marylander1940 Posted September 8 Share Posted September 8 44 minutes ago, DrownedBoy said: It also applies to lesser items. For instance, I've had an escort threaten that he could use my texts to him could get me in trouble. Dude, the cops are not going to scroll over pages of texts just because some guy walks into the station and claims he's a male prostitute and has a grudge against a John 😄 Although that's something that could be done while eating donuts Whippoorwill, soloyo215, thomas and 1 other 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nate_sf Posted September 8 Share Posted September 8 As a provider, I tell my husband about each appointment and where I'm going. Part of this is for safety, and part of it is just communicating to him what I'm up to. He used to be a provider himself so he gets it. At the end of the appointment I text him to let him know I'm on my way home, and if he doesn't hear from me he'll send a text to see if everything is OK. Fortunately I've never had something happen like what @Vin Marco describes. Yikes! + DrownedBoy, Beancounter and Vin Marco 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vin Marco Posted September 8 Share Posted September 8 @nate_sf Years ago in San Francisco, in Pacific Heights ( was one of my first appointments ) I met a really wonderful guy that I still see currently that prepared a fabulous multi course dinner... Beluga caviar from the Caspian Sea, many wonderful appetizers, entrées and loads of all kinds of spectacular courses including dessert, but because it was my first time meeting him I told him I had just eaten, and I was completely full. I was completely full of shit, I was starving, but I was mortified and certain I was going to be drugged, chopped up and put in a crawl space... a few visits later I confessed, and he laughed, but ultimately he completely understood where I was coming from. Needless to say, I never again turned down anything he prepared and I still do not turn down anything he prepares. I adore him and I trust him implicitly. 🥰 mike carey, thomas, BonVivant and 4 others 2 2 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
liubit Posted September 9 Share Posted September 9 15 hours ago, nate_sf said: I tell my husband about each appointment and where I'm going. Part of this is for safety, and part of it is just communicating to him what I'm up to. I do the same when I go meet a provider, and my husband also tells me when he plays. We do it for the same reasons that @nate_sf points out. nate_sf 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DMICS Posted September 9 Share Posted September 9 I never have, but it's something I may have to think about moving forward. I usually host at my place or at a hotel. For the most part I generally hire well-reputable guys so I've haven't had any scary incidents. I also think my appearance helps, people I meet in my day-to-day life always say I appear intimidating. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arnie Posted September 10 Share Posted September 10 No but I only use providers with a solid history on rentmen so I have no worries. marylander1940 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TonyDown Posted Saturday at 05:41 PM Share Posted Saturday at 05:41 PM (edited) On 9/7/2024 at 11:02 AM, Vin Marco said: I guess you never read about or heard about the escort that was tied up for EIGHT hours before he was set on fire with gasoline. Well no I did not. 🤣🤣🤣 Do you have a link? A client in Florida was murdered by a provider's boyfriend. The BF was the jealous type with anger issues. You can find it if you Google Aaron Michael Dobbins. The client's hands were tied behind his back and was shot in the back of the head. Took years to solve the murder. But yeah I see no benefit telling anyone about a massage appointment. Wouldn't prevent anything. Yes, you could leave some breadcrumbs for the police to follow if you go missing. Clients that want to be dominated, tied up, slapped around or book 4 hand might think more about doing so. I try sticking with really sweet masseurs. ❤️ Edited Saturday at 06:09 PM by TonyDown Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vin Marco Posted Saturday at 07:01 PM Share Posted Saturday at 07:01 PM (edited) 1 hour ago, TonyDown said: Well no I did not. 🤣🤣🤣 Do you have a link? I can't find the horrific and agonizing death that took place subject for humor. Edited Saturday at 07:02 PM by Vin Marco Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MuscleDaddyRWC Posted Saturday at 08:47 PM Share Posted Saturday at 08:47 PM I have a very good friend that also hires and we text each other the providers link/info before an appointment. Then after we do a kind of mini review. We tend to have the same taste in men and have overlapped providers. (My husband and I both hire and strangely have never shared info like this!) I don't think I've ever given thought to the dangers, but I guess it's good to know where the authorities can start looking if something ever were to happen to us. Vin Marco and coriolis888 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted Saturday at 09:07 PM Share Posted Saturday at 09:07 PM On 9/10/2024 at 2:41 AM, arnie said: No but I only use providers with a solid history on rentmen so I have no worries. Exactly hiring from rentmen it's not Russian roulette like hiring from the old Craigslist... coriolis888 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ BobPS Posted Saturday at 11:23 PM Share Posted Saturday at 11:23 PM (edited) In the past, I would leave a big note on my kitchen table saying something like John Jones 611 Pine St., Philadelphia, September 12, 2024 6:30 PM phone : 215-925-XXXX. With the trail texts leave, I no longer feel that is necessary. Lately, I’ve only been seeing one provider. I trust him absolutely and I don’t tell anyone when I’m seeing him. Regarding being roofied, (sp?), unfortunately, it is it has happened to friends of mine one friend in particular. I was not there. Fortunately he was with other good friends who figured out quickly exactly what happened and took care of him. Never let your drink out of your sight and if you’re going to dance , etc. have a friend watch it for you or take it with you on the dance floor! Another friend invited someone to his house and the person put something into my friend’s drink, my friend passed out for God knows how long and the person who drugged him stole items, including tax returns, etc.which had my friends Social Security number and DOB. My friend became a victim of identity theft. I’m very cautious as to whom I invite into my home .Be careful out there! Edited Saturday at 11:31 PM by BobPS Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ nycman Posted Sunday at 01:16 AM Share Posted Sunday at 01:16 AM 1 hour ago, BobPS said: 611 Pine St., Philadelphia, Wait…I think that was MY address in Philly. That was you? Vin Marco, + BobPS, + DrownedBoy and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ DrownedBoy Posted Sunday at 04:59 PM Share Posted Sunday at 04:59 PM (edited) 23 hours ago, TonyDown said: You can find it if you Google Aaron Michael Dobbins. The client's hands were tied behind his back and was shot in the back of the head. Took years to solve the murder. More dangerous for escorts. We executed Gacy 30 years ago, and every so often, Chicago police match another one of his "unidentified victims" with a missing young man via DNA. Back in the 70s, cops didn't care much about missing young gay guys, let alone escorts. They didn't even investigate him until he kidnapped a local high school honors student. Edited Sunday at 05:18 PM by DrownedBoy clarify Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
misterhumphries Posted Sunday at 07:06 PM Share Posted Sunday at 07:06 PM On 9/6/2024 at 11:07 PM, starman05 said: You know, just in case. I want to see someone but a little voice in my head is saying let someone know where you’ll be No. I rely on intuition and being observant. I always let the head above my shoulders do my thinking no matter how delicious an escort might look or how enticing his profile might read. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
starman05 Posted Monday at 03:25 AM Author Share Posted Monday at 03:25 AM 8 hours ago, misterhumphries said: No. I rely on intuition and being observant. I always let the head above my shoulders do my thinking no matter how delicious an escort might look or how enticing his profile might read. This site and its reviews have been invaluable in helping me not make mistakes. I also listen to my head and use intuition. I have not read a single bad review of this masseur I have my eye on i need to believe there are some good things out there Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
coriolis888 Posted Monday at 03:56 AM Share Posted Monday at 03:56 AM 26 minutes ago, starman05 said: i need to believe there are some good things out there Yes, there are some good things out there. Some, being the important word. While it is true that most escorts are not dangerous, unfortunately, there are a few bad guys that want to rob or cause harm to clients they engage. Therefore, even though probability is on your side to not have any problems, it is not a big issue to leave a note or message to let your friends know where you went, just in case. starman05 and MikeBiDude 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
starman05 Posted Monday at 04:01 AM Author Share Posted Monday at 04:01 AM 3 minutes ago, coriolis888 said: Yes, there are some good things out there. Some, being the important word. While it is true that most escorts are not dangerous, unfortunately, there are a few bad guys that want to rob or cause harm to clients they engage. Therefore, even though probability is on your side to not have any problems, it is not a big issue to leave a note or message to let your friends know where you went, just in case. Thank you. this is a masseur who has multiple positive reviews he checks all my boxes and I’m going to see him soon just in case, I’ll let a pal know where I’m going. thank you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
la_connor Posted Tuesday at 02:03 AM Share Posted Tuesday at 02:03 AM I follow a system I saw on Daddy's. A friend and I share our phone locations with each other. We also share the contact details of our providers. Before a new meet, text "fun". Afterward, text "done". I hope the providers do likewise. MikeBiDude 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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