Do body parts matter when it comes to hiring? 🍆🍑body face?

[marylander1940]

No need to drag a thread about a guy to a different subject.

I'm usually into the whole package but I must admit I've had sex with guys who didn't have an attractive face or who had dad bods/beefy because of other attributes like dick, bubble butt, etc. What they do in bed and how interactive they arere is a whole different thing for sure. 

Do we make concessions because we like something specific from someone and not the rest or do we prefer the whole package?

 

[marylander1940]

On 10/12/2024 at 2:49 PM, pubic_assistance said:

JAGGER RAMBO...MAY HAVE THE WORLDS PERFECT CO*K

Always so much excitement over the size of a man's penis.

 

 

 

On 10/12/2024 at 2:52 PM, Whatsupandstuff said:

not always..but perhaps sometimes...but its pretty perfect you gotta admit

 

On 10/12/2024 at 3:21 PM, edinbrooklyn said:

I find these face masked porn pieces to be a huge turn off and appallingly retrograde. 

 

22 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

Do I ?

Is it ?

Personally, I've never really understood sexual obsession with body parts.

Does nothing for me. I'm a big picture person. Face/body/voice/smell/personalty are my triggers.

But I notice a lot of gay men will look past all of that if you've got a big fat cock.

 

 

22 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

You don't have to understand it, I guess you like the whole package, but some tops have a preference for muscular butts while some bottoms prefer big cocks over and might pick a guy based on that. Based on that they would make "concessions" in order to get what turns them on the most. 

I don't mind a guy who's beefy or dad bod if he has a cute face and a nice butt while others would only like him if he has a six pack.

To each his own. 

 

 

22 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

I get that everyone has different tastes and a cute guy with a great butt is one of mine.

I'm just always baffled by the number of men who talk about how "perfect" someone is simply because they have a big fat cock.

These things for me are icing on the cake. I need the person themselves to be attractive first.

 

20 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

You shouldn't be baffled. Maybe that's what they're attracted to, and for them 90% of how a guy looks will be determined by that part of his body no matter his age, body type, ethnicity, etc.

 

2 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

Yet. Here I am pondering away.

I have straight friends who love a big set of tits. But I've never seen them oggle some ugly chick just because she's got huge hits. Gays on the other hand seem to overlook everything else and worship on their knees for a big fat cock. No matter what it's attached to.

 

 

1 hour ago, maninsoma said:

Not all gay men are size queens.  Some gay men look at "the whole package."  But it's clear that some guys just care about cocks or the first glory hole wouldn't have been created. 

 

31 minutes ago, KensingtonHomo said:

I guess we know different straight guys because I've known many who will ogle big boobs without regard to who they're attached to. I find that many gay guys are obsessed with bodies (muscular, athletic, twinks) over facial beauty of cock size. 

Similar to you, I'm about the total package. I don't even get dick pics because a disembodied penis does nothing for me. I also don't get the excitement over someone with a 10" or larger dicker. It's challenging to give a guy that hung head. It's also far larger than needed for anal sex. Most rectums are about 6" deep, so anything longer than that is hitting the anal canal, and possibly the sigmoid colon. 

 

[+ sync]

For me it's the legs.  When I see thick, shapely legs, I'm in.  Specifically, calves that are thick at the ankles then expand then taper back inwardly to the knee, then thighs that expand with hamstring development that bulges at the back of the thigh and taper back inwardly to a tight butt.

If the legs are also nicely hairy and the man is smoking hot, no harm done:

[ApexNomad]

When I look for providers, I admit I usually prefer men who are taller and bigger than me. I reach out to a provider because I want to feel protected and safe for various reasons—not the least of which is that my job is really demanding and stressful, and honestly, I often feel alone. I tend to get that sense of security from men with a larger frame or body mass; that’s just my preference. I’ve also been with men who had huge cocks, but it often hurt—not because of size alone, but because they weren’t attentive or skilled as a top. For me, dick size doesn’t matter—what really counts is that the provider is engaged, present, and not detached. A lack of connection is a total turn-off.

There’s a premium in life for being attractive; it just is what it is. And in gay culture, having a huge dick can open doors and get you further than most. However, I believe looks fade over time, and I’ve found that the most meaningful and memorable experiences come from moments where true human connections are formed.

When I’m not hiring, when I’m in a serious relationship, I find that the “whole package” encompasses the qualities a man brings to the table—his personality, values, kindness, and how we connect on a deeper level. (I still like men who are a little bigger than me.) LOL I love smiles; there’s just something incredibly attractive about a genuine personality in a man. You’d be surprised by the number of men who have an aversion to smiling. When someone’s smile reflects their true self and warmth, it’s incredibly appealing. That kind of authenticity stands out to me far more than just physical attributes—it creates an instant and lasting connection.

[pubic_assistance]

4 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

I don't even get dick pics because a disembodied penis does nothing for me. I also don't get the excitement over someone with a 10" or larger dicker. It's challenging to give a guy that hung head.

On this we definitely agree.

I can't begin to tell you the number of men who hit me up on Grindr, starting with a message that is nothing but a photo of a penis. I find this completely baffling. As if a dick-pic is going  to entice me enough to not notice that the rest of you is (probably) pretty blah.

Edited Monday at 06:56 PM by pubic_assistance
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[MikeBiDude]

Face is important to me, decent physique, usually smooth(er) vs. hirsute (open minded there), endowment is way down the list for me, just not necessary. Personality and attitude can override any of the above to the 10th power 😉

[marylander1940]

22 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

On this we definitely agree.

I can't begin to tell you the number of men who hit me up on Grindr, starting with a message that is nothing but a photo of a penis. I find this completely baffling. As if a dick-pic is going  to entice me enough to not notice that the rest of you is (probably) pretty blah.

In some cases a bottom will pick a guy based in his 🍆 specially if he wants anon ass up sex.

 

[Trick]

I’m open when it comes to looks, sizes, and other aspects.  What I cannot take is poor hygiene and grooming.  Any skin condition, especially acne, is also a turn off for me.

[pubic_assistance]

1 hour ago, marylander1940 said:

specially if he wants anon ass up sex.

How many degrees of low self esteem does one need to allow a random, unseen person to fuck them ? 🤔

Edited Monday at 08:58 PM by pubic_assistance
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[Bokomaru]

I use the following very simple formula. Please possess 2 out of 3 (in any combination): handsome face, nice body, above average dick. 
 

OR, if you have any ONE of those traits in spades (model looks, flawless body, huge cock), the other two simply won’t matter. I’ll be into you. 

[ApexNomad]

1 hour ago, MikeBiDude said:

Face is important to me, decent physique, usually smooth(er) vs. hirsute (open minded there), endowment is way down the list for me, just not necessary. Personality and attitude can override any of the above to the 10th power 😉

A man who uses the word hirsute already gets extra points in my book. 😉

[marylander1940]

9 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

How many degrees of low self esteem does one need to allow a random, unseen person to fuck them ? 🤔

Have you ever been to sex party..... 😂 I know you have!

Believe me.... anon sex happens often, and usually gorgeous guys with amazing bubble butts do it nearby here at the Hilton. I've been told stories and shown pics.

some bottoms require all participants to sign the jockstrap with a mark and keep them as souvenirs.

[pubic_assistance]

18 minutes ago, marylander1940 said:

Have you ever been to sex party..... 😂 I know you have!

I've been to many. But never without seeing who I am with.

[Jamie21]

A big dick goes a long way if you work as a provider or in porn. You need other attributes of course but a big dick definitely helps to make a start.

 

[pubic_assistance]

14 minutes ago, Jamie21 said:

A big dick goes a long way if you work as a provider or in porn. You need other attributes of course but a big dick definitely helps to make a start.

 

Do you think a provider could do well with a huge cock, while being otherwise unattractive ?

[Jamie21]

14 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

Do you think a provider could do well with a huge cock, while being otherwise unattractive ?

Everyone has a market. Understand it, own your identity and be confident. Your market will find you. 

[marylander1940]

1 hour ago, pubic_assistance said:

Do you think a provider could do well with a huge cock, while being otherwise unattractive ?

Oh yes, some people love huge cocks no matter the rest.

[Trick]

2 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

Do you think a provider could do well with a huge cock, while being otherwise unattractive ?

Attractiveness is very subjective.  It goes with the eye of the beholder thing.

[Danny-Darko]

10 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

No need to drag a thread about a guy to a different subject.

I'm usually into the whole package but I must admit I've had sex with guys who didn't have an attractive face or who had dad bods/beefy because of other attributes like dick, bubble butt, etc. What they do in bed and how interactive they arere is a whole different thing for sure. 

Do we make concessions because we like something specific from someone and not the rest or do we prefer the whole package?

 

Sure do! I've been with guys and hired guys just for specific body parts among other things! I have even made some realize that they have something unique with certain aspects about them they didn't even realize! I can't count the times I've made some guy aware of his certain "things/parts" and told "Nobody has ever told me that before!". Focusing on these areas made me first aware of my particular kinks!

[misterhumphries]

11 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

No need to drag a thread about a guy to a different subject.

I'm usually into the whole package but I must admit I've had sex with guys who didn't have an attractive face or who had dad bods/beefy because of other attributes like dick, bubble butt, etc. What they do in bed and how interactive they arere is a whole different thing for sure. 

Do we make concessions because we like something specific from someone and not the rest or do we prefer the whole package?

 

I think making concessions is a part of any human connection. No one can be all things to one person. When I hire, it's for BODY. I tell bodybuilders, I want a muscle man to play with. I don't care about faces or cocks. It's nice if he's got a big one put it's not a deal-breaker. If he claims he's straight or bi --  more power to him BUT I would insist on full access to taste, lick, and suck any muscle that I wrap my lips around.

Now that I think of it, a massive dick does NOTHING for me.. Such men tend to be one-trick ponies (no pun intended). I will suck on a big one,  but to me, men  have SO much more to offer.

Edited Tuesday at 01:50 AM by misterhumphries

[ShortCutie7]

I really don’t give a crap about dick size as long as it gets hard.  It was when I started hooking up that I discovered some parts of the face/body that I am particularly drawn to, but I’m definitely a “whole package” guy, to the extent where I don’t need a lot of information or even see a clear picture of a man’s full face or body to tell if I’ll be attracted to him.

[Danny-Darko]

9 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

Do you think a provider could do well with a huge cock, while being otherwise unattractive ?

Many seem to! RM if full of less than attractive men with huge cocks, and even some who don't have big ones. They obviously have something. Yes, I know "beauty is in the eye of the beholder", but some really make me wonder how they are in business. 

[Danny-Darko]

11 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

How many degrees of low self esteem does one need to allow a random, unseen person to fuck them ? 🤔

Gloryhole sex has been going on forever! Some just don't care. I do have to see who I'm with and if I'm attracted to them. But that's just me. 

[Danny-Darko]

8 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

Oh yes, some people love huge cocks no matter the rest.

Yes, there is lots of porn out there to prove that too! In my cruising days I came across many size queens that only cared about size. 

[Danny-Darko]

11 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

Have you ever been to sex party..... 😂 I know you have!

Believe me.... anon sex happens often, and usually gorgeous guys with amazing bubble butts do it nearby here at the Hilton. I've been told stories and shown pics.

some bottoms require all participants to sign the jockstrap with a mark and keep them as souvenirs.

Yup! I've seen many video clips of those "parties" in hotel rooms on X (Twitter)! I wonder if the guy's you're talking about is one that is famous for that going all over the country? Amazing ass and body I must say! Now which Hilton is that? I wish I could just watch without participating! LOL

Edited Tuesday at 08:18 AM by Danny-Darko