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...ok guys...please educate me...i never quite know exactly where a masseur ends and an escort begins...which nyc masseurs allow you to suck them?...which ones will penetrate you?...do those "manus fortus" guys let you suck?..if masseurs are naked, do you just reach for them or do they tell you when?...how much more do they charge for these activities?...typically, i hire escorts because it is much clearer...byut some of these massage guys are so hot....thanks

[+ Oliver]

"It Depends"

 

To quote a noted poster (Franco) – “It depends …”

 

Of course, it is best to ask about these things when making an appointment. If the masseur has been reviewed (either here or on another site, such a massagem4m), the review(s) may give you a clue. If you haven’t done any of that (asking or researching), you can often tell by what happens as the massage progresses. If the masseur places “it” in or near your hand, if he stands at your head and does your back (leaning well over), if you put your hands on him and it is welcomed, if he becomes hard during all this – I think you can put two and two together. Of course, this all assumes that the masseur is nude. So, “it depends”! At the same time, if the information about him, or he says “no”, there’s your answer.

 

But, of course, the best is still to ask beforehand.

[ted]

RE: "It Depends"

 

It really does depend, but the good ones make it clear where there limits are, usually by body language, and this is one time where you often don't/can't discuss it beforehand. But as noted above, if the massage is done in the nude,if the masseur has strategically placed "it" in or extremely near your hand/mouth, he generally expects that you will be touching/sucking. Nothing ventured nothing gained and there always is that 2 letterword no, if you overstep his bounds. If he isn't naked, and you expected him to be, something like "one of us is overdressed!" will either elicit a shedding of some clothing or a response letting you know there won't be any extras today. Generally, the really good ones do give a good massage so there are specific times when they are open to touching and other times when they are concentrating on massaging and you are impeding their efforts. Unless you are really dense it isn't too difficult to know which is which. The above comments concern guys who only advertise as massage therapists. If someone is running both an escort ad and a massage ad, they are obviously open to much more, but it then becomes a rate difference between a massage session and an escort session. Then I often ask for a combo rate - an hour massage and an hour escort

[timothyb]

RE: "It Depends"

 

>It really does depend, but the good ones make it clear where

>there limits are, usually by body language, and this is one

>time where you often don't/can't discuss it beforehand. But as

>noted above, if the massage is done in the nude,if the masseur

>has strategically placed "it" in or extremely near your

>hand/mouth, he generally expects that you will be

>touching/sucking. Nothing ventured nothing gained and there

>always is that 2 letterword no, if you overstep his bounds.

>If he isn't naked, and you expected him to be, something like

>"one of us is overdressed!" will either elicit a shedding of

>some clothing or a response letting you know there won't be

>any extras today. Generally, the really good ones do give a

>good massage so there are specific times when they are open to

>touching and other times when they are concentrating on

>massaging and you are impeding their efforts. Unless you are

>really dense it isn't too difficult to know which is which.

>The above comments concern guys who only advertise as massage

>therapists.

 

Also, I wanted to point out that just because a masseur does the massage in the nude , does not mean he provides escort work.I have been doing so for a long time and I tell my clients that I provide oral or anal extras. I provide my massage sessionsin the nude, because massage has been performed that way for hundreds of years and it helps my clients feel more comfortable with any of their own body issues they may have.

 

Timothy B

 

http://www.malebodywork.com

[Guest Dan]

RE: "It Depends"

 

Here we go again...

 

If you hire a masseur and he's charging the going rate which is about $70-$80 here in L.A. and he does it in the nude, he will usually say that there is touching allowed. He will most likely give you a release. Some are both and make it clear that you can hire them for a combo session.

 

As I've written before, most of my masseurs have at least gone down on me, and a number of those have also let me top them. However, there was no agreement before hand on how far things would go. Therefore, whenever I've posted here about masseurs, I never wrote about what I did with who. It's not fair to say that a masseur that's letting me fuck him as part of a masssage session lets every client top him, especially if he's doubling as an escort as well.

 

Hope this clears things up!

 

Dan Dare

http://male4malescorts.com/reviews/dandarela.html

[timothyb]

RE: "It Depends"

 

>

>Also, I wanted to point out that just because a masseur does

>the massage in the nude , does not mean he provides escort

>work.I have been doing so for a long time and I tell my

>clients that I provide oral or anal extras. I provide my

>massage sessionsin the nude, because massage has been

>performed that way for hundreds of years and it helps my

>clients feel more comfortable with any of their own body

>issues they may have.

>

>Timothy B

>

>http://www.malebodywork.com

 

Sheeesh, I really need to proofread my postings sometimes =)

 

I just wanted to clarify my above statement. I meant to say that I DO NOT provide oral or anal extras, my massage sessions are all client focused using my hands. While many "masseurs" are merely escorts masquarading as such, it seems that clients expectations are about expecting "extras".

 

As my 26 reviews on http://www.massagem4m.com/masseur.cfm?id=11547&m=readReviews" Massage M4M plainly state, I accomplish as much by just using touch as others do by going beyond what is sensual massage.

 

Namaste, Timothy B