wanderlust307 Posted August 22 Share Posted August 22 I've been chatting with someone and agreed to meet over lunch to get to know each other. 20yo, model wannabe, found in instagram, not an escort, more a seeking situation. So a couple of hour prior he messages me: (HIM) I am at this address, when are you picking me up? (ME) I thought we would meet at the restaurant. I will wait you there. (HIM) My previous bfs always picked me up from home. (ME) You live in the suburbs, we go to a restaurant in the centre, I live in the centre. Why don't you get a taxi and I'll cover it. (HIM) I don't like taxis, come and pick me up with your car. (ME) But I don't drive and I don't have a car. (HIM) What? You don't have a car?? And that was the end of story... 😅 liubit, Luv2play, BonVivant and 3 others 1 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Pensant Posted August 22 Share Posted August 22 Maybe an Uber? MikeBiDude 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wanderlust307 Posted August 22 Author Share Posted August 22 (edited) 23 minutes ago, Pensant said: Maybe an Uber? I offered him a taxi/uber but didn't like it. He wanted me to go and pick him up myself, open his door etc... In any case I am glad I did not meet him. I just came out of a 2 year relationship with another nut case, I could use a break. 😆 Edited August 22 by wanderlust307 wsc, Luv2play, + Pensant and 4 others 1 1 1 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Vegas_Millennial Posted August 22 Share Posted August 22 (edited) 9 hours ago, wanderlust307 said: I've been chatting with someone and agreed to meet over lunch to get to know each other. 20yo, model wannabe, found in instagram, not an escort, more a seeking situation. So a couple of hour prior he messages me: (HIM) I am at this address, when are you picking me up? (ME) I thought we would meet at the restaurant. I will wait you there. (HIM) My previous bfs always picked me up from home. (ME) You live in the suburbs, we go to a restaurant in the centre, I live in the centre. Why don't you get a taxi and I'll cover it. (HIM) I don't like taxis, come and pick me up with your car. (ME) But I don't drive and I don't have a car. (HIM) What? You don't have a car?? And that was the end of story... 😅 Sounds like he wanted car sex! Most of the young guys I find on hookup apps or at bars just want to quickly fuck in the backseat of my car in a parking lot. Special thanks to @Whitman for posting this picture earlier today: Edited August 22 by Vegas_Millennial Added picture that was recently posted in Neighbor's Son gallery + Pensant and wanderlust307 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BuffaloKyle Posted August 22 Share Posted August 22 20yo and talking about how all his previous bfs would pick him up. How many bfs at 20 has he had? That's all you need to know right there. + Italiano, wanderlust307, pubic_assistance and 4 others 2 1 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ jeezopete Posted August 22 Share Posted August 22 Sounds like maybe he wanted to judge you based on the type of car you drive. In his response he was more surprised by the fact that you don't have a car than the fact that you don't drive. You know, presentation is everything to some. pubic_assistance 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted August 22 Share Posted August 22 11 hours ago, wanderlust307 said: I've been chatting with someone and agreed to meet over lunch to get to know each other. 20yo, model wannabe, found in instagram, not an escort, more a seeking situation. So a couple of hour prior he messages me: (HIM) I am at this address, when are you picking me up? (ME) I thought we would meet at the restaurant. I will wait you there. (HIM) My previous bfs always picked me up from home. (ME) You live in the suburbs, we go to a restaurant in the centre, I live in the centre. Why don't you get a taxi and I'll cover it. (HIM) I don't like taxis, come and pick me up with your car. (ME) But I don't drive and I don't have a car. (HIM) What? You don't have a car?? And that was the end of story... 😅 Well, he's high maintenance! Now go back to chatting with another prima donna! \ Rent an expensive car and pretend it's yours! pubic_assistance 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Johnrom Posted August 22 Share Posted August 22 Yiu were lucky that you DODGE-d that one. Pun fully intended ! 😎 marylander1940, wanderlust307, + Vegas_Millennial and 1 other 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ICTJOCK Posted August 23 Share Posted August 23 Well to start with, I think it wise to remember that you will really have varied responses based on experience and where we live. In some areas not having a car would be kind of strange, but in others, a car is not needed and is almost an "extra" that isn't needed. I have several vehicles, but I wouldn't judge someone on not having or owning one. There might be a valid reason. The OP here just may not have need for a car since he lives in the City center. I personally thought it was gutsy that he ask the OP to come get him. I'd move on rather quickly. nate_sf, wanderlust307 and Johnrom 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wanderlust307 Posted August 23 Author Share Posted August 23 1 hour ago, ICTJOCK said: Well to start with, I think it wise to remember that you will really have varied responses based on experience and where we live. In some areas not having a car would be kind of strange, but in others, a car is not needed and is almost an "extra" that isn't needed. I have several vehicles, but I wouldn't judge someone on not having or owning one. There might be a valid reason. The OP here just may not have need for a car since he lives in the City center. I personally thought it was gutsy that he ask the OP to come get him. I'd move on rather quickly. Spot on. I live in the centre of an old city in Europe. Most of it is pedestrian area. There is a metro station a few minutes walk. I quit driving many years ago and sold may car which was parked for months, running out of battery, alarm going off etc... When I want to go to an appointment in the business district which is 10Km away I use a chauffeured car. Restaurants, bars, shops are all walking distance. I find it very liberating not having a car to drive through traffic, find where to park etc. My best friend loves cars and driving, has two Porsche, we occasionally go to the country and the beach. The guy could judge me by the area I live and by the restaurant I was going to take him. But he was not smart enough. In retrospect he was not even that good looking. I am glad I did not meet him. Johnrom, ICTJOCK, pubic_assistance and 1 other 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wanderlust307 Posted August 23 Author Share Posted August 23 6 hours ago, marylander1940 said: Well, he's high maintenance! Now go back to chatting with another prima donna! \ Rent an expensive car and pretend it's yours! I love high maintenance and prima donnas 😄 I don't need to rent, my best friend loves cars and has a small collection of Porsche. Occasionally he persuades me to go to a beach club. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wanderlust307 Posted August 23 Author Share Posted August 23 6 hours ago, jeezopete said: Sounds like maybe he wanted to judge you based on the type of car you drive. In his response he was more surprised by the fact that you don't have a car than the fact that you don't drive. You know, presentation is everything to some. Correct, but where I live, most people don't have cars because they are useless. He was from the suburbs where car is a necessity. He could judge me from my home address and from the restaurant I was going to take him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wanderlust307 Posted August 23 Author Share Posted August 23 8 hours ago, Vegas_Millennial said: Sounds like he wanted car sex! Most of the young guys I find on hookup apps or at bars just want to quickly fuck in the backseat of my car in a parking lot. Special thanks to @Whitman for posting this picture earlier today: I remember car sex from my youth, but now in the city centre most people don't want a car and parking lots have disappeared years ago. 😅 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhileasFogg Posted August 23 Share Posted August 23 Maybe he didn’t understand that, when he arrived, that you’d be glad to do the driving? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wanderlust307 Posted August 23 Author Share Posted August 23 8 minutes ago, PhileasFogg said: Maybe he didn’t understand that, when he arrived, that you’d be glad to do the driving? Seriously I am glad I didn't meet him. PhileasFogg 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soloyo215 Posted August 23 Share Posted August 23 On 8/22/2024 at 5:32 AM, wanderlust307 said: ...not an escort, more a seeking situation. Now you know what he was seeking. Never a pleasant situation, but better that it ends sooner than later. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wanderlust307 Posted August 23 Author Share Posted August 23 1 minute ago, soloyo215 said: Now you know what he was seeking. A chauffeur 🤣 liubit 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted August 23 Share Posted August 23 9 hours ago, wanderlust307 said: I love high maintenance and prima donnas 😄 I don't need to rent, my best friend loves cars and has a small collection of Porsche. Occasionally he persuades me to go to a beach club. If that's the kind of guy you actually go after prepare yourself for plenty of drama and disappointing sex. You should have asked a car from your best friend. After all don't you enjoy the hunt / chase, right? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wanderlust307 Posted August 23 Author Share Posted August 23 1 minute ago, marylander1940 said: If that's the kind of guy you actually go after prepare yourself for plenty of drama and disappointing sex. You should have asked a car from your best friend. After all don't you enjoy the hunt / chase, right? Drama yes. Love drama. Disappointing sex? Why? Au contraire... No I will not ask my friend for a car. I hate cars and driving. Once in a while I do him the favour and get in his car. That's enough. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ WilliamM Posted August 23 Share Posted August 23 41 minutes ago, marylander1940 said: If that's the kind of guy you actually go after prepare yourself for plenty of drama and disappointing sex. You should have asked a car from your best friend. After all don't you enjoy the hunt / chase, right? You seem to like drama too + DynamicUno, coriolis888 and marylander1940 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted August 23 Share Posted August 23 19 minutes ago, WilliamM said: You seem to like drama too I don't like drama, that's why I hire from RM and avoid dealing with guys who are high maintenance. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ReynST Posted Tuesday at 04:36 PM Share Posted Tuesday at 04:36 PM Objectively, it sounds like this was a perceived sugar daddy/son situation. When you said you didn't have a vehicle it changed his perception of the situation 🫤🫥 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rudynate Posted Tuesday at 04:47 PM Share Posted Tuesday at 04:47 PM On 8/22/2024 at 7:39 AM, wanderlust307 said: I offered him a taxi/uber but didn't like it. He wanted me to go and pick him up myself, open his door etc... In any case I am glad I did not meet him. I just came out of a 2 year relationship with another nut case, I could use a break. 😆 A princess!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted Tuesday at 05:20 PM Share Posted Tuesday at 05:20 PM 31 minutes ago, Rudynate said: A princess!! And a queen! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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