Escort prices in Spain

[latinolover]

My regular escort that I've been visiting in Madrid nearly every month for three years has announced that I've been getting him far too cheap (I live in England). Typically, I'd arrive on a Friday night, meet him in a bar, then spend that night and the Saturday and Sunday evening and night with him in my hotel, with very nice sex, but effectively rationed to once per day because he's a complete monster in the mornings. Usually we'd also meet up for lunch socially in his 'lunch hour' from his other work. Then I'd go back to England on the Monday morning. For this I gave him 1200 euros plus some presents and shopping etc.

Now he says he wants 3000 euros because he claims that's what other clients pay him for the same experience. He's not going to get it because a) I can't afford it and b) I don't think it's worth that amount.

So my question is; do some guys really pay that sort of money for a weekend? Has he met some celebrity or lottery winner? Or should I assume he's just got sick of me and wants to end the arrangement? Any help or advice welcome please.

[+ glutes]

Well, this is what a worshiped / 'top-rated' escort is charging in the States:

 

 

Orientation: Gay Kissing: Yes Anal: Versatile Oral: Both Kink: No

Roles: Companion

Calls: Out Only

Smoking: No

Rates for time only(US $): Session=2200

 

Date: 11/2004 Type: Weekend Rate: 2200

Rating: Recommended Hire Again? Yes

Where Found? Hooboys M4M

Reviewed Before? Yes Match Description? Yes Lived up? Yes

 

 

Think your escort is getting a bit avarice...

[JT Brooklyn]

Most Established NYC Escorts Rates will be from $800-$1000 for any one 12 hr period. So I am guessing the Euro Guys, if they can "get it" will charge close to that now adays. The thing a little Strange would be the fact you have a "3 year History" and he treats you as a "First Timer" with his Rates? Most Escorts will "Discount" for any type of "Great Steady Client" as you have demonstrated you are. Maybe it is time for YOU to move on.. :+ :+ :+

[HotdadENYC]

I don't think there's anything wrong with wanting a Cost Of Living Increase, after three years. Sounds reasonable.

 

However, given that you HAVE known this escort for three years, and that by your own admission, you don't spend the entire weekend with him, I think his proposed increase is way out of line.

 

SO, perhaps he CAN get that from other clients. Good for him.

 

AND, perhaps he does want to end your relationship by inflating the price. Oh well, maybe you should just oblige him and agree to a termination.

 

Madrid doesn't strike me as the kind of city where there would be a lack of fine, available escorts to meet your needs.

 

The subject of escort prices has been discussed far and wide on this forum, but ultimately, you have to pay what you feel comfortable with.

 

hd NYC

[londonbear]

Well a quick check on those who advertise rates on rentboy.com and the recent reviews for Madrid on here suggests that the typical rate is 150 euro per hour, with the prices going from 100 to 200 per hour.

 

Now that is the hourly rate but as none quote a weekend rate, the closest I can give is the overnight rates and the daily rates (presumably 24 hours) Overnight rates vary but seem to be around 500 -600 depending on he guy and the day rate was 900. Judging by that and the service provided, it does seem to be pushing it to try for 3000 however it does look like he is not being unreasonable in asking for more than the 400 a night you have been giving him.

 

I presume your trips are to see this guy and not for any other reason so I cannot help thinking that you must be spending at least £1200 a month by the time you take air fare and hotels into account. Maybe you should be asking yourself if you have crossed a line from a client/escort relationship into something else in your own mind whereas he still regards you only as a regular client. Keeping him overnight but nor being able to use his services in the morning when you say he is very keen does make him one expensive hot water bottle.

 

Perhaps the question to ask him is why he has not mentioned it before. Look at it from his point of view - he has been charging you less than the going rate. If he gets that randy in the morning and you constantly refuse his advances, is he fed up with the rebuttal and decided he will indeed treat you just like any other client? Things have obviiously got to a situation where you cannot continue with your previous pattern. If you want to continue hiring this guy you are either going to have to do it less often or maybe you should only hire hime for an hour or so each night just for the sex and acknowledge that he will not/cannot give you anything else you are trying to buy. Is he regarding your lunches as the freebie social meeting you think it is or is the meter running?

 

Sorry to be blunt but I think you have to examine what you actually getting for your cash rather than what you have led yourself to believe you are gettig.

[HotdadENYC]

>in my hotel, with very nice sex, but effectively rationed to

>once per day because he's a complete monster in the mornings.

 

Perhaps you can clarify this one point. I took it to mean that your escort is disagreeable and obnoxious in the morning (not unlike me), therefore precluding any sex.

 

Others took it to mean that he is VERY ready, willing and able and you are not.

 

I'm just curious.

 

hd NYC

[latinolover]

It's most definately that he's disagreeable and obnoxious in the mornings, leaving me groaning with frustration because he refuses sex. When he's good, he's spectacular, the best I've ever known and my reason for continuing to see him, but the rest of the time he's complete shit.

[londonbear]

My apologies for getting the wrong end of the stick about the mornings. Sounds like if he aint performing you should avoid having him there in the morning. Maybe you should ask him his hourly rate and hire him just for a sex session each night you are there and then send him on his way. Maybe it is time to sample what else is on the menu.

[latinolover]

I think it's probably come to that, obviously there is this whole issue about whether this guy is doing his job properly.

 

But I'm also curious to know if there are guys out there who actually do pay 3000 euros or that sort of money on a regular basis for a weekend with an escort. It's one thing to note that some escorts quote these sort of prices for a weekend, but it doesn't necessarily mean they get any takers. From the client's point of view (if he's a regular working guy like me) it's a serious amount of money, and not actually viable. Moreover, in terms of value for money, it's easy to conclude that you'd have a lot more fun (over a longer period of time!) having 30 one-hour sessions.

[HotdadENYC]

hey lover, go for the 30 one hour sessions.

 

You'll have plenty to write about.

 

And I know I WOULD LOVE to read about it.

 

 

Good luck,

 

hd NYC

[Mouth]

I've been seeing an escort for many years now. He's a regular (though I see others). We started at $80 per session (as I said, we've been seeing each other for a long time). Over the years, I've upped the rates to the point where our sessions are now fully competitive with the average rate. But these have been for your standard one-hour session.

 

Frankly, his demand to double the fee seems mean-spirited. And by the way, you don't need to fly to Spain for this aggravation--there are plenty of fine British escorts availabe for very competitive rates. I'm inclined to think he's trying to tell you to move on. It happens.

 

You may have some period of adjustment until you find someone equally satisfying. But keep at it. It's a big world out there with a lot of hot guys.

[latinolover]

Thanks for all the responses, guys. But isn't there a single person out there who will confirm that they've ever spent this 'going rate' of 3000 euros (about £2200) for a weekend with an escort, or an escort who would confirm that he's received that sort of money. I'm beginning to think that these 'advertised' rates are some sort of fantasy. Maybe at the end of the day we all decide it's better value to go for 20 or 30 one-hour sessions.

[blumpet]

> Maybe at the end of the day we

>all decide it's better value to go for 20 or 30 one-hour

>sessions.

 

And I guess you would be right. You can get an escort in spain for a fee going from Euro 60 until 200.

http://www.adonis-madrid.com/ for euro 60.--

http://www.arrowmen.com/frameset_en_new2.htm for euro 150.--

 

Of course, it is only for one hour..... but I do not think that a guy who accept to have full sexual intercourse for only Euro 60.-- would refuse to stay the weekend for Euro 600.....

 

I may be wrong as I never keep the guy so long, but if you consider that he would have to wait in a sauna or any other place to get 10 different customers, and instead of that he would stay with you, going to the restaurant, make 2 or 3 time love, for the same earning, I suppose he should not hesitate:)

[latinolover]

This is my point, it's where logic conflicts with reality. I think, from a client's point of view, that an escort would think that a one-hour session is very hard work. He maybe can charge 100 euros. For this he has to pass a little time to become familiar to the client, indulge in some foreplay, get undressed, fuck the client of get fucked, maybe for a painfully long time, then get cleaned up, get dressed, take the money, say goodbye, and then hang around for hours trying to attract another complete stranger.

If, however, the client wants to do all this but pass the next 12 hours with the escort, probably only indulging in a delicious (free) meal in a good restaurant, then having the guy as a 'hot water bottle' for the night, fees of 400 or 500 euros are demanded, or, in my case now, 1000 euros. It makes me think that it should be made compulsory for all escorts to take a course in business studies.

[Luv2play]

I don't mean to be offensive about this but have you considered that this escort knows you pretty well by now and, being motivated by greed, has determined that he can put the squeeze on you for the extra $$$. You may not be aware but perhaps he has figured out that when push came to shove, you would give in and pay the higher amount demanded.

 

Or he may have set the stage for a negotiation, hoping to get 2400 or so Euros (double what you are paying him now). Either way, it seems a bit much to me. While it has been many years since I visited Madrid, I assume that 1200 Euros probably goes some way in covering his rent for the month, not bad, considering we are not talking about a sexual marathon here since he does not provide all-night and early morning activities. Frankly, on this basis alone, I would switch to only having a one or two hour session with the guy. When I hire overnight, I expect at least three sessions (evening, middle of the night and early morning (I know, I'm a sex pig)). But hey, I'm paying the freight and expect the deliveries! }(

[Ryan]

I think you're getting a deal. I pay $1K for an overnight, $1500-$2000 for 24 hours. Of course, I've worked out deals for extended weeklong trips where I pick up everything plus his fees. Maybe three times a year and with a guy I see regularly. And there ain't no such thing as "rationing." Just exhaustion.

[HotdadENYC]

I can't possibly agree with this. I don't think he's getting a deal at all, based on published asking prices of other escorts, especially those who specialize in overnights.

 

Notwithstanding that different locations warrant different asking prices, too much is too much.

 

AND, I don't think the real issue is HOW MUCH? Escorts ask what they think is fair and clients will either pay it or not.

 

In this case, the guy just wanted to know if it was appropriate for his weekend companion to NOW ask for at least double his usual fee.

 

I don't know what they call it in Spain, but in the US we call it an attempt at legal extortion.

 

hd NYC

[Retired Fly Boy]

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[londonbear]

>hhtp://www.gaymadridbest.com is a new escort site. Only top

>quality chicos so they say. Many porn stars from Prague are

>listed. GayMadridBest.Com:-)

 

I am not sure if this site or agency is entirely legit. Its pictures seem to have been scanned from the covers of Falcon Internatonal amd Pacific Sun videos and feature almost exclusively mid-European models. There appear to only be a few, if any Spanish guys on there and I believe some like George Vidanov are said to have retired. Unfortunatgely at present the East Europe link from the escort reviews page is down so I cannot check on these.

 

I think this agency may be best avoided until reports come back from visitors to Madrid.