21 14 minutes ago, PileDriver said: just hit on someone young..regret my hit...juvenile in his response...buyers deserve better...thoughts? If I get an unacceptable response from anyone, I just move on. There are plenty of options out there. If it starts off on a bad foot, it is probably going to end that way too. dcguy20, thomas, peter831 and 6 others 2 6 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wanderlust307 Posted August 21 Share Posted August 21 I don't like maturity - it comes with age. soloyo215, + Drew Collins, + DrownedBoy and 14 others 2 15 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frog Posted August 21 Share Posted August 21 Probably comes with the territory and not a massively unsurprising response. Of course, some young bucks are more emotionally / socially mature than others but....I guess part of the attraction was his physical condition.? Young, hung & full of cum...?? Guess sometimes we just have to take the rough with the smooth... BonVivant, j r and pubic_assistance 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted August 21 Share Posted August 21 1 hour ago, PileDriver said: just hit on someone young..regret my hit...juvenile in his response...buyers deserve better...thoughts? Only those who like escorting remain in the job for more than a couple of months. I've learned we must love what we do for a living. Not sure if this exactly applies to your bad situation. DamizzonNYC, Dolman, Jamie21 and 2 others 2 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Whippoorwill Posted August 21 Share Posted August 21 I stay away from anyone in their 20s/anyone who's only been in the business a couple of years. While I like the young bucks physically, I find 30s a better combination of youth and maturity. Young enough that they aren't jaded but old enough to know the score. Been around the block a few times. Be skilled while realizing that they're not god's gift to the world. Understand that they're in a service industry. Are serious about their career and have a business model that works for both parties. Know how to communicate, make good on their commitments, and care about delivering the whole product. Jamie21, Hen, BaronArtz and 12 others 2 7 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ JamesB Posted August 21 Share Posted August 21 1 hour ago, marylander1940 said: I've learned we must love what we do for a living. Such a true statement but so often overlooked. Loving what we do can make all the difference, turning work from a chore into something that brings purpose and satisfaction. Dolman, Frog, marylander1940 and 3 others 2 1 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ DrownedBoy Posted August 21 Share Posted August 21 5 hours ago, PileDriver said: just hit on someone young..regret my hit...juvenile in his response...buyers deserve better...thoughts? It's a sink or swim business, and this kid hasn't learned to swim yet. Or he thinks this is like getting paid for normal Grindr hookups. I'd flag him in Deli or Spa. We've done that with escorts who haven't learned the business yet. BonVivant 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ purplekow Posted August 21 Share Posted August 21 4 hours ago, Frog said: Probably comes with the territory and not a massively unsurprising response. Of course, some young bucks are more emotionally / socially mature than others but....I guess part of the attraction was his physical condition.? Young, hung & full of cum...?? Guess sometimes we just have to take the rough with the smooth... Or, in the case of young subs, they just have to take the rough with the rougher. Now we are having some fun learning. Becket, Frog, + Pensant and 1 other 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wanderlust307 Posted August 22 Share Posted August 22 (edited) I said before that I don't like maturity and that I like young guys. But I also fully understand the problems with youth and inexperience. And I recently had a real life example: I met (via instagram) a 19 yo, I took him for lunch and we had a nice time. Then we lost touch until recently. He messaged me that he is back in town. I said fine, come over to my place for a drink and more. And he replied, "what more?". 😅 Edited August 22 by wanderlust307 liubit, Frog and + Pensant 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Redwine56 Posted August 22 Share Posted August 22 1 hour ago, wanderlust307 said: I said before that I don't like maturity and that I like young guys. But I also fully understand the problems with youth and inexperience. And I recently had a real life example: I met (via instagram) a 19 yo, I took him for lunch and we had a nice time. Then we lost touch until recently. He messaged me that he is back in town. I said fine, come over to my place for a drink and more. And he replied, "what more?". 😅 Maybe he was wondering if you were inviting him to dinner? 😂 wanderlust307 and Whippoorwill 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wanderlust307 Posted August 22 Share Posted August 22 8 minutes ago, Redwine56 said: Maybe he was wondering if you were inviting him to dinner? 😂 lol He seemed to be in his own remote galaxy too far from planet earth, that everything is possible. Of course it could be a genuine question. I will find out someday. Redwine56 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Vegas_Millennial Posted August 22 Share Posted August 22 On 8/21/2024 at 9:38 AM, PileDriver said: just hit on someone young..regret my hit...juvenile in his response...buyers deserve better...thoughts? At least he was young. It's when he gives a juvenile response and he's over 40 that it's a real turn off. Maturity CAN come with age, but it's not guaranteed. + DrownedBoy, + Drew Collins, j r and 8 others 5 3 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soloyo215 Posted August 22 Share Posted August 22 On 8/21/2024 at 12:38 PM, PileDriver said: just hit on someone young..regret my hit...juvenile in his response...buyers deserve better...thoughts? Depends what for. If it's hire just for sex, I can't care less about the level of maturity, for as long as there is cognition enough to understand consent and the deal. I've always been terrible at flirting, so in that respect, the level of maturity of the other person doesn't necessarily place a role. I imagine you didn't get a response that made you want to continue the conversation. Just one of those live and learn things. Normally I just move on. Plenty of people out there. MikeBiDude and + Pensant 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ICTJOCK Posted August 23 Share Posted August 23 If you don't have someone who is mature and responsible about their actions, I'd move along. If you are contacting someone who views the job as an escort in a professional context you will know.... and certainly the opposite. Jamie21, marylander1940, + DrownedBoy and 2 others 4 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ DrownedBoy Posted August 23 Share Posted August 23 On 8/22/2024 at 3:10 PM, Vegas_Millennial said: It's when he gives a juvenile response and he's over 40 that it's a real turn off. Maturity CAN come with age, but it's not guaranteed. There's nothing sadder than a provider in his 30s who still acts like an entitled, spoiled brat. I've seen the type, and they usually get into drugs. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thelatin Posted August 23 Share Posted August 23 1 hour ago, DrownedBoy said: There's nothing sadder than a provider in his 30s who still acts like an entitled, spoiled brat. I've seen the type, and they usually get into drugs. And then I pay for their treatment/ and they come out on Xanax. F me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Vegas_Millennial Posted August 24 Share Posted August 24 4 hours ago, DrownedBoy said: There's nothing sadder than a provider in his 30s who still acts like an entitled, spoiled brat. Yes, there is. A CLIENT in his 30s who acts like an entitled, spoiled brat, is even worse + KensingtonHomo and + DrownedBoy 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ DrownedBoy Posted August 24 Share Posted August 24 14 hours ago, Vegas_Millennial said: Yes, there is. A CLIENT in his 30s who acts like an entitled, spoiled brat, is even worse Even worse when the client is in his 50s, 60s, even 70s... liubit and jackcali 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HockeyMan Posted August 25 Share Posted August 25 I like younger providers. But they still need to have good communication and maturity. NipLuvr212 and MikeBiDude 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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