JosephMartinezX Took Sharp Turn South at the 11th Hour

[jusmeinbr]

Eight days ago, I reached out to Joseph MartinezX because I would be in Houston today.

Our correspondence was very straightforward, professional and succinct.  
 

In less than four (4) minutes of texting, we agreed to meet today, and I gave him the name and address of the hotel at which I would be staying (I’m here now).  He quoted a rate of $300 for an hour, and we agreed to firm up the time the day before.  We easily did that yesterday and set 6 p.m. as the time.

 

At 5:00 p.m. (45 minutes ago), he sends this text (please bear in mind he’s had the hotel address for eight days!!):

 

“hey.  
I didn’t see that you are about an hour ish away from me I would have to leave now to get there by 6. I would have to charge a travel fee and would have to take a deposit of 100 before I head that way so the total for our session would be 400”

My reply back:

“Well, thanks for responding fast on our prior communications.  With this added development, we can just go ahead and call it off.  No big deal.”

His reply back:

“i can just waive the travel fee if it’s too much but regardless I would need a deposit of 100 before I head over for gas and as a guarantee incase you change your mind as I’m on the way there cause you are a bit away”

My reply back:

“Sorry.  I NEVER send any deposit beforehand.  Like I said, it’s not that big of a deal.  I was in Houston anyway, so I’m out nothing, and I don’t see any way you and I could have an enjoyable encounter after this exchange.  Again, thank you for responding promptly when I first initiated contact with you.”

His reply back:

“Okay well next time stay closer to Houston.  You’re not in Houston your (sic) in cypress.”

My final text to him:

“The address CLEARLY says Houston, and you’ve had that address for eight days.  There’s not going to be a next time where it concerns us though.”

Just providing this post since the only other post on him is too old for comments to be posted.

[+ azdr0710]

with multiple RM reviews and more than three years at this gig, one would think he has this planning/logistics thing figured out!.......but he's 22 and still may not think more than an hour ahead in his life.......or he waited until you were hot and horny in anticipation to drop the deposit request........the eight days to go over the hotel location, though, is inexcusable.......

Cypress is an unincorporated community in Harris County, Texas, United States, located completely inside the extraterritorial jurisdiction of the City of Houston. The Cypress area is located along U.S. Route 290 (Northwest Freeway) is twenty-four miles (35 km) northwest of Downtown Houston. The Cypress urban cluster ranks 50th in the top 100 highest-income urban areas in the United States.

Large scale residential and commercial development beginning in the 1980s transformed the once rural area into one of the Houston area's largest suburban communities. If it were to be incorporated as a city, it would be the second largest city in Greater Houston.

Edited September 5 by azdr0710

[jusmeinbr]

30 minutes ago, azdr0710 said:

he waited until you were hot and horny in anticipation to drop the deposit request.

That’s exactly what my thought was!
 

 I will admit that I was looking forward to it, but I have in my own RentMen profile (and I’ve found that profile greatly accelerates the process because I itemize the specific things I seek — every escort I’ve met has said they are EASY to fulfill with a few even calling me a “dream client”) that it’s, “rare for me to find what I’m looking for anymore (used to be relatively easy), but that doesn’t stop me from looking.”  
 

Maybe he (or in concert with his partner since he says he has one for play together or separate) decided he could play up that disclosure and up the price since I didn’t hesitate to agree to $300, but as I said in the texts to him, “it’s no big deal.”

I do find it ironic, however, that with 13 minutes left of what was supposed to be our time together, he’s had the green light of being available on since we ended our correspondence, and remains on now.

[steve10025]

1 hour ago, jusmeinbr said:

That’s exactly what my thought was!
 

 I will admit that I was looking forward to it, but I have in my own RentMen profile (and I’ve found that profile greatly accelerates the process because I itemize the specific things I seek — every escort I’ve met has said they are EASY to fulfill with a few even calling me a “dream client”) that it’s, “rare for me to find what I’m looking for anymore (used to be relatively easy), but that doesn’t stop me from looking.”  
 

Maybe he (or in concert with his partner since he says he has one for play together or separate) decided he could play up that disclosure and up the price since I didn’t hesitate to agree to $300, but as I said in the texts to him, “it’s no big deal.”

I do find it ironic, however, that with 13 minutes left of what was supposed to be our time together, he’s had the green light of being available on since we ended our correspondence, and remains on now.

I'm curious about why you think it's getting harder to find what you're looking for these days. Do you think escorts are getting ruder, less adept at communicating, or is it something else? Just curious.

[robberbaron4u]

6 minutes ago, steve10025 said:

I'm curious about why you think it's getting harder to find what you're looking for these days. Do you think escorts are getting ruder, less adept at communicating, or is it something else? Just curious.

The market is saturated with novice "escorts" who have not a clue as to the how and the why and the where to for of the thing other than "money on the table".

[jusmeinbr]

2 minutes ago, steve10025 said:

I'm curious about why you think it's getting harder to find what you're looking for these days. Do you think escorts are getting ruder, less adept at communicating, or is it something else? Just curious.

 

It’s a fair question, and I don’t mind answering at all.

What I seek is the clean-cut, NON-TATTOOED, and non-smoking provider.  Tattoos alone rule out about 70% of the providers with ads.

I take on a VERY subservient role in an encounter with me having the mental state in my mind that I’m “lucky” to even be in the same room with the provider, who spanks me (I have supply of paddles and straps), I worship his feet, and he sits on my face.

I make it clear in my own profile that I only seek those three activities, and that I will “take care of things on my own afterward.”

My dream partner in the last few years has been Dimitryy, and it was my goal to be able to travel to him anytime he was within a nine-hour or so drive from my South Louisiana home, but he has gone to Albania, and his ad has expired.  I hope he comes back, but that’s out of my control.

At any rate, I cannot create that subservient mentality unless the above characteristics are present, and it’s rare to find that anymore.  JosephMartinezX did, fit the criteria, but you see what ultimately unfolded.

[steve10025]

Thanks for the detailed answer J, I appreciate it. I also have trouble finding what I'm looking for - I'm looking for a young boyish masculine non-tattooed non-smoking escort who's kind, smart (not necessarily college-educated, those are two different things), interesting, up for some real conversation, as well as a good top who's into what he's doing. A hard ask!

[steve10025]

Actually I could deal with a tattoo if all my other criteria were met ...

[jusmeinbr]

Just now, steve10025 said:

Thanks for the detailed answer J, I appreciate it. I also have trouble finding what I'm looking for - I'm looking for a young boyish masculine non-tattooed non-smoking escort who's kind, smart (not necessarily college-educated, those are two different things), interesting, up for some real conversation, as well as a good top who's into what he's doing. A hard ask!

Well, I see you can totally relate!  From 2003 (when I first started hiring) through about 2013, there were plenty of guys with those characteristics, and I am being conservative to say I met with at least 50 of them in that span, and would frequently find one so appealing that I would meet with him at least twice a month.  Starting around 2013, however, it became harder and harder to find such providers, and now, as you indicate, it’s a hard ask.

[jusmeinbr]

2 minutes ago, steve10025 said:

Actually I could deal with a tattoo if all my other criteria were met ...

I can (and have) dealt with smaller tattoos someplace like the ankle, but many of these providers have tattooed a large percentage of their bodies.  Perhaps it was (is) the Justin Bieber craze (and ironically I thought he was hot too pre-tattoo).

[+ Pensant]

I’d also think even young providers would appreciate your straightforward requirements. Perhaps you could have had the provider in question come over anyway, with the deposit sent, and experienced an even more intense slapping and beating since you annoyed him.