Hiring masseurs?

[McKeeD]

I feel so silly asking this…

So I’ve been thinking about hiring my first masseur; however, I am unaware of the “protocol” (for lack of a better word) in contacting them. Moreover, there are some providers where I’d love the massage and a “happy ending” afterwards (because of their extraordinary equipment) and others where a really good, deep massage would be just fine.

Is there a way I should phrase my request when reaching out? I most certainly would never want to offend due my own lack of knowledge and undue diligence on my part.

[jmichaeliii]

1 hour ago, McKeeD said:

I feel so silly asking this…

So I’ve been thinking about hiring my first masseur; however, I am unaware of the “protocol” (for lack of a better word) in contacting them. Moreover, there are some providers where I’d love the massage and a “happy ending” afterwards (because of their extraordinary equipment) and others where a really good, deep massage would be just fine.

Is there a way I should phrase my request when reaching out? I most certainly would never want to offend due my own lack of knowledge and undue diligence on my part.

First thing is read reviews and look at their profile pictures.  Many times you can get a feel if there are extras..not always though.  I have been very pleasantly surprised a few times with very vanilla profiles!

Simply ask.  I'd message and say you read his profile and are interested in meeting.   Can you tell me the services you offer and your rates.

You may or may not get the answer you are looking for with that.  Some will give you a menu, a rate with no additional detail, or something very detailed.  Just come right out an ask at that point.

Just don't be a time waster with questions.  Be to the point and specific.  If you start veering all over the place, you will likely get blown off.

[phil_hunter]

I'm a newbie, but I think the key is to look for the option/service called "Erotic Massage." That's what's used on rentmen.com and rentmasseur.com. Then read the profiles and reviews to see whether they're primarily a masseur who gives happy endings versus an escort who does some massage. Also, here on companyofmen.org, go to Daddy's Den > The Deli and search for the provider's name to see whether anyone here has commented on them. If not, you can always ask about them by creating a post called "411 on <provider>", where 411 is shorthand for "information." I've found that the people are responsive, friendly, and supportive. When you find a provider who looks good, send them a text or email, as @McKeeD said, and have a direct conversation.

(I'm seeing my first masseur tomorrow!)

[Jamie21]

If he advertises as doing erotic or sensual massage then you can safely assume he’ll offer at least a happy ending, probably more. If he advertises as therapeutic only then best not to ask about sexual elements. 

I prefer it when clients ask for exactly what they want. My advertising is clear I think that I offer sexual services but some clients still seem anxious to ask in case it offends me! Honestly it doesn’t offend me (nothing does, I’ve heard it all). I prefer it when clients are clear about what they want. if it’s something I wouldn’t want to include then I’ll just say ‘sorry I don’t do that’. No problem! 

 

[rvwnsd]

When I am looking for an erotic massage I ask for one. (e.g. "Hi, [name of masseur], I see you offer erotic massage and I'd like to know more about that and book one. ") Nine times out of ten we have a discussion about what that might entail. 

[simongayx]

I look carefully at the reviews on rentmasseur, and will only approach a guy who has a significant number of 5 star recommendations.   I also ask whether the massage is done on a table -- my preference.   If they say that they use the bed, then that is an immediate signal that they have little massage experience or skill.   I also ask about nudity -- him and me.  That is also a good indication of how sensual/erotic the experience will be.   Some masseurs will respond that they will keep their shorts on, and that's his choice, but you want to know in advance.