Your thoughts please

[Greathands]

A few years ago, back in Hooboy days, I saw a certain escort for an extended overnight. It was to start at 6PM for dinner and continue until 8AM. Around 10PM, while I wasn't looking, the escort left the hotel and took his full fee. I wrote a review detailing the encounter, which was on the old site. Because of the change to Daddy's, that review is no longer listed.

 

This escort participates on this board from time to time. A while ago he created a new username by adding the name of an agency that he started working for.

 

A friend of mine recently considered hiring him, but then noticed that he is no longer appeared on the agency website, even though he continues to use that name. I contacted that agency (a very reputable one that is well-revered on this site) to see if he worked for them or not. I was told that he no longer works for them for the same reason that I wrote the negative review. Luckily, my friend chose another escort.

 

I see that the said escort still continues to use this message board ... which I have found to be invaluable in choosing escorts ... to advertise. It concerns me that unsuspecting clients don't have access to less-than-stellar reivews from the past and may also be under the impression he is associated with a reputable agency, which he is not.

 

So, my question is ... should I just let it go or should I post a "buyer beware" remark when he advertises? I don't want it to seem like I'm stalking him, but I also don't want others to have to go thru what I and others have experienced.

 

Thanks for your thoughts.

[BaronArtz]

Here are my thoughts, for whatever they are worth: your description has basically given it away already. Let me guess: adam_maximum?

 

I personally see nothing wrong in posting a factual 'buyer beware' message if you have indeed been ripped off. However, be prepared to get an unpleasant response from the person in question, possibly leading to a pi**ing match.

 

Having said that, I am a newbie here. This is really a question for the site's administrators, or for posters with more experience than I have.

[wayout]

...I contacted that agency (a very reputable one that is well-revered on this site) to see if he worked for them or not. I was told that he no longer works for them for the same reason that I wrote the negative review.

 

 

 

My suggestion is to definitely post details. It would be a great service to everyone on this board. Ideally if you could somehow convince the agency he once worked for to also confirm the reason he no longer works for them then that would be ideal.

 

It is likely there will be a reaction and possibly a backlash from the posting. But still I think it would be a valuable service that this forum is intended to provided.

[Scorpio]

It's not too difficult to figure out who you meant. I have sent several private warnings to posters regarding him myself. However, don't post negative things to his travel ad, that's generally frowned upon around here and could give the impression of stalking. We already have a few of those around here as it is.

 

Make a post in Deli if you like but remember that you can't review him there. It might be better to what until someone asks a question regarding him or at the very least reviving an old thread in which someone asked a question regarding him.

 

I was tempted to comment on his most recent travel posting as well, when he claims that he looks better than the picture that he currently sent Daddy to post with his reviews. In point of fact, he looks exactly like that picture as recently as 2 months ago. However, he no longer looks anything like the pictures in the current version of his online ads.

 

He announced a few weeks ago that he'd found a new live-in situation in LA and was retiring. But it's starting to look like that must have fallen through.

 

For the record, when I met him; he was nice enough stayed for the allotted time but it definitely wasn't anything review worthy good or bad.

[Dave]

isn't that the whole point of daddy's, anyway? you guys can write about us escorts - good or bad - to help other guys as they decide who to hire. it makes total sense to me that you would post again about that guy. not because you are a stalker, but because a) the change from hooboys to daddy's meant that the original review got lost, and b) the guy never resolved it with you. what he did was just plain wrong, and it affects all of us - those who hire and those who are hired - in this industry.

[EXPAT]

I would expose the facts right here and stick to the facts and ignore any backlash. The clients that want to be warned will be and that is the ultimate value isn't it?

[Guest greatness]

hmm

 

I don't think you should be afraid of any backlash. Other people should be warned. I one time gave a full overnight fee and sent one home right away. Unfortunately there are escorts who only want money without providing a proper service or any intention to do so. I tell you, if one can't be faithful to his job then he's probably not good at other things either.

 

I would expose the facts right here and stick to the facts and ignore any backlash.

[BaronArtz]

To be perfectly straightforward: NOTHING pi**es me off more than seeing people being ripped off by scam artists. Go right ahead and expose the bastard.

[Guest zipperzone]

I don't think you should be afraid of any backlash. Other people should be warned. I one time gave a full overnight fee and sent one home right away. Unfortunately there are escorts who only want money without providing a proper service or any intention to do so. I tell you, if one can't be faithful to his job then he's probably not good at other things either.

 

Why would you be hesitant to post his name due to the possibility of some "backlash"? Like who gives a sh**? It's not like he's going to come and beat you up!

[Greathands]

Thanks to everyone who provided their opinions.

 

Just to clear something up ... I'm not afraid of backlash or a pi**sing match (as Baron puts it).

 

My concern was ...

1.) I know we're not supposed to use the message center for reviews or to grind an ax.

2.) My experience was far too long ago to write another review.

and ... most importantly ...

3.) I wasn't sure if my commenting on a past experience in the travel section was allowed.

 

So .... having read your responses ... and awaiting any comments from a moderator or daddy about what is allowed in the travel section ....

 

Yes, it was Adam_Maximum ... or should it be Adam_FormerlyOfMaximum.

 

Yes, he is rather goodlooking.

Yes, he is rather charming.

But from my experience, he's nothing more than a scheming thief.

 

Buyer beware!

[imrthr]

Thanks to everyone who provided their opinions.

 

Just to clear something up ... I'm not afraid of backlash or a pi**sing match (as Baron puts it).

 

My concern was ...

1.) I know we're not supposed to use the message center for reviews or to grind an ax.

2.) My experience was far too long ago to write another review.

and ... most importantly ...

3.) I wasn't sure if my commenting on a past experience in the travel section was allowed.

 

So .... having read your responses ... and awaiting any comments from a moderator or daddy about what is allowed in the travel section ....

 

Yes, it was Adam_Maximum ... or should it be Adam_FormerlyOfMaximum.

 

Yes, he is rather goodlooking.

Yes, he is rather charming.

But from my experience, he's nothing more than a scheming thief.

 

Buyer beware!

 

 

Good for you for coming forward!

[Guest Adam_Maximum]

Adam wants to be your boyfriend. forever

 

I think people have a right to their opinions. I have seen over 1000 men. I have only 3 complainers. HaHa!! I am a college grad now (NYU) and I make legit films!! I put myself through college 50,000 a year!! I have a mercedes truck $100,000 condos $1,000,000 worth haha!! I am married too!! haha!! I am a father too of a six year old!! Haha.... I am not rippin anybody off...sometimes ya'll are super ugly and stinky if you take a shower to don't snore maybe somebody would stay wit you all night!!! wash up and then get back to me!! Haha!! and I never had an std either so you dirty boys stay the F%%% away too!! haah!!

 

Thank you to the guy that said i was good looking charming and smart, cause thats what i am and thats why i always win cause people fall in love wit me haha ,, many people actually!! haah!! cause i am an amazing person...so go screw to the complainers, i treat good people great and bad people horribly, so beware !!!

[Lankypeters]

I think people have a right to their opinions. I have seen over 1000 men. I have only 3 complainers. HaHa!! I am a college grad now (NYU) and I make legit films!! I put myself through college 50,000 a year!! I have a mercedes truck $100,000 condos $1,000,000 worth haha!! I am married too!! haha!! I am a father too of a six year old!! Haha.... I am not rippin anybody off...sometimes ya'll are super ugly and stinky if you take a shower to don't snore maybe somebody would stay wit you all night!!! wash up and then get back to me!! Haha!! and I never had an std either so you dirty boys stay the F%%% away too!! haah!!

 

Thank you to the guy that said i was good looking charming and smart, cause thats what i am and thats why i always win cause people fall in love wit me haha ,, many people actually!! haah!! cause i am an amazing person...so go screw to the complainers, i treat good people great and bad people horribly, so beware !!!

 

You can't spell, punctuate or construct an effective sentence that's free of mechanical errors. You graduated from NYU? I went to NYU. I know NYU students. You didn't go to NYU.

[Txpaytoplay]

I think people have a right to their opinions. I have seen over 1000 men. I have only 3 complainers. HaHa!! I am a college grad now (NYU) and I make legit films!! I put myself through college 50,000 a year!! I have a mercedes truck $100,000 condos $1,000,000 worth haha!! I am married too!! haha!! I am a father too of a six year old!! Haha.... I am not rippin anybody off...sometimes ya'll are super ugly and stinky if you take a shower to don't snore maybe somebody would stay wit you all night!!! wash up and then get back to me!! Haha!! and I never had an std either so you dirty boys stay the F%%% away too!! haah!!

 

Thank you to the guy that said i was good looking charming and smart, cause thats what i am and thats why i always win cause people fall in love wit me haha ,, many people actually!! haah!! cause i am an amazing person...so go screw to the complainers, i treat good people great and bad people horribly, so beware !!!

 

Your response speaks much of your character.

[MsGuy]

" i was good looking charming and smart, cause thats what i am and thats why i always win cause people fall in love wit me haha ,, many people actually!! haah!! cause i am an amazing person"

 

Classic kamikaze post.

[imrthr]

You can't spell, punctuate or construct an effective sentence that's free of mechanical errors. You graduated from NYU? I went to NYU. I know NYU students. You didn't go to NYU.

 

 

+ 1 = right on - - - -

 

What else did he write that is misstated?

[MsGuy]

+ 1 = right on - - - -

What else did he write that is misstated?

 

"Yes, he is rather goodlooking.

Yes, he is rather charming.

 

But from my experience, he's nothing more than a scheming thief.

Buyer beware!"

 

Did the nit even realize he was quoting Greathands for the premise to his last paragraph?

[jgoo]

Wow...total self destruction with his attempt to counter the accusations. Sometimes it is better to let things die out rather than try to respond and ultimately adding fuel to the fire. Even if he is totally innocent of the accusations, he comes off so badly in his reply that I doubt anyone would want to hire him any longer with that attitude (unless it was kinky sex and they could tape his mouth shut).

[JoshAB]

good looking charming and smart

 

And 5'7". Short man's complex.

[+ purplekow]

I cant imagine a more damaging posting than this. Wow he may be good looking to some anyway, on the outside, but what an ugly ugly person this is. I believe the post which names him as a thief. I believe this man is a coward.

By the way, just about any idiot with a dick can have a child, it takes a lot more that he has shown here to be a father. I hope for the child's sake that the mother has the sense to dump this loser before he has any significance in that child's life.

[Romann]

And 5'7". Short man's complex.

 

You just had to go there...!

[JT Brooklyn]

This KID has definitely gone thru Hard Times!

 

Whatever they were this isn't the Goodlooking & Great Body BUT a little absorbed with himself Guy I hungout with 5 Years Ago!

 

As they say.. "You've gone a long way Baby"..In the Wrong Direction!

[JT Brooklyn]

And 5'7". Short man's complex.

 

OH! That would be the "Napoleanic Complex"!

 

Usually Overcome at the Gym!

[alanalt]

Wow, if there's been a better example of the old adage 'it's better to keep your mouth closed (or, in this case, your hands off the keyboard) and be thought a fool than to open it and remove all doubt', I cannot recall seeing it...

 

Adam, thanks for that honest reply - you've just gone and reinforced Greathands' warning more than anything else could have done!

 

Alan

[alanalt]

And 5'7". Short man's complex.

 

While I recognize the temptation to say that was probably irresistible, Josh - that was definitely unfair to the guys around here like Romann and Sean Knight...

 

Alan