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[moonlight]

Have you ever been in an incall situation where you see the previous client leaving, or the next client arriving? This is a major breach of discretion IMO but I might be more uptight about that than most.

Of course, it's also kind of gross and a mood killer. 

I feel like spacing things out enough that that doesn't happen should be obvious...

[maninsoma]

Yes, that's happened to me a few times.  Just from a hygiene perspective, it's far from ideal.  Doesn't the provider at least need a few minutes to change sheets and at least wipe himself off with a wet washcloth?

The stand-out, worst experience for me: I had an appointment with a guy who kept me waiting outside after my appointment time for a few minutes.  Just before he let me know I could come in, I saw someone (presumably the previous client) leave.  When I enter the escort's place, he's on the phone telling some other guy he can arrive in about a half hour.  When he got off the phone, I told him I was leaving because it was clear he wasn't intending to provide the service we discussed and I didn't want to be part of a revolving door of clients.  He got upset, but he couldn't deny his business model of trying to get clients in and out as quickly as possible. 

[+ Pensant]

2 hours ago, maninsoma said:

Yes, that's happened to me a few times.  Just from a hygiene perspective, it's far from ideal.  Doesn't the provider at least need a few minutes to change sheets and at least wipe himself off with a wet washcloth?

The stand-out, worst experience for me: I had an appointment with a guy who kept me waiting outside after my appointment time for a few minutes.  Just before he let me know I could come in, I saw someone (presumably the previous client) leave.  When I enter the escort's place, he's on the phone telling some other guy he can arrive in about a half hour.  When he got off the phone, I told him I was leaving because it was clear he wasn't intending to provide the service we discussed and I didn't want to be part of a revolving door of clients.  He got upset, but he couldn't deny his business model of trying to get clients in and out as quickly as possible. 

One does have to admire his work ethic though!

[maninsoma]

1 hour ago, Pensant said:

One does have to admire his work ethic though!

If your idea of work ethic is to put minimal effort in for each client in order to maximize revenue, then I'll concede your point.  My definition of work ethic includes doing a good job, not just hurrying things along.

[cany10011]

11 minutes ago, maninsoma said:

If your idea of work ethic is to put minimal effort in for each client in order to maximize revenue, then I'll concede your point.  My definition of work ethic includes doing a good job, not just hurrying things along.

Agree. Most perfunctory services can be finished in 20 minutes, just like the porn videos  However, for an intense, breathtaking session, most will last around 60 minutes including showering, foreplay and a brief massage before or after....

[PileDriver]

20 minites? as a top or bottom i always stretch the 'perfucntory' moments as long as posible..we can talk and get to know each other while our private parts are getting intimate

[soloyo215]

9 hours ago, moonlight said:

Have you ever been in an incall situation where you see the previous client leaving, or the next client arriving? This is a major breach of discretion IMO but I might be more uptight about that than most.

Of course, it's also kind of gross and a mood killer. 

I feel like spacing things out enough that that doesn't happen should be obvious...

Not exactly. One of my providers is not a clock watcher, and I have been with him way after the agreed time. There was this one time when he seem to have forgotten about a client after me, and though I didn't see him, seems like there was a little overlap.

I don't feel awkward if a person sees me leaving or arriving to/from a provider. I know that that's just me. I prefer to maintain privacy and confidentiality, but if people know, I don't care too much about it, I'm not ahsamed. People who talk and gossip and judge are the ones who should be ashamed of stepping into others' private business.

As for "gross", why? Some people in my generation went to hospitals where we had thermometers who were in somebody's butt put in our mouths. They have been sterilized prior to it, but yes, some of us got thermometers in our mouths that had been in another person's anal cavity. Is it gross to think of that? Of course. Is it harmful? No.

It's one of those things that we prefer not to know or think about. In my case, I am ok with it. I know exactlky what (and who) I am getting into when I agree to see a provider. Besides, it's not that I am a virgin when I go to see him.

[Simon Suraci]

Yes, it should be obvious to program time between one appointment end time and the next appointment start time. Not factoring in this time is unprofessional provider behavior. I would be mortified if I made two clients pass one another on the way in/out. You need space for the unexpected. At least 30 minutes between clients. Say a client arrives 5-10 mins late and the next one arrives 5-10 mins early. That leaves you with barely 10 minutes to take care of all cleaning, communications, and rest. There’s no flexibility for chit chat, something taking longer than expected (like the client taking forever to cum!) or a technology delay when paying, or what have you.

If not for client comfort and discretion, do it for the sake of taking time to clean (yourself, your place), food/drink breaks, rest, and importantly, time to respond to texts that a true professional would not be paying any attention to during the last appointment. Sometimes you only have time to respond to a question and say “I’m starting my next appointment in 10 mins. If I miss your reply while I’m working, I’ll get back to you after I free up.” A lot of times the client texts 15 mins later but it’s ok because they know to expect a reply after you finish your current meeting.

[polythome]

I read this thread earlier but little did I know that I'd be contributing my own experience this soon...

I just came from a "massage + extra" appointment with someone who appears to be relatively popular at Hunqz and who was only in town for the weekend. Prior to the appointment, he was ok responsive and I found that his responses to questions were mostly terse but clearly towards the direction of cementing the booking. At face value, we agreed on 90 mins and a definition of extras (which I thought included him finishing in my mouth). Our initial agreement was for 7PM; he texted me around 5:45PM to ask if we could push it to 7:30PM which I was ok with. I finally got to the address (which ended up being a small 3-star hotel) at around 7:35PM - I texted him when I was close and he said it will take him 10 more mins and that he's also walking.

I basically just hung out in the street on my phone but peeking every now and then and thought I'd saw him open his hotel window and take a peek (shirtless). This was now around 7:45PM and I'm sure he saw me (the street was quiet and I was the only one hanging around) but he probably didn't think I saw him. A few minutes after an older gay-presenting couple exited the hotel and one of them started smoking. So much for discreteness - I could definitely recognize their faces. And if they'd care to guess, I'm sure they could also pick-up on what I was waiting for -- if I was a regular hotel guest, they'd think I'll just enter my room regularly.

A few minutes later, he texted me saying that I can come in - he even had the faux pas of asking if I was already at the first floor of the hotel (he didn't even tell me which floor he was in) and that he was just showering. Ended up entering and meeting him in the room and he gave me the excuse that he was sweaty from "cycling" to see some event in town.

My guy was tall, hot and spoke English but not super well (i.e. won't pick up the nuances; but I kinda expected this). So I brought up the topic of extras before we began and he seemed to get most of them but shied away from the finishing in my mouth topic and said it might be "difficult" for him. As for the session itself, it was good but the massage was passable but not great (and particularly since my last session a couple of weeks back was with a very good masseur) and he was committed to the erotic stuff, mechanical but he did his part. He also had a huge, Brazilian-level XXXL dick. Other than the timing of it and the weird stuff at the beginning, my only qualms was I wanted him to cum in my mouth but he wouldn't and, unfortunately, my mind goes straight to his previous session which did give the weird feeling of "sloppy seconds". Before leaving and paying, he did get that I was disappointed and was ok with me not paying him for the full extra - he was at least honest and I felt like he wanted to atone for the weirdness around the transition between customers.

Some lingering questions:
1. Still not sure on whether to do a repeat session with him when he's back in town (he says he travels to my city every month or so): on the one hand, he's hot and I'd still like to get the full experience (with him finishing in my mouth 😅); on the other hand, if I look critically at the session, I'd rather get more quality service and explore others
2. Curious if the old couple (whom I presume had a back-to-back massage sessions individually) got hurried out of their sessions as well. Assuming they started at 6pm, both were barely ushered out at 7:50pm. If that was the case, maybe they also got sub-standard service