Dancers or escorts

[Edward]

I am planning a trip to Montreal this summer. I will be stopping at the famous male strip bars. I may want to ask a dancer to my hotel room. How do I ask and what services he provides and fee?

[+ purplekow]

I am planning a trip to Montreal this summer. I will be stopping at the famous male strip bars. I may want to ask a dancer to my hotel room. How do I ask and what services he provides and fee?

 

I might try something like: How much to come back to my room and fuck?

 

But if you are shy, you might just inquire if he will do a private for you in a hotel. By the way, you WILL want to take a dancer to your hotel room, the only question is which one. Don't forget, even if this is your first time asking, it is not likely to be his first time answering this question.

[+ newatthis]

I am planning a trip to Montreal this summer. I will be stopping at the famous male strip bars. I may want to ask a dancer to my hotel room. How do I ask and what services he provides and fee?

 

If you have the patience to search the strip clubs forum, you'll find this topic discussed over and over again. It's probably worth doing simply because different posters have different experiences and insights to share.

 

Here are my observations.

 

A very small number of dancers are also escorts with ads on various sites. Others do not escort at all, ever. The ones who fall between these two extremes want to be able to pick and choose the customers they do privates with (that's the common term in use in the strip clubs). As a general rule, the dancers in this third category are not going to respond positively to the "do you do privates?" or "will you come back to my hotel?" questions coming from someone they've just met. If you've spent time talking with them, buying them a drink, and paying for private dances in the back, they will know you and are more apt to say "yes." This could even take more than one day.

 

(Personal aside: the first time I ever asked a dancer to come to my hotel, he said he didn't do that. I was really smitten with him, so I continued doing private dances with him that day and the following day -- this was back when all the clubs charged $10/song for private dances. On the 3rd day, he came over and told me he'd be willing to come to my hotel. His explanation: "Now I know you're a nice guy.")

 

Before concluding the deal, it's very important to find out whether your particular heartthrob dancer refuses do things you consider essential, and to reach a firm agreement about price and time. Once he's said "yes" to the private, he will not be embarrassed by your explicit questions about these things. And if he is, or is evasive in his answers, drop him!

 

Finally, in my experience, very few dancers have the skills, sexual or social, that a good escort has. You can get a sense of what I mean by reading about G and T in the report on my recent trip.

 

If this is your first trip to Montreal, you'll have plenty to enjoy in the clubs without worrying about whether you're going to succeed in luring a dancer to your room. You might want to try an agency -- there are quite a few escort agencies in Montreal. I haven't used them myself, but I've had good reports about Tender Moments (primarily twinks) from a friend, and another friend has good experiences with other agencies -- can't remember which ones right now.

 

Have fun and report back here on your experiences.