More mixed Messages on Rentmasseur

[PileDriver]

once again thwarter this morning by a massage guy on Rentmasseur...his private picks are of his his hard dick and welcoming ass...but the suggestion that he might provide services more than massage made him recoil and clutch his pearls...still not sure sure if this is my problem or the providers problem...maybe a Rentmasseur problem? Ban all those images or if you allow them also let providers know that here is a 'risk' lol...or maybe there is no answer...

[Capitano]

You can just send him a message saying that you are sorry if you offended him and tell him that his pix made you believe that he was open for more than massage. You can also add that there is nothing wrong with providing escorting services.

Then it will be up to him to learn or not.

Or you can block him back if he blocked you and leave it at that. People are people, and you can't fix everyone.

[Moke]

Name and link?

[StarQualityLuke]

14 minutes ago, Capitano said:

You can just send him a message saying that you are sorry if you offended him and tell him that his pix made you believe that he was open for more than massage. You can also add that there is nothing wrong with providing escorting services.

Then it will be up to him to learn or not.

Or you can block him back if he blocked you and leave it at that. People are people, and you can't fix everyone.

That was said perfectly! 

[la_connor]

That can be a frustrating experience! 

Like @PileDriverI assume that whatever is in the private pictures will be available in person.  

Unfortunately, this is a grey market. In some jurisdictions some of the services we hope to buy are illegal and/or stigmatized. The provider bears most of the risks. 

Unless a provider has been endorsed on this forum by people I trust, I don't mention what we all want until the provider and I are alone. 

Sometimes I leave unsatisfied, but trust and respect work both ways. 

[Wolfer]

It happens. I once contacted a masseur who explicitly mentioned in his ad that he offered an erotic massage with him in the nude, mutual touch and happy ending. When I enquired about it he said he didn't offer those services and it was therapeutic only. When I pointed out it was in his profile he flew off the handle and blocked me. Go figure.

It is frustrating, especially in a case like yours, but I've found there's very little (if anything) you can do about it other than to politely communicate why you asked in the first place and perhaps suggest they should change the pictures if they are uncomfortable about getting these types of enquiry.

I once contacted an erotic masseur who mentioned he was versatile in his ad. He told me that he didn't do anal. I then suggested he change the field in his profile to "no anal" as I had specifically filtered for masseurs who offered anal (this was a different site than Rentmasseur, if he'd put "no anal" he wouldn't have come up in my search). To his merit, he did change his profile. 

I've seen it other places too: a guy on Twitter will constantly post pictures of his huge dick, making everything about him about his dick and then get angry at his followers for... Asking about his dick.

It honestly is so puzzling to me... 

[starman05]

3 hours ago, Capitano said:

You can just send him a message saying that you are sorry if you offended him and tell him that his pix made you believe that he was open for more than massage. You can also add that there is nothing wrong with providing escorting services.

Then it will be up to him to learn or not.

Or you can block him back if he blocked you and leave it at that. People are people, and you can't fix everyone.

there is such power in calmly explaining why you came to the conclusion you did and you were merely inquiring; great response. thank you