Different Rates for Different Clients

[marylander1940]

On 10/11/2024 at 6:53 PM, ApexNomad said:

It’s all about the guy and the moment. I love some musk and sweat during sex; it adds to the heat! 😉 

You're in the minority! Most gay men like men to be clean. 

On 10/11/2024 at 10:47 PM, Thelatin said:

Gross.

I wouldn't go that far but I would suggest a shower. 

 

[marylander1940]

Back to subject: I would only recommend an escort to give a discount to most doable clients (HWP, younger, clean, easygoing) after a first meeting! Some potential clients misrepresent themselves when it comes to age, body type, etc.

Edited Friday at 10:02 PM by marylander1940

[Monarchy79]

On 10/12/2024 at 1:40 AM, ShortCutie7 said:

People don’t always have control over these things. For example, if I’m going to an appointment after work, it’s not physically possible to be shower-fresh upon arrival.  That said, I would absolutely not be offended if asked to shower (and may even request one if available).

Anyway, I do often wonder if the rates I get quoted are lower or higher due to my stats, but unfortunately it’s nearly impossible to gauge if I am a provider’s “type”, which would make for a better session, anyway.

 

But you DO have control. Manage your schedule, where it makes availability to shower. 
 

if it’s “after work”, then hit the gym after work, use their showers and then you’ll be able to show up clean and presentable. 
 

But by no means show up ripe and unclean. 

[Pd1_jap]

If I find out I'm paying a higher rate from one of my providers then I will no longer see that provider. 

Edited Saturday at 05:28 AM by Pd1_jap

[ApexNomad]

6 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

You're in the minority! Most gay men like men to be clean. 

I wouldn't go that far but I would suggest a shower. 

 

Let me be in the minority then! Like I said, initial hygiene matters. This guy showed up, showered, clean, happens to be in shape—if he’s sweating after pounding my ass for two hours straight, good—let him! I’m not going to stop him and let that take away from our moment. I’ll take him as is from the second that moment starts, just like he’s taking me!

[+ ThroatCummer]

I think we can all differentiate between fresh sweat and unclean/odor.   

[ShortCutie7]

4 hours ago, Monarchy79 said:

But you DO have control. Manage your schedule, where it makes availability to shower. 
 

if it’s “after work”, then hit the gym after work, use their showers and then you’ll be able to show up clean and presentable. 
 

But by no means show up ripe and unclean. 

I do manage my schedule; that’s why my appointments have either been in the morning or on a day off.  I’m not saying it’s ok to show up unclean; I’m saying that if someone does show up unclean, it’s probably not due to them being generally unhygienic, and is more likely to be circumstantial.  We have to give people benefit of the doubt.

ETA: to be clear, I am not making excuses for myself; I have only ever had two appointments and arrived squeaky clean to both.  It’s just one of my pet peeves when people have unrealistic expectations of others.

Edited Saturday at 06:52 AM by ShortCutie7
ETA

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

8 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

Back to subject: I would only recommend an escort to give a discount to most doable clients (HWP, younger, clean, easygoing) after a first meeting! Some potential clients misrepresent themselves when it comes to age, body type, etc.

Although I've not seen an escort advertise discounts for Hispanic White People (HWP), I have seen several escorts advertise they only see clients over age 50.  A great massuer I found only advertises in Growlr, because he only wants to work on larger-built men.

But 99% charge the same price to everyone for first time encounters, and don't ask what I look like or how old I am or if I am a Hispanic White Person.

[blck37]

My main regular has no fix rate for me....its just lets workout a figure suits us both. All bookings are 4h minimum. 

[56harrisond]

11 hours ago, cany10011 said:

I can’t imagine kissing someone who just ate Cheetos. I love Cheetos and only eat them when using chopsticks so i don’t dirty my fingers. 

Chopsticks would work well. Could also consider:

https://www.amazon.com/Non-Stick-Fingers-Finger-Protectors-Protection/dp/B08M5G86CD

[Just Chuck]

The availability of "Dude Wipes Singles" makes showing up smelly unforgivable.  If I think I even have a remote chance of a date, I throw one of those in my pocket.  It only takes a couple of minutes to step into a restroom stall and clean up with a disposable wipe.

[+ FrankR]

3 hours ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

Although I've not seen an escort advertise discounts for Hispanic White People (HWP), I have seen several escorts advertise they only see clients over age 50.  A great massuer I found only advertises in Growlr, because he only wants to work on larger-built men.

But 99% charge the same price to everyone for first time encounters, and don't ask what I look like or how old I am or if I am a Hispanic White Person.

HWP = Height/Weight Proportionate

How did you come up with Hispanic White People?? 😆

Edited Saturday at 10:40 AM by FrankR

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

17 minutes ago, FrankR said:

HWP = Height/Weight Proportionate

How did you come up with Hispanic White People?? 😆

The largest demographics in the U.S. Census are Non-Hispanic White and Hispanic White.  I am so accustomed to reading demographic data that I never thought that it would mean something else.

A bigger factor in hiring should be the L/G proportion:  length to girth ratio of the penis.  However, I would much rather play with a man whose total length OR total girth is larger, even it results in an un-proportionate proportion.  After all, who wants to be average? 😉 

Edited Saturday at 10:57 AM by Vegas_Millennial

[56harrisond]

39 minutes ago, FrankR said:

HWP = Height/Weight Proportionate

How did you come up with Hispanic White People?? 😆

I thought HWP was Hard Working People, highway patrol

[Hot4latin]

1 hour ago, FrankR said:

HWP = Height/Weight Proportionate

How did you come up with Hispanic White People?? 😆

 

16 minutes ago, 56harrisond said:

I thought HWP was Hard Working People, highway patrol

Harris Walz Politicos?

[Petrolhead]

My friend told me he charges the same rate regardless of age/stats. and he’s up front and if they aren’t  a match that it won’t work. 

 

[+ FrankR]

29 minutes ago, Hot4latin said:

 

Harris Walz Politicos?

I recommend an election detox. Switch to porn and avoid news channels for a month! 😆

[marylander1940]

1 hour ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

The largest demographics in the U.S. Census are Non-Hispanic White and Hispanic White.  I am so accustomed to reading demographic data that I never thought that it would mean something else.

A bigger factor in hiring should be the L/G proportion:  length to girth ratio of the penis.  However, I would much rather play with a man whose total length OR total girth is larger, even it results in an un-proportionate proportion.  After all, who wants to be average? 😉 

 

39 minutes ago, Hot4latin said:

 

Harris Walz Politicos?

 

56 minutes ago, 56harrisond said:

I thought HWP was Hard Working People, highway patrol

 

 

Urban Dictionary: HWP

WWW.URBANDICTIONARY.COM

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Height Weight Proportional this acronym is often used in personal ads.

 

[marylander1940]

23 minutes ago, Petrolhead said:

My friend told me he charges the same rate regardless of age/stats. and he’s up front and if they aren’t  a match that it won’t work. 

 

Most escorts do that but I wouldn't be surprised some might give doable / easygoing clients a discount to keep them coming more often

Edited Saturday at 12:36 PM by marylander1940

[BaronArtz]

On 10/8/2024 at 9:12 AM, jackcali said:

When meeting someone at a club or bar, I found that I got quoted consistently higher rates when I was wearing a suit and tie than when I was wearing jeans and a tennis shirt.  

Interesting!  Which clubs or bars do you go to?

There were a few bars in NYC where clients met escorts, Rounds, Cats, Stella's and others.  But they are long gone.  I miss those days.  And yes, you were quoted different prices bases on appearance and based on how late it was.

 

Edited Saturday at 02:10 PM by BaronArtz

[+ José Soplanucas]

If a client paid a rate he found fair, and he left happy and satisfied, why should he care about what others are charged? 

[Thelatin]

16 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

You're in the minority! Most gay men like men to be clean. 

I wouldn't go that far but I would suggest a shower. 

 

Yeah, I'm strange that way.  I want clean sheets, the smell of nice bleached white towels, and a good cologne.  

[marylander1940]

5 minutes ago, Thelatin said:

Yeah, I'm strange that way.  I want clean sheets, the smell of nice bleached white towels, and a good cologne.  

I think you misread my post. 

I am in the "clean team" too but no cologne please.

[jackcali]

48 minutes ago, BaronArtz said:

Interesting!  Which clubs or bars do you go to?

There were a few bars in NYC where clients met escorts, Rounds, Cats, Stella's and others.  But they are long gone.  I miss those days.  And yes, you were quoted different prices bases on appearance and based on how late it was.

 

Yes, those bars are long gone, for good or bad.  I am well past the age of going to clubs and it's been years since I've worn suits, haha, but the "how much money does he have" analysis going on in a provider's head was pretty obvious.  That's just good marketing, I guess.

I never thought about whether how late it was had an impact on price, but I'm not a night owl so I was more likely to be offered the early-bird special than the late-night discount. 

[+ DrownedBoy]

4 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

Most escorts do that but I wouldn't be surprised some might give doable / easygoing clients a discount to keep them coming more often

Yes, but also - that's not something an escort would advertise, in case of the "I am going to be a regular" cheapskates.

One reason some regulars, even those who locked my price in, are leaving it is because I'm not worried about anal, etc., and just smacking a person around isn't a hard or even necessarily an unpleasant experience.

Escorts may offer discounts, but they keep it between themselves and select clients. That's why I don't name names here.