I just started escorting and alreadyHey Guys it's me Dax Mills. I can't believe that I got ripped of

[Guest DaxMills1978]

Hello, let me tell you all my story. I had a client call asking for the rate for my time. I told him 150$$ and he said fine. He asked if it would be possible to "go" twice. I said I was not sure, and in one session I usually go only once. (I'm sure you guys get the drift huh) He offered another 50$$ if I could do it. I said I'd try, but no promises.

so the guy comes and I ask him to show me the money and put it out in the open where it is in plain view. He refuses, and acts very peculiar. I did a little roleplaying gig with him and we did our thing, I did my thing. I was not able to go twice. He was a fairly large man and became irritated and angry. Once he was finished he gets up and quickly put his pants on. I asked him for 150$$ of the 200$$ as was the agreement. He refuses saying that I didn't follow through with the bargain.

I didn't know what to do, this guy gets his way with me, then refuses to pay. I asked him again and he refused. I was infuriated. Obviously, I did not cause problems even though he quickly ducked out of my apartment and left me standing naked, feeling like shit and unpaid. God, I felt horrible. So angry, and at the same time bad for being with someone and having them take advantage of me like that.

I really want to post his phone number to make other escorts aware and able to distinguish the number. What do you all think. :-( ;( :-( ;( :-(

[KY_TOP]

RE: I just started escorting and alreadyHey Guys it's m...

 

Even though most of us clients won't pay up front, I personally do put an envelope with the Escorts name on it in plain sight. I've never done an in call at an Escorts home but would have no problem putting the money in sight. It is unfortunate what happened to you. In the past other Escorts here have told of similiar stories here so I guess you have learned one of the possible down sides to Escorting.

One of the reasons this site exist is to warn clients about Escorts that will rip them off or not deliver what they promised. It would be hard to have the same type of arrangements to review clients. But, that has also been discussed here often.

 

You say you are New to this so I guess that makes it even harder. Don't lose a lot of sleep tonight over it or your anger,,,try to move on. Maybe tomorrow you'll meet a Great client that will give you a big tip.

 

Hopefully some of the other escorts here will relay to you their experiences and give you advice.

[+ deej]

Dax, you were stiffed. The client is the scum of the earth.

 

There *are* resources for you to share his contact information but this isn't one of them. If you post it here, we will likely delete it. (This is one of those times when I'm tempted to suspend the rules, but we really can't.)

 

You were stiffed. Plain and simple.

 

I know of a couple of resources (although I'm not supposed to) where you can share bad news about bad clients. Hopefully one of your fellow escorts will share that information with you. The smartest thing you ever did was include an email address in your profile here so they can contact you privately.

 

You're the Dax from Numbers last week, right? (I was the long-haired guy.)

 

You deserve better treatment, in any case. I'd love to let you expose this jerk here, but we can't. Sorry.

[Guest BenAJ]

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Dax,

Sorry you hear about what happened. Unfortunately, no matter what business you are in, there will always be people like that.

 

Unfortunately, there isn't much you can really do about it. Just a war wound in this business.

 

I will tell you that in exchange you will meet a lot of great clients who will more than make up for it.

 

Hang in there and keep the faith.

[Guest roger]

RE: I just started escorting and alreadyHey Guys it's m...

 

Hey Dax..

 

There's always the wonderful concept of the reverse telephone search, brought to you by http://www.theultimates.com/white/ .

 

R

[guyinsf]

The only advice I would give is to think about your initial conversation with the guy to see if any "red flags" were there from which you can learn. The guy's request to pay you $50 extra for a second ejaculation seems off-putting to me.

[Guest Love Bubble Butt]

In response to his question, you should have put it to him like this:

 

"My 'going' the first time is my responsibility. My 'going' the SECOND time is yours!"

[IM_Moore]

RE: I just started escorting and alreadyHey Guys it's m...

 

Dax it sucks what happened to you. Somepeople are simply assholes an this guy was one of them. The resource that DeeJ is being so coy about is a forum that no one is suppose to know about yet everybody seems to. It's the ESCORTS ONLY FORUM here ... and to get access to it HooBoy must approve it. Maybe send him an email and he will let you in. But keep in mind that the forum is of little to know value as you are in LA and most aren't in the same city as others and this guy can easily change everything but his looks. And even those can be changed enough to the point where if by chance another escort like Stef see's your post and gets a contact from this guy then he won't even remember it or the guy will already be meeting him by the time he knows it is the same person.

 

So dude it is a no win situation. You probably did the right thing by not making a scene ... it takes a lot of nerve to do that but even if he showed u the money he probably would have grabbed it and took off anyway.

 

As someone else mentioned in this thread most clients well at least me I will never show or pay an escort upfront, it is all based on trust. Sadfor u this guy broke that trust and it is really fucked up.

 

I.M Moore (far more and you're not or can't be)

[jackhammer91406]

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Dax,

I enjoyed meeting you and Aaron the other night at Numbers. You are a great guy and I feel badly about what happened to you. Having met you and seen how well developed you are, that guy is a fool for stiffing you and should count himself lucky that you didn't react badly because clearly even if he was a big guy, you are strong enough to have made him pay you. It says alot that you didn't get physical about it.

 

There are assholes in every business. You just met one. But you took the right approach by not escalating the negativity. That says volumes.

 

Guys, this man is a gentleman and whatever you preferences in escorts, ( gay, str8, bi), you couldn't do much better in the human being department than meeting Dax.

 

Dax, I look forward to buying you another drink sometime. Maybe even a pickup game of "touch" football.

 

Keep Smiling, yours is a stunner.

 

 

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[AaronWestin]

RE: I just started escorting and alreadyHey Guys it's m...

 

>you couldn't do much better in the

>human being department than meeting Dax.

Jackhammer, after reading this statement I am sad,

;( I thought that I was your sugardaddy and you were my little boytoy. In never occurred to me that you had another favourite. ;(

Our relationship is over so please come by me house and pick up your things, especially the inflatable doll that you try so hard to keep a secret. ;-)

Jackhammer you are the best

Dax, why didn't you call me about this. Screw it, it's happened to the best of us man. (I say that word far to much) It's good you didn't fight the guy as then the police get involved and you end up looking like a :+ . I'll hire you to make up for it Dax but you can't just sit there and look pretty, I'm going to make you into my little bottom!:7 hahaha

[jackhammer91406]

Kissing up to escorts

 

Aaron,

You promised not to tell about the doll!. Now as for being my sugar daddy, that's still in place. Don't tease me like that. I have plenty of good things to say about you as soon as you get stiffed..er I mean topped..er. I mean..oh well, I'll cum by and pick up my stuff.

 

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[ted]

RE: I just started escorting and alreadyHey Guys it's m...

 

I never pay up front, but I certainly would show up front if asked. I don't normally do in calls on a first meeting so have never been asked. But for outcalls with someone new I always have the money within sight-laying on the desk typically, or on a table somewhere. No one has ever taken it before the session or even made mention of it until I gave it to them at the end. I think the refusal to even show the money was definitely a red flag.

[KY_TOP]

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> I'll hire you to

>make up for it Dax but you can't just sit there and look

>pretty, I'm going to make you into my little bottom!:7

>hahaha

 

Now if Dax will do that I might reconsider my passing on him when in LA.}(

I'd even settle for a little kissing and "receiving" oral.:+

[Guest Merlin]

RE: Kissing up to escorts

 

If you have a phone number or email address, I suggest you call or write him a very clear message. Hopefully if you leave a message some else, like his wife or boyfriend will see it.

[VaHawk]

RE: Kissing up to escorts

 

Well, why stop there? Why not take out a full page ad in the newspaper or rent a billboard?

 

In case you haven't noticed prositution is illegal! Just like drugs. If you drive to the drug market to buy drugs and you get ripped off or you rip off the dealer are either of you going to announce the fact? Call the cops and complain?

 

In other words, GET REAL! I think the escort acted rationally in this case and should just leave it as is. Just as many and most likely more clients have been ripped off (what the hell, I'll give you two dollars for every escort ripped off if you give me one dollar for every client ripped off). When you engage in illegal activities there is nothing you can do about these situations except to chalk it up and learn from the experience.

 

"Sometimes you're the windshield"

"Sometimes you're the bug"

[Doug69]

>The only advice I would give is to think about your initial

>conversation with the guy to see if any "red flags" were there

>from which you can learn. The guy's request to pay you $50

>extra for a second ejaculation seems off-putting to me.

 

I agree totally - how very crass and declasse of this gentleman to try to offer cash for additional sex acts. Why, he acted like he was talking to a prostitute or something - the nerve! How thoroughly "off-putting"!

[Trixie]

RE: Windshield/bug

 

VaHawk, I LIKE that!!! I wish Dr. Seuss were still alive, he could've made a great little children's book around that notion.

Trix

[VaHawk]

RE: Windshield/bug

 

"Silly rabbit, trix are for kids"! Hi, Trix, hope you are doing great tonight. I wish I could take credit for that little bon mot, but since I can't I put it in quotes. It is from a song, I don't know who the lyricist is or how many times it has been recorded, but I do know that Mary Chapin Carpenter had a HUGE hit with that song. I LOVE it as it sums up life so well.

 

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